That year the flowers bloomed 1981

Chapter 1114 Girls should be raised in wealth (two in one)

"Aunt, although there is an old saying that goes 'raise boys in poverty and girls in wealth', raising them in wealth is not just about giving them money. We also need to find ways to enrich our daughters' horizons and enhance their ability to live."

"When I went to Hong Kong Island and Lighthouse, I met some children from wealthy families. They were all very independent. They were deliberately trained to have a sense of "value exchange" since childhood, and they could only get pocket money by doing housework."

“Although the cultural habits overseas are different from ours, and I don’t completely agree with what people do overseas, there are some ideas that we can learn from.”

Li Ye moved a chair and sat down, patiently discussing the "parenting tips" with his sister-in-law Li Mingxiang.

In fact, he didn't see many rich kids when he went to Hong Kong Island and the Lighthouse, but when he was in college and working in the company in his previous life, he saw many children from wealthy families.

After observation, Li Ye found that the children of those who won the lottery and those whose families were relocated were more likely to spend lavishly and frequently change their luxury cars and girlfriends.
Many children from families who made their fortunes through production and trade "live a hard life". Occasionally, there are a few who are well-off, but their financial resources are limited and they are definitely not the "young masters of chaebol families" depicted in TV novels.

Girls may be better off, after all, girls need to be raised in wealth, and their families provide them with more living expenses, but it is definitely not the case that a piece of clothing costs tens of thousands of dollars, and all bags are luxury goods.
But many boys are miserable. They are wearing cheap goods all over. The brand of their shoes is even worse than that of many children from ordinary families. Their monthly salary is only two or three thousand. It is already good enough if their parents can give them five thousand. If their monthly salary is over ten thousand, then he must have a very "doting" mother.

Li Ye once asked a classmate like this, and he explained that he was still in the "not making money" stage, and did not have a thorough understanding of how to obtain and manage money.

At this stage, if his family gives him too much money, his parents will worry that "all problems will be solved by money", causing him to lose interest and ability to learn other life skills.

Li Ye suddenly realized, do those young masters who have tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of pocket money every month still have the mind to study and think?

He casually took out a wad of banknotes and immediately turned into a dormitory godfather and a love prince, surrounded by all kinds of godchildren and fair-skinned young ladies.
Homework, attendance, and emotional value are all maxed out at once, and I can't even understand what "struggle" and "effort" mean.

After hearing what Li Ye said, Li Mingxiang said in great distress: "Xiao Ye, I also know that I shouldn't spoil my child, but your uncle and I worked so hard to earn money, isn't it for her to spend? I can't take it to my coffin, right?"

"You just made a few bucks? Do you think you're rich?"

Grandma Wu Juying said sarcastically, "Have you ever seen a rich man? Half of the county's land belongs to his family. The county magistrate has to consult with his family when he wants to do something. He has connections in the court.
But even children from such wealthy families have to work in the fields, weeding and harvesting wheat. If they are lazy and don't learn their lessons, they will still be whipped by their fathers and roll on the ground. Can your Zhao family compare with them?"

"Mom, don't call me Old Zhao's family, Old Zhao's family. My last name is Li too!"

Li Mingxiang was annoyed by Wu Juying's constant calling her "your Zhao family", so she mustered up the courage to retort.

But Wu Juying immediately hit back: "Don't say that. We don't have any daughters or sons in the Li family. Isn't Xiaoye better at making money than you? Isn't Xiaoyu from a better family than Xiaowen? Why aren't they that spoiled?"

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Li Mingxiang, who had just ignited the will to resist, completely extinguished her anger. The money she earned this year was unimaginable in the past. Her husband Zhao Yuanchao also had a smooth career and was definitely a Brahmin in the county. But if she compared herself with Li Ye and Wen Leyu, she should not compare them! It hurts her self-esteem.

"Mom, I was wrong. I know I was wrong."

