My old husband who can read minds

Chapter 288 Parenting
Now Wei Yuan, as the master of the house, accompanied Qin He in the living room to drink tea and chat.

Shen Yuan took her two children to play in the Nuan Pavilion with Cui Jianjia and Xiao Huairong.

There was a heated kang built in the warm pavilion, with soft blankets spread on it. Little Huairong, who had learned to roll over and climb, was rolling and crawling on the kang, saliva dripping from his mouth.

Shen Yuan opened her little mouth and saw that she was teething. No wonder the saliva towel on her chest was soaked in a short time.

The wet nurse brought over a small milk stick made from goat's milk. Wei Huairong instinctively took it and put it in his mouth and bit it, making cute babbling sounds that made everyone laugh.

Qin Bili and Qin Yian were extremely fond of this little sister. After entering the house, they took off their shoes and climbed onto the fire bed to play with little Huairong.The two of them fed their sister water for a while, and wiped her mouth for a while, taking care of her in a decent way.

Cui Jianjia looked at the three children who were getting along well with each other, and a faint smile appeared on her thin face.

She is now fully devoted to her daughter, and has no extra energy to grieve over the spring and autumn. Instead, she buries her longing for her husband deep in her heart and does not show it to the outside at all.

Every time Shen Yuan came to visit her close friend, she would try to avoid talking about Wei Chen without leaving any trace. Unless the other party took the initiative to mention it, she would never touch Cui Jianjia's wounds easily.

The two of them were sitting on the low couch in front of the Kang, chatting without a word.There was a pot of tea, several plates of dried fruit desserts and winter fruits on the small round table above the low couch. Shen Yuan occasionally reached out to pick one up and tasted it, without showing any concern at all.

The three children were making a fuss on the kang. At this time, little Huairong had climbed onto his brother Qin Bili's body and sat on his lap. His limbs were kicking around and he stretched his neck to bite his brother's face.

This is the case for babies in the molar stage. They will bite anything they catch before they give up.

Qin Bili was helpless and was thrown to the kang by Xiao Huairong. His handsome face was covered with wet saliva.

Qin Yian clapped his hands and laughed, letting out a string of laughter like silver bells.

The adults in the room were overjoyed to see it, and the Nuan Pavilion was filled with laughter and laughter.

Suddenly, Qin Bili stiffened and shouted in panic: "Mom, sister Huairong peed..."

Shen Yuan looked back and saw that Qin Bili's clothes from waist to chest were soaked. When he reached out and touched them, there was still fresh heat on them.

"Hahaha..." Facing her son's miserable situation, Shen Yuan burst out laughing, going crazy with joy.

Qin Bili's cheeks were red, and he cast a slightly "resentful" look at his mother with a confused look on his face.

"Mo Zhu, please quickly take the young master to the cubicle to change into clean clothes, hahaha..." Shen Yuan was inexplicably made to laugh, and couldn't stop laughing for a moment.

Amidst the laughter of everyone, the tips of Qin Bili's ears turned red, and he wanted to cover his face and leave.When he followed Mo Zhu and others into the cubicle to change clothes, Cui Jianjia couldn't help laughing and said: "Sister Shen, please stop laughing. Hanguang is older now. He should feel ashamed and annoyed if he laughs again."

Shen Yuan thought of her son's stern little face, pursed lips, and his obviously shy but pretending to be mature expression, and couldn't help but sigh: "Actually, I just feel that he is too tight on weekdays, so it's okay to indulge him occasionally. Children's family Yes, he doesn’t have to be so serious all the time, I hope he can be as innocent and lively as Zhuo Hua occasionally, and doesn’t have to be so well-behaved and sensible.”

Frankly speaking, Mr. He raised his son very well, but he was too upright and dignified, and he became old-fashioned at a young age.Shen Yuan sometimes couldn't help but worry that he would go too far, and he was often very conflicted in his heart.

Of course she knew that there was nothing wrong with this kind of education in ancient times, but she felt sorry for her son who spent all day reading and practicing calligraphy, and had to learn six arts in his spare time, losing a lot of innocence and fun that he should have at his age.

Cui Jianjia felt something in her heart and comforted her: "Hanguang is the eldest son and grandson of the Qin family. In the future, he will be a glorious supporter of the Qin family. His upbringing must be different from other children. I know you feel sorry for him, but you can only teach him since he was a child." After acquiring a skill, he will be able to establish his own position in the future and be able to protect his own honor, otherwise it will harm him."

Shen Yuan nodded and smiled softly, "I understand the truth. Isn't there a saying that says, 'A parent has been a parent for 99 years and worries about his children for [-] years.' Well, I probably have this mentality."Not only are they afraid that the children will suffer hardship, but they are also worried that they will not do their jobs properly and are greedy for pleasure. In short, they just have endless worries. "

"That's true. Only when you raise a child can you appreciate the kindness of your parents. There are some things that you can only understand if you experience them yourself."

Cui Jianjia also lamented the same thing.

Shen Yuan turned his eyes to her daughter again, her eyes far away.

"Everyone said that I indulged Zhuo Hua too much, so that she, a girl, was as naughty as a monkey, and she didn't look like a lady. But I thought that the happiest days of our daughter's family were before she left the court. During the more than ten years since I married, I have lived for others. If I had married someone else, I would have suffered endless hardships and suffered endless grievances in the future. That’s why I doted on her, I thought, at least I can let Zhuohua live happily at home."

Cui Jianjia was silent for a long time, lost in thought, when her husband's voice and smile suddenly appeared in front of her eyes.

She thought that if Wei Chen had his temper, he would definitely support Sister Shen's actions with both hands.

My husband said before his death, "This world is hard, and women suffer a lot. If he has a daughter, he will cherish her and love her in the future, and will not let her suffer even a little bit."

This state of mind is exactly the same as that of Sister Shen.

Cui Jianjia raised her head and looked at the little Huairong who had changed her clothes and was lying on the fire bed, spitting and playing with bubbles. There was a touch of tenderness in her determined eyes.

A daughter is the most precious gift her husband has left for her, and she will protect and cherish it throughout her life.

Even if the daughter doesn't want to get married in the future, or suffers injustice from her husband's family, the Ning Mansion in Changning County can still afford to support her for the rest of her life.

It has to be said that Cui Jianjia and Shen Yuan are close friends. Although the two sisters did not express it explicitly, they made the same decision tacitly.

(End of this chapter)