I am a small factory doctor re-walking my life.

This is not the first time that Women's Daily has interviewed Song Xiaohui. The reporter who came to host the interview knows all these taboos that should be paid attention to.

After the interview script was approved after several levels of review, the group met the real owner today.

Because they had been interviewed before, the two of them were considered old friends. After chatting for a few words, they got to the point. The interview went smoothly and came to the end soon. But as it was about to end, the reporter threw out Song Xiaohui was slightly startled by a question.

"Professor Song, how do you think we should coordinate the relationship between work and family?"

"Uh... Editor Bai, I don't quite understand what you mean by this question?"

The reporter who came to interview Song Xiaohui was no ordinary reporter. She was also the deputy editor of the newspaper.

"Professor Song, you must be very busy every day now. You have normal teaching work, you also have to take care of graduate students, you also have your own topics to research, and you even need to go out to give lectures frequently. I heard that you are still related to the government Experts hired by the department.

Any one of these tasks will take up a lot of a person's time, but you need to take care of so many at the same time, which will inevitably squeeze your free time. If you do a good job at work, you will definitely invest very little energy in family life. How do you coordinate the proportion of time occupied by work and life? "

"I still don't quite understand. Why do I feel that what you said means that work and life have become a multiple-choice question. It seems that you can only take care of one side. Is this what you mean, Editor Bai?"

"Haha, Professor Song, you are right to understand this way, because a person's energy is limited after all. If you invest too much here, you will definitely have to give up some on the other side."

"Will it be like this?" Song Xiaohui frowned and thought for a while and said, "I can't imagine what you are talking about. I only remember that my lover often said that work and life are multiple-choice questions for him, and both hands must be grasped. , both hands must be hard.

What I'm still confused about is why if you do well at work, you won't be able to take care of your family life. Isn't work meant to enjoy life better? I’m not boasting. For example, the paper I won the last prize for was written when I was in my third trimester of pregnancy, and it basically took shape when my son was three or four months old and breastfeeding.

Editor Bai, if I could only choose between work and family life as you said, then I guess I wouldn’t have that paper. "

When Song Xiaohui said this, Editor Bai was a little unable to take the words, but she was still a little unwilling to give up. What she wanted to express was that a successful woman left the pots and pans and trivial housework behind. She wanted to tell the majority of female compatriots, Don't spend all day around the stove, around the children, or around housework. If you step out from home, you may become the next successful person.

But obviously, Song Xiaohui would definitely not cooperate with her like this, just like the next question she asked.

"Professor Song, during the time when you were writing your thesis, my dear, were all the housework at home done by your spouse or hired people?"

"First of all, our family has never hired a nanny. My wife doesn't like strangers in the house. Secondly, Editor Bai, you should know who my wife is. You don't think he is more leisurely than me, right?
Not to mention that he wears many hats, just the position of chairman of Qinyao makes him busy every day, not to mention that he also has to take care of the research and development of new drugs. As a person who engages in macroeconomic theory research, in terms of work intensity, , which is completely incomparable to someone working in industry.

My wife is able to take care of work and family at the same time. She has never said anything about being busy at work. Today she just lays down at home and doesn’t care about anything. I am a person whose work intensity is not even one-tenth of his. How can you say that you don’t care about the work at home or the children?

Editor Bai, I can probably understand what you mean, but... I hope this topic will stop here and not be discussed any further.

For me, family has never been a bond, and housework has never been a trouble. Without housework, my grades would not be much higher than now. But without a family, I would feel that no matter how good my work is, it would be useless. Meaningless.

At this point, my wife and I have very similar ideas. The home belongs to the two of us. There is no question of who has to sacrifice more. It is built by the two of us working together. Moreover, if there is anything, I dare to say , but if you dare to publish it, can you publish it? "

Seeing the half-smiling expression on Song Xiaohui's face, Editor Bai's heart skipped a beat.

She seemed to have realized at this time that the woman in front of her was no ordinary successful woman. Her husband, her father, and even her father-in-law had many taboos.

If he tried to trick her, it would be like a birthday man eating arsenic because he thought he would live longer.

After figuring this out, just when she was about to change the topic, there was a knock on the office door.

"dong dong dong"

Song Xiaohui frowned slightly when she heard the knock on the door.

Everyone in the school should know what she is doing here, and if she can still find her, something must be wrong.

"Come in"

"Professor Song"

The person who came in was her assistant Wang Qiuhua, with an anxious look on his face.

"What's wrong Qiuhua, what happened?" Seeing her expression, Song Xiaohui stood up.

"Director Chen Yali came here with March. The child seems to have been stimulated by something at school, and his mood is a bit unstable."

"What about people?"

Song Xiaohui became anxious upon hearing this, raised her legs and walked out.