Li Mingxiang was depressed and aggrieved, and said with some resentment: "I will tell Xiaowen later that the family still owes a large loan and is starving, so she will have to support herself in the future. If she doesn't work, she will have no food to eat."

"Aunt, you are wrong again."

Li Ye quickly comforted Li Mingxiang: "Aunt, you have made more money, and my uncle's work is going well. This is the reason why Meiwen can hold her head high and hold her chest high. No matter what difficulties she encounters, she is not afraid.
No matter how much money you make in the future, you can reveal a portion to Meiwen so that she doesn’t have to worry about the future, but you should also remind her that if she doesn’t have the ability to make money, then she has no qualifications to inherit the assets.”

"And if you keep it a secret from Meiwen, it will easily cause her to misunderstand her own conditions and make her unsure of her position when dating others in the future."

Li Mingxiang was stunned for a long time before she asked Li Ye in confusion, "What does it mean to be unsure of your position?"

"that is."

Li Ye thought about it and felt that it was hard to say.

But in his previous life, he heard his classmates talk about an example of a failed "poor son".

The boy's parents were engaged in the kind of "making a fortune in silence" business. They usually kept a low profile and to outsiders they seemed to be no different from those small vendors who worked from dawn to dusk, but in fact the family had already accumulated tens of millions.

However, the boy's parents were afraid that their son would become a spendthrift, so they constantly instilled in him the idea that "you are a child from a poor family, you must be self-reliant", and they were "harsh" with their son when it came to living expenses.

For the specific situation, you can refer to the Happy Twist film "Catching Dolls", in which the billionaire played by Shen Teng pretends to be poor and lets his son pick up waste, and the parents of this family are not much better.

The boy is very similar to the kid in the movie, very motivated, and worked hard to get into a very good university.

On the day they received the admission letter, my parents were overjoyed, lamenting that their way of training was absolutely correct. They even boasted to familiar business partners that their years of hard work had not been in vain.

But just two years later, the old couple regretted their decision.

Because their son brought back a girlfriend who was not comparable to them in any aspect in terms of height, appearance, IQ, temperament, family, etc.

The old couple strongly opposed it, because an excellent daughter-in-law would directly influence her grandchildren.

But the boy's resistance was equally strong. Even if the old couple introduced a better partner to that bastard, he would not marry anyone but her until death.

The boy's mother cried and asked, "Why?"

The boy replied: "I felt unprecedented tenderness and respect from her. Others laughed at me for being poor, but she didn't despise me. Others laughed at me for being stingy, but she encouraged me."

When the boy said this, there seemed to be a "light" shining on his face.

The young man who had lived in an extremely poor and difficult environment for more than ten years was easily captured by a girl.
More than ten years of experience of being raised in poverty did make this boy self-reliant and hardworking, but it also left him with an inferiority complex that will be difficult to erase for the rest of his life.

Therefore, those rich children that Li Ye had met, although their monthly living expenses were tight, had a basic understanding of their family's economic conditions.
They never feel inferior because of money, and they have very accurate judgment about friends or opposite sex who approach them actively.

After passing the stage of "learning to make money", they will gradually take over the family wealth, but at that time, they will not squander every penny.

Therefore, the prince's incognito visits and traveling around the world on a budget are a common way for parents to raise their children in poverty. This way, they will neither let their children become depraved because of money nor let them lose their normal self-esteem.

Being left behind among the common people and experiencing all the sufferings of the world is a copy of hell with completely uncontrollable consequences.

Perhaps under such difficult circumstances, the child could become an extremely outstanding Doudi-level powerhouse, just like those gods who started from scratch and achieved great things.

Perhaps because of his mentality, the child is lost in the crowd and has a dull personality, and may even be more introverted than some children from ordinary families who grow up happily at home.

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"Xiao Ye, tell Meiwen these words! I don't know what's wrong with this damn girl. She has become less and less obedient to me over the years. She gets annoyed after I talk to her for just a few minutes, but she believes in you the most. If you tell her to go east, she won't go west."

