The short video shows the ancient times, and the emperors cried with envy!

Chapter 862: Watch "Riding the Wind and Breaking the Waves" in one go? Zhao Ji: My father is doing it for himself!
This inevitably reminds people of the Oedipus complex mentioned earlier.

Suddenly, everyone had a premonition about the direction of the father-son relationship of the aforementioned people, and they all fell silent for a moment.

as predicted.

[The protagonist of "Sisters Who Make Waves" hates his father, but travels back to his father's youth and becomes close friends with him]

[After he got to know his father again, when the villain hurt his father's brother and was determined to kill the villain, he did not stop him, but went with his father to avenge his brother]

[Even though he knew that his father would go to jail, his mother would jump off a building and commit suicide due to postpartum depression after giving birth to him]

[However, for the sake of brotherhood, he did not stop his father and thus prevent the tragedy from happening to his mother. Instead, he joined his father's actions without hesitation.]

[At this moment, the male protagonist completely identified with the patriarchal value system and submitted to the patriarchal system]

[He made the transition from boy to "father", he became the father he once hated]

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"But even if I get revenge, my brother won't come back, and I'll sacrifice myself for nothing."

"To put it bluntly, this is selfish. His wife is pregnant, and he knows that he might get killed, but he still wants to go. Isn't it just to save his own loyalty that he has to abandon his wife and children?"

The comments section sharply exposed the essence hidden under the brotherhood, causing everyone in the world to fall silent for a moment.

"This loyalty is admirable, but it is indeed too impulsive and too selfish."

Wu Song took a big gulp of wine and was silent for a while before commenting.

As they travel the world, brotherhood is naturally at the forefront of their hearts.

He himself had experienced this feeling of risking arrest and exile in order to avenge his brother.

After his eldest brother was killed by the adulterous couple Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing, he killed the couple in order to avenge his eldest brother.

Finally, he was wanted by the government and went to Liangshan.

How can I not take revenge when my brother is killed?
But the problem is that he is a human being, so of course he can kill his enemy and have a good time.

Xu Zhengtai had a wife and children, and he couldn't guarantee that he could escape with them. In the end, he caused his wife to commit suicide.

However, Xu Zhengtai could still be said to be furious for his brother, which was considered to be a fulfillment of brotherhood.

When it comes to his son, Wu Song really has no words to describe him.

By doing this, he undoubtedly killed his own mother. Didn't all the injustice he had felt for his mother in the past become a joke?
Wu Song finally understood a little bit about the Oedipus complex that Tianmu talked about at the beginning.

This word is really apt.

……

[Similarly in "The Wandering Earth 1", Liu Qi witnessed his father's bravery, calmness, and fearless sacrifice during the mission]

[He understood his father's long absence and why his father could not be with him]

He recognized the value of what his father did.

[When Liu Qi grows up and becomes a father, he will also abandon his family for the sake of his country, just like his father]

Yue Fei sighed deeply and lowered his head with a sad look.

If he could have criticized Xu Zhengtai and his son for being too impulsive and irrational just now, he was speechless after seeing this.

Liu Peiqiang abandoned his family for the sake of his country and family. Isn't it the same for those who are on expeditions abroad?

In order to defend his country, he often guarded the border all year round, so that his wife could not see her husband for a long time, and his son could not see his father for a long time.

When his son grew up, he followed him to the battlefield. Isn't his son repeating his path?

The world praises his righteousness and calls him a hero, but to his family, he is undoubtedly selfish and irresponsible.

"It has always been difficult to have both a big family and a small family."

They also hope to have the best of both worlds, but the reality is often not as good as expected.

Yue Fei was originally happy that his son could inherit his legacy, but after hearing Tianmu's words, he couldn't help but feel disappointed. Many people in the heavens gradually fell silent.

The problem presented by the Tianmu video is almost an unsolvable problem. They neither want to admit nor can they refute that what Tianmu said is quite correct.

……

[In The Wandering Earth 2, Liu Peiqiang's choice was further justified]

[He chose to euthanize his wife at her request]

[He chose to leave his family to carry out the mission and not go home for a long time in order to earn the qualification for his family to live in the underground city]

"This is just a movie. There is no such thing as a beautiful thing in reality."

When Zhao Ji saw this, he could no longer bear it. After sending the palace maids away, he went alone in the palace cursing.

In later film and television works, Liu Peiqiang did these things for his family.

In reality, his father was just greedy, afraid of death, selfish, and when he saw that the Jin Kingdom was about to attack, he quickly threw the throne to him.

They also praised him for his talent and virtue, saying that he was suitable to inherit the throne.

In fact, he wanted to find someone to take the blame for his own mistakes. After throwing this hot potato to him, he fled to the south.

When he received the imperial edict, he fainted from tears on the spot.

Who would have known that when he woke up he would already be the emperor. It was impossible to force someone to do something like this.

The people in the Tianmu video at least had some legitimate reasons for the harm they brought to their son, but his father's legitimate reason was to cheat his son!

……

[Aren’t these plots just a fantasy created for male audiences?]

[With this illusion, we can clear away obstacles and submit to patriarchy]

[Although I was hurt by my father, there is nothing wrong with patriarchy]

[Although my father is cold, selfish, and uncaring, maybe he just can't express it, he still loves me behind the scenes]

[In fact, this situation is a common phenomenon for those who have lost their power to face those in power. The power in front of men is patriarchy.]

[This kind of compromise can also be seen as a layer of self-protection, because bearing the cost of rebelling against existing rules and order often requires great courage]

[So most people will choose to continue living in the existing rule system and then construct a reasonable explanation for the harm they have suffered]

Many people in the heavens lowered their heads, feeling ashamed as if a hidden part of their hearts had been poked.

Is there no father in this world who, like in those movies and TV shows, really has his own difficulties and causes harm to his son because he doesn't know how to express his love, and who actually loves his son very much?

Of course there are.

But there are also those fathers who are truly cold-hearted and selfish and do not treat their sons as their own.

However, under the moral code, no matter how wronged or resentful one is, one cannot do anything, and cannot even show it in front of others.

Otherwise, you will be accused of being unfilial and your future will be ruined.

Haven’t you seen that those people who have passed the imperial examinations and become officials are unable to do anything when they are held back and bullied by their incompetent parents?

No matter who is right or wrong, as long as you are unfilial, you are wrong.

Even if the emperor was unfilial, the historians would record a few words about him in the history books.

They were helpless, but there was nothing they could do.

If we say that the problem in later generations was only patriarchy, then they still faced the power of the monarch, and since the monarch is like a father, patriarchy is often linked to the power of the monarch.

Who has the courage to break these rules?

(End of this chapter)