"It's coming, it's coming, my God, Xiaohui, I can't hold our March baby anymore."

Before she could walk out, Chen Yali walked in quickly holding March in her arms.

Think about it, a man who is just over 1.6 meters tall is holding a man who is nearly 1.4 meters tall and weighs 70 kilograms. Hey, he walked just 200 meters from the parking lot and went up to the second floor, almost missing Chen Yali. I'm so tired.

Seeing her mother, Xiao Sanyue, who had stopped crying, started crying again with her mouth curled up, and at the same time raised her arms to ask her mother to hug her.

Children are like this. When they are playing outside by themselves, they can endure the pain even if they get bumped. But once they see their parents, they will never stop crying.

"Hey, what happened to my house in March?"

When the child cried, Song Xiaohui felt very distressed, and she quickly reached out to take it. The little guy was too heavy, and she couldn't hold her for long even if she stood there. After taking it, she hurriedly turned around and sat on the sofa.

Chen Yali was just about to explain when she saw that there were still reporters in the office, and the bright cameras and cameras were still there.

"This is……"

"Oh, I'm the deputy editor of Women's Newspaper. My surname is Bai. I'm here today to interview Professor Song."

"Oh oh oh, I'm sorry to bother you."

"It doesn't matter. Our work is basically done. Besides, the next generation is more important. My child...what's going on?"

"Hey, don't mention it." Seeing that it was not disturbing her work, Chen Yali stopped worrying. She turned around and walked to her desk. Regardless of what happened, she picked up Song Xiaohui's water glass and took a sip of water.

After putting down the cup, he said: "Hui Hui, what happened today is the fault of the school, and even more of the child's parents. The child has congenital heart disease, but he didn't inform the school in advance when registering the child.

It was also March in our family. During the morning recess, he followed his father's example and took the pulse of the children. The first two children were fine. When it was the turn of the third little girl, he said a lot. Heap, the little girl started to cry.

This cry must have shocked the children in the same class. The teacher was in the office next door and rushed over. As a result, the child could not be coaxed. The more he cried, the worse he became. His lips were cyanotic and his face turned purple. When the school doctor arrived, As soon as I looked there, I realized something was wrong, so I contacted the provincial hospital's ambulance and sent the little girl to the hospital.

Okay, now, the teacher thought it was our March fault, so he called the parents to come over. Your Li Tang is hosting a very important meeting at the consultative conference today. Huzi answered the phone, and he If I didn't contact you, I came over to have a look.

No... the little girl's parents came over not long after I left. Only then did they make it clear that their daughter had a heart disease and could have an attack at any time.

I got angry when I heard this. This parent concealed his child's illness. He was not only irresponsible to his own child, but also extremely irresponsible to his classmates. After I criticized the school leaders and the parent, I ignored her and left March.

Liu Baiqing called me on the way here just now, and he may be here soon. "

After listening to Chen Yali's story, Song Xiaohui, who was sitting on the sofa, lowered her head and glanced at her son nestled in her arms.

Xiao Sanyue had stopped crying at this time, but her big eyes were still full of fear, which made Song Xiaohui tremble in her heart.

In seven years, she has never seen her son look like this, and the anger in her heart can't help but burst out. However, the deputy editor of the Women's Newspaper and his assistant have not left yet, so she can't say anything too extreme. Maybe he should comfort his son first.

"March"

"mother"

"Are you scared?"

"Yeah" Xiao Sanyue nodded pitifully.

"Then have you forgotten what you want to be when you grow up?"

"Hmm... I haven't forgotten, I want to be a doctor like my father."

This boy's wish troubled Li Tang. According to his idea, his son could do anything, even if he did nothing, he could be a leisurely rich second generation. In short, he should not study medicine.

But his little boy, San Sanyue, seems to be born to be a doctor. He has been particularly interested in Chinese medicinal materials since he was two years old. He is even more interested in his father treating others, and he will follow suit no matter how much he cries or makes trouble.

Calculating with his fingers, he has actually been studying medicine with Li Tang for almost five years now. It cannot be said that he is studying medicine. As a Chinese medicine apprentice, he starts from identifying medicines.

After several years of hard study, this little guy can basically recognize the seven or eight thousand kinds of Chinese medicinal materials recorded in the Chinese Herbal Medicine.

For example, in the pharmacy specially built by Li Tang at home, there are more than 500 Chinese medicinal materials commonly used in clinical Chinese medicine, including plant medicinal materials, animal medicinal materials, and mineral medicinal materials. There are no names on the medicine cabinet. This little guy can already accurately I took the medicine according to the prescription and there were no mistakes in the past year.

If the child is willing to learn, he can learn it. Of course, Li Tang will not forcefully stop him. As for his son, he will definitely teach him with all his heart. Now, he does not have to worry about whether his medical skills will be lost.