After listening to Li Ye's explanation, Li Mingyue, the aunt, was also touched, so she asked Li Ye to persuade Zhao Meiwen. She was very worried because her daughter had grown up and dared to talk back to her.

"Okay, leave it to me. In the future, ask Meiwen to come over often. If you feel wronged, talk to Xiaojuan and Xiaoyu. Don't keep it to yourself."

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Li Ye accepted the commission from his aunt. After all, she was his blood cousin, and he couldn't just watch her go astray, right?
Zhao Meiwen studied at Beijing Medical College for the past four years, which was too far from the Beijing University where Li Juan, Wen Leyu and Li Ye studied, so they had less contact with each other.
In the future, as long as she often contacts Li Juan, Wen Leyu and Fu Yiru, she will gradually change some of her ideas.

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At night, Wen Leyu talked to Li Ye about the issue of "raising girls in wealth".

"Li Ye, shouldn't you pay more attention to your daughter? Xiaodouer has always liked money since she was little, what will happen when she grows up? You can't give advice to others and leave your own daughter alone."

"I didn't ignore it!"

Li Ye looked at Xiaodou who was eavesdropping next to him and said deliberately: "It is indeed a problem that Xiaodou likes money. She is so young and doesn't know how to spend money. It is easy to waste it. Why don't you let her give you all the money she crushes for safekeeping!"

"Okay, I'll do it tomorrow."

Before Wen Leyu could finish his words, Xiao Dou'er came over and hugged Li Ye's thighs.

"Dad, I know how to spend money. One cent can buy candy, five cents can buy an ice cream, and eight dollars can buy a train. I won't waste a penny."

Li Ye was surprised and said, "You remember the price clearly, but you haven't even memorized the multiplication table, how can you spend money?"

Xiaodouer squinted his eyes: "But I can use a calculator!"

Wen Leyu suddenly asked angrily: "Did you use a calculator to do the arithmetic problems you did this afternoon?"

"No, no, really not. I counted on my fingers."

Xiaodouer quickly denied it and subconsciously covered her little butt with her two hands.

Many children in the 1980s and 1990s could recite Tang poems before going to school. Xiao Baoer could recite them. Xiao Douer felt that he could not compare with his brother in reciting poems, so he chose arithmetic and showed good talent.
But now it seems that she has gone too far.

Li Ye stopped Wen Leyu and said to Xiao Dou'er with a suppressed smile: "How about this! You give your New Year's money to mom in the future. When you grow up, I promise that mom will return you double. You give her one hundred and she gives you two hundred."

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Xiaodou'er's two big eyes began to blink rapidly, as if he was calculating what the annualized rate accumulated over more than ten years should be.

But she is too young after all, and she can even use her fingers to do addition and subtraction of two-digit numbers. How can she possibly figure out such a confusing account?
But there is one good thing about this little girl. When she can't figure it out, she will choose a reliable method.

She held Wen Leyu's arm and shook it gently: "Mom, why don't you help me put it in the bank! Just let grandma hold the passbook for me. When I grow up, if there is a hundred in the passbook, give me two hundred, and if there is two hundred, give me four hundred."

Wen Leyu angrily swung his arms and threw his daughter onto Li Ye.

"Get your daughter away quickly, you are plotting against me."

"Hahahaha~"

Li Ye laughed so hard that he fell backwards, and was full of admiration. [Don't worry, no one can cheat my daughter out of her money from now on.]

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On the third day after Li Ye finished his further studies, Ding Jiuchang, who had gone to Europe for study and investigation, also came back carrying large and small bags.

Li Ye opened all his packages, which were filled with car-related books and magazines, not even a bottle of Lafite.

Li Ye couldn't help but laugh and curse in his heart.

[I worked so hard to send this guy to Europe for such a long trip, but he didn't even bring back some local specialties as a gift for me? ]

But if Ding Jiuchang really gave Li Ye a gift, he would really curse him.