Hearing her son's answer, Song Xiaohui smiled slightly and continued: "But if you are afraid when you see other people getting sick, how can you be a doctor in the future? Have you ever seen your father be afraid when he sees patients? And the doctors in our hospital, you We usually call them senior brothers and senior sisters, have you ever seen your senior brothers and sisters cry when they see a patient?"

Xiao Sanyue is not very old, but because his father has brought out so many students over the years, his seniority has also risen with the tide.

In the hospital, the doctors never let him call him uncle or aunt. If he did, he would be called senior brother or sister. Although none of these doctors could officially worship Li Tang as his disciple, as long as he was a doctor from the affiliated hospital and Guan Hetang, no matter how old he was, Growing up, everyone had attended Li Tang's classes and regarded themselves as his students.

Traditional Chinese medicine is different from Western medicine. It pays more attention to inheritance. As long as this person is famous, it will be more valued than the school from which I graduated.

In recent years, as Guanhetang has blossomed all over the country, Xiao Sanyue also has brothers and sisters all over the country.

Xiao Sanyue was visibly stunned by his mother's words. At this moment, he could no longer care about fear, and tried hard to recall in his mind the behavior of his father and those senior brothers and sisters when they saw the patient.

Song Xiaohui continued talking without waiting for her son to say anything.

"March, do you still remember that last year when we went to the capital, your father's uncle, your uncle, was gone, and you kowtowed at that time? Were you afraid at that time?"

"I'm not afraid." "That's it. You weren't afraid even after my uncle passed away, so why should you be afraid today? Also, when we were walking around last year, someone got sick on the side of the road and gulped heavily. Vomiting blood, what did your father do?"

"Well...Dad rushed to save him and gave him an injection."

"Is your dad scared? That man vomited blood and even vomited it on your dad."

"Dad is not afraid." In Xiao Sanyue's eyes, dad is omnipotent.

"Then why are you afraid? If you are afraid and cry when you see someone sick, how can you be a doctor in the future? When a doctor, you see most patients, all kinds of patients."

Chen Yali had long been immune to this weird method of educating children from her friend's family, and she listened without any unnecessary reaction.

It was an eye-opener for Editor Bai and her assistant who had not yet left.

In fact, Song Xiaohui has no choice. If you say a child can remember a child's mental health problem, he may really forget it in less than two days. But if you say he will be completely healed in a day or two, it's not necessarily true. , it is very likely that he has buried this matter deep in his heart just because of the passage of time. Maybe one day something will bring back his memories.

For a child who has never seen many things, a very stimulating thing can sometimes have an impact on him that will last a lifetime.

As for her own son, of course Song Xiaohui wanted him to come out quickly. She could coax him, but it would not dissipate the shadow in his heart. The best way was to let him face it head on.

Only when he really faces this matter and figures it out for himself can the shadow in his heart dissipate and not cause him further harm in the future.

The little guy sat in his mother's arms, rolled his eyes and thought for a while, then without saying anything, he left his mother's legs and stood on the ground.

"Mom, I know." After saying that, he ran to Chen Yali who was leaning on the desk and gave her godmother a hug.

"Second mother, I made you worried just now."

"Hey! Our little Sanyue has figured it out." Chen Yali smiled and patted Sanyue's little head.

"You little guy, why are you so sensible? You've made us lose a lot of fun."

Xiao Sanyue knew that his godmothers' favorite thing to do was to tease him, and they all liked to see him embarrassed, so she rolled her eyes helplessly.

"Second mother, you should go back and tease Brother Xiao Fei. Brother Xiao Fei will be very cooperative."

"Hahaha……"

Seeing the embarrassment on Chen Yali's face, Song Xiaohui immediately became happy.

Tian Jun and Li Tang, the boy is a child, the girl is a good best friend, and they all know each other very well.

What these girls like to do most when they have nothing to do is to join forces to entertain their sons.

Among these five families, the eldest is the son of Ma Ping'an's family, who is already fifteen years old and in the first year of high school. The remaining sons of Tian Jun's family are thirteen, Qiao Mu and Du Chengdong's are both nine years old, and the youngest is Li Zexin, who is only seven. age.

But this is a son, Qiao Mu and Du Chengdong already have a second child.

Du Chengdong's second child is a son, who is four years old this year. Qiao Mu's second child is a daughter, who is only three years old this year. This is also the only girl in their family of five. Good guy, don't be too favored.

The bad taste of these mothers gave everyone from Ma Youjun, who is already in high school, to Li Zexin a headache. However, in order to avoid trouble, they had to act with all the mothers. Now that Xiao Sanyue directly exposed them, Song Xiaohui was not happy. Strange.

Although Editor Bai here still wanted to chat with Professor Song again, he also understood that it was definitely not the right time to continue today. Seeing that there was nothing going on now, he and his assistant said goodbye and left.

As soon as they left, Director Liu Baiqing rushed over.

He didn't tell the principal of the primary school who the child Chen Yali took away belonged to. Since they kept it secret, he didn't want to be the one to expose it. However, it was still necessary for him to come and see for himself.

Song Xiaohui doesn't have an aggressive personality. Her child has returned to normal now, so she has no plans to go to the Education Committee or cause trouble in the school.

I had a normal conversation with Director Liu, which made Director Liu feel relieved.

She has no intention of delving further into this matter, but that doesn't mean other parents think the same way.

In fact, Nanjiao Primary School has already exploded. Parents of Class 2 rushed to the school after receiving the notice, and only then did they know what happened.

Although today's parents do not pay enough attention to their children's mental health education, my children are sent to school to learn, not to be afraid.

How can we safely hand over our children to your school after you have already dealt with this on the second day of school?

The energy of more than 20 parents coming together is quite powerful.

Fortunately, the school did not evade its responsibilities, and the leaders of the district education committee came forward in a timely manner without any delay. They quickly calmed the excited emotions of these parents, and the time had already reached 12 noon.

Because Song Xiaohui's cell phone was not turned on, Li Tang, who learned the news after the meeting, called Chen Yali's cell phone.

"Here, Huihui, your husband's phone number. Is your phone turned off?"

"Really, I forgot about it."

While Song Xiaohui took Chen Yali's cell phone to answer the call, she picked up her own cell phone on the desk and turned it on.

"Hello, hubby"

"I just finished the meeting here, and I heard Huzi tell me what happened at my son's school. How is March going now?"

Song Xiaohui turned her face and glanced at her son, who was playing Minesweeper on the computer on her desk, and said with a smile: "I think nothing will happen. You can do some ideological work when you get back in the evening."

"As long as it's okay, my meeting here will probably be held until four or five o'clock in the afternoon. If it ends early, I will pick you up and let my son play at your place in the afternoon. There will be no sending to school today. Their class has already Classes were suspended and the other children were picked up by their parents.”

"It's so serious."

"Well, let alone children, as long as they are not doctors, there are a few adults who have seen the scene of the patient's illness.

To put it bluntly, it should be said that it is a heart disease, and the reaction during the attack is not very violent. If it is an epileptic attack, it will really scare the children.

The parents of that child really have no common sense at all. The doctor must have told them the precautions, but they didn’t take it seriously. They even hid the child’s condition from the school. Alas... they just felt sorry for our son’s female classmate. A child must suffer such a big sin.

Okay, since you said that your son is fine, then I can rest assured and wait until we meet again to talk about it. "

"Aren't you going to say a few words to your son?"

Li Tang looked back at Leader Yao Liangzhong who was standing not far away, thought for a moment and said, "Let's not talk about it for now. Leader Liangzhong is still waiting for me."

"Then go get busy and remember to eat on time."

"Yeah, so do you."

After putting down the phone, Song Xiaohui noticed that her son was looking at her eagerly.

"What's wrong March, do you want to talk to dad?"

Xiao Sanyue nodded first, then shook his head and said, "I know dad is busy today. He told me in the morning that Grandpa Yao is being transferred and has a meeting today, so he can't send me to pick me up."

"Hey, this little guy of yours is so sensible and heartbreaking. How do you two teach your child?"

After listening to Xiao Sanyue's words, Chen Yali, who was standing at the table, reached out and touched his little head.

"You have to ask his dad about this. My son doesn't cling to me. It's not like you don't know. Li Tang is away from home for a few days for meetings. He can ask eight times a day when dad will be back. If I go out and am not at home, he will ask me. You can forget me."

"Mom is lying, I call you every day."

Well, before he finished speaking, Xiao Sanyue exposed it.

"Hey, you brat, you never asked me when I would be back when you called me."

"That's because mom, your time is relatively fixed, just a few days. Dad often has unexpected things that delay his time."

"Uh……"

"Pfft...hahahaha..."

Seeing her best friend being speechless by her son, Chen Yali couldn't help laughing again.

"You have such a big mouth, but mom can't help you. Let's go eat. We'll eat in the school cafeteria today. Don't say it's not delicious."

"But the food in your school is not as delicious as the food in the company?"

"Li Zexin, are you going to eat or not? Are you trying to make me angry?"

"Mom, although the food in your school is not delicious, as long as I eat it with you, everything will taste delicious to me."

"Why do I always feel like your dad taught you wrong things?"

"Mom, what does it mean to be taught incorrectly?"

"It's okay, tell your second mother to stop laughing, take her and let's go."

"okay"

(End of this chapter)