However, the bundles of automobile magazines that Ding Jiuchang brought back aroused great interest among the young people in the first branch. Not only Wu Yan and others from the technical department, but also young people from other workshops came to borrow and read them, and even scrambled for them.

"Are all overseas cars so beautiful? Look at this car. It's really innovative and advanced."

"Your copy is from three years ago, it's out of date. My copy is new this year, and the cars in it are much better than those three years ago. Overseas car technology is changing with each passing day, so we have to work harder."

"What are you doing reading this magazine in the stamping workshop? Hurry up and give it to me. Designing cars is the job of our technical department."

"What do you mean your job and my job? It was said in a magazine that plumbers and electricians can design classic cars. They are all mechanical majors. Why are you pretending to be so great?"

"What did you say? Who are you calling a show-off?"

"Just you, rough~"

Li Ye watched a group of young people fighting over a car magazine. It was as if he saw his best friends from the past fighting over the newly published anime about the best newcomer of the year.

You said that brothers can just watch it together, so why did you have to snatch it away and enjoy it alone?
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When Park In-je saw Ding Jiuchang coming back, he also greeted him cheerfully: "Old Ding, you have finally tasted foreign food. If you have any experience, you should share it with your colleagues so that everyone can learn more."

"Okay, okay, I'll sort it out later. I won't hide anything from you. I won't hide anything from you."

Ding Jiuchang readily agreed to Park In-je, and turned around to have a secret talk with Li Ye: "I just heard from Xiao Zhao and the others that Old Park has been disobedient for less than a month since he came here?"

Li Ye said sarcastically, "You've been hungry and full for too long, and now you suddenly see some delicacies, so you can't help but eat them secretly, right?"

Ding Jiuchang said in a deep voice: "What should we do? How about I report it to the higher-ups! It's not easy for us to get to where we are today, we can't let him corrupt the atmosphere."

Li Ye waved his hand and said, "Don't take the initiative. Wang Siyu will be back tomorrow, and I will do the operation. If you confront him, others will think that you are unwilling to be robbed of your position as section chief!"

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Ding Jiuchang was silent.

He worked in a branch factory from a few hundred people to several thousand people now. He also worked in the national distribution network. He saw that the opportunity was ripe, but Park In-ji took over the position. He must have been resentful.

Li Ye patted Ding Jiuchang on the shoulder and whispered, "Don't worry about anything. Bring me the investigation report I asked you to write. I'll polish it and submit it for you, and then wait for new arrangements."

"New arrangement?"

Ding Jiuchang licked his lips and didn't ask any more questions. Li Ye sent him out for inspection and asked him to submit an inspection report. It was obvious that he had already made plans. He just had to wait.

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The next day, Wang Siyu returned from Sichuan Province.

"Director Li, I have found out that Park In-gi used to have business dealings with a large transportation company in Sichuan Province.
This time, the batch of cars from the first branch factory was exchanged with a batch of cars from the main factory, but the price was not adjusted. However, I can't get any evidence of his corruption or bribery. The people in Sichuan Province are very tight-lipped.

Li Ye's face was gloomy, and he murmured: "Some things don't require evidence, just doubts are enough."

The ex-factory price of a car produced by a branch factory is not as good as that of the cars produced by the main factory, but its market price is higher than that of the cars produced by the main factory. It is like one needs to reduce the price to sell, while the other requires a premium to pick up the car.

Now Park In-ji has swapped the two batches of cars. Nothing can be seen from the factory invoices, and the factory may even suffer a loss. However, any insider can see the trick at a glance.

But on the afternoon before Li Ye was about to launch the attack, Park In-ji seemed to sense something and took the initiative to come to Li Ye's office. After entering, he closed the door.

Li Ye asked curiously, "Chief Park, why are you closing the door?"

Section Chief Park smiled awkwardly and said, "Director Li, I actually want to be honest with you."

[Hiss, are you going to confess and get leniency? ]

Li Ye took a deep breath and raised his brows.

If Park In-ji took the initiative to confess his mistakes and seek lenient treatment, then the firepower he had accumulated for so many days would be greatly reduced.

But Li Ye was wrong.

Park In-je smiled and said with a big smile on his face: "It's like this, Director Li. After I came to the first branch factory, I was a little uncomfortable at first.

But after a period of deep understanding, I recognize your leadership ability and have been inspired a lot. The success of the first branch is inseparable from your efforts, Director Li.
So I hope Director Li will forgive me for any misunderstandings I had before. I will definitely consider myself a member of the branch factory in the future."

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Li Ye was confused.

It turns out that Park In-je is not here to be honest, but to surrender.

A few days ago he said that he was a cadre recognized by the D Committee of the General Factory and Li Ye had no control over him at all. But now he has changed his words and said that he is a member of a branch factory. Isn't this change too fast?

So Li Ye was wondering if Wang Siyu's investigation in Sichuan Province had made him alert, so he was trying to get by at the last minute, hoping that Li Ye would let bygones be bygones?

This is as smart as taking off the puppet army's clothes and putting on gray military uniforms in 45.

So Li Ye did not agree directly, but just gave him a few perfunctory words to brush him off.

Park In-ji suddenly felt the pressure.

I have been working in a branch factory these days and have gradually felt the loss of power.

Since Qi Xiaoshun and Nie Ruiliang took charge of coordinating with the head office, they gradually stopped reporting to him and instead consulted directly with Li Ye.

And several other trusted subordinates, under the influence of sugar-coated bullets, also moved closer to the first branch.

Therefore, Park In-ji knew very well that if he could not get Li Ye's open support, he, the sales chief, would become a complete decoration.

Park In-je was on pins and needles for several days and finally had to seek support from Niu Hongzhang again to increase his chances of "surrendering".

[If you don't accept my surrender, I will make trouble for you until you are willing to accept me.]

This is just like Italy's pursuit of surrender during World War II. I surrender to you nicely and you are not willing. Then I will let you see the consequences of not accepting my surrender!
But before Park In-ji could get Niu Hongzhang's support, he got scolded by Niu Hongzhang instead.

"Are you crazy about money? You've only been at the factory for a month, and you've already embezzled tens of thousands of yuan. Do you know what the consequences will be? Do you know how many years of labor reform you will be sentenced to?"

Park In-je was stunned for a long time before he cried out, "Secretary Niu, who did you listen to to wrong me? I was ostracized in a branch factory, how could I possibly get tens of thousands of yuan?"

"Is it wrong to accuse you? Take a look at these materials. Which one of them is false? If they are not false, fill the holes quickly. Otherwise, the consequences will be very serious, so serious that you can't bear it."

Niu Hongzhang gritted his teeth and threw a pile of reporting materials at Park In-ji's face.

He was really going crazy.

This time it took the cooperation of so many people and so much effort to hammer Park In-ji into the first branch factory.

I had hoped that he could achieve some results, serve as an example to everyone, and continue to recruit people to the branch factory in the future.

However, after Park In-ji arrived at the branch, he not only failed to achieve any results, but was accused of falsely reimbursing entertainment expenses and replacing vehicles to make a profit from the difference.

Niu Hongzhang has been working for so many years and is familiar with the tricks of middle-level cadres like Park In-ji. He only took a closer look and guessed that Park In-ji was really in trouble this time.

When the meeting was voting, Li Ye opposed it so vehemently, and then people approved tens of thousands of entertainment expenses to you so confidently, and let you replace the planned vehicle so easily?

They are digging a hole for you to jump into!

Why are you so stupid?
Park In-ji picked up the report materials and became angrier and more scared the more he read them.

Because many of the reports are not based on real evidence, but theoretical speculations, and the speculations are extremely outrageous.

I only enjoyed benefits worth 10,000 yuan, so why did I get charged with more than 30,000 yuan?

The other benefits of more than 20,000 yuan were given to Sichuan Province!

(End of this chapter)