Coquettish Rebirth

When 51 people heard Jia Hongjian's words, they were all stunned!What?A leader actually wants to say that when talking to his subordinates?How could you tell yourself clearly if you want to take the blame for yourself?Where is the dignity of this leader?right?The leader is still humble... Is this the omnipotent method Mr. Jia said?

"Do you think the way I said is very indignant?" Jia Hongjian was keenly aware of everyone's doubts at this time, and then he smiled helplessly and said, "Who told you that being a leader has always been very difficult?" The scenery? The scenery is always in front of outsiders, and the queen is like a person who knows how warm the water is. To make an inappropriate analogy, you are all adults. If you talk about a boyfriend or girlfriend, the other person will The family background is very good, and he looks good, and his income is good, but this person, when he is with you, sometimes... makes you uncomfortable... In this way, you are very happy in the eyes of others, but in the end happiness Unhappiness is only known to you..." Having said this, Jia Hongjian paused, and after using this method to let everyone understand a little bit, he continued:

"A lot of times, only capable people can become leaders. Of course, those who become leaders because of flattery and nepotism, we won't comment too much. After being in the position, they don't want to work hard, just make money in various ways. Well, let's not talk about it. Let's talk about a more motivated leader, and I believe that you also want to be such a leader, right?" After Jia Hongjian finished speaking, the 51 people below subconsciously nodded.

"But. After a capable person takes the position, it's not all smooth sailing. It doesn't mean that we can just point out the country. Without help, can we be ten or a hundred? Of course not, what about human beings? The reason why this species has multiplied to this day and became the overlord of the earth is not because our individual abilities are strong enough, but because we can cooperate and we have the power of groups. If you have students who are familiar with anthropology, you may know. In the ancestors of our modern humans Other than humans. There is also a subspecies of our species in Europe called Neanderthals. As for this group of Neanderthals, their brain volume was a bit larger than our modern humans when they were adults, and they must be bigger than ours. The ancestors of Homo sapiens were much larger. At the same time they were bigger and stronger. Almost all of them were carnivores. They did not eat vegetables. But such a Neanderthal was extinct in the end and was occupied by Homo sapiens , Do you know why? Because Neanderthals are stronger individuals. So they don’t need to gather too much, just like tigers. Their family may not be enough to eat if they occupy a mountain. A group of tigers will be hungry if they gather together Died. Therefore, because Neanderthals were strong, they rarely lived in large groups, and then caused their socialization to progress slowly..."

Having said this, Jia Hongjian paused, "So, what does this mean? It means that no matter how strong or powerful we are individually, it's useless for everyone to gather firewood. Our ancestors relied on the strength of weak chickens. , and then gathered hundreds of thousands of people to wipe out the Neanderthals. We rely on the organization and the number of people! This is the magic weapon for our group to first embark on the road to rule the earth. No matter how strong we are personally , After you enter Tietong, can you single out China Telecom with 50 employees? Who dares to say that he can single out 50 people today? I will immediately give him the position of chairman of Tietong , I dare not even say that! This is why I came here to train you today!"

Quiet, the scene is quiet!This group of graduates never thought about this kind of problem!To be honest, in their magnificent fantasies before, after they entered the society, they should become the heroes who are the only ones who can stand alone!It should be all kinds of personal heroism and all kinds of efforts to turn the tide!But why listened to Mr. Jia Hongjian's words, it seems that a person is very powerless?Is it really a hero and three gangs?

"I can't challenge China Telecom's 50 people by myself, so I must have helpers. You are the helpers I selected, but you are not capable enough. What should you do if you are not capable? I will teach you a little bit from the beginning. Seriously Yes, do you think I am happy to do this? I am not happy at all! I have this one month, I go to Korea to the United States, spend one-tenth of teaching your thoughts, I can earn tens of millions The US dollars... Then, in order to win Telecom, I have to come here to suppress my temper, coax you a little bit patiently, try to test you, be your teacher, teach you... Seriously, Tired, comrades. I really feel like being a kindergarten teacher now. Do you know that when I say a word, I must take care of your feelings. I can’t say too much, and I can’t suppress your enthusiasm. I want to encourage you I can't let you figure out how to improve by yourself, my design routine will make you suffer, and then I will tell you how to do it... This is exactly the same as kindergarten parents coaxing children!"

Having said this, Jia Hongjian shrugged his shoulders and sighed, "So, do you think I look good like this? Then, why do you require yourself to be beautiful? Maybe you will say, other leaders see me It sounds very good. Why do we have to be the leader when we came to power in the future? We have to beg employees like coaxing children like Mr. Jia said, why do we have to be humble? It’s very simple, the reason is that you want to win! You want to improve! If you don’t want to win or make progress, then you can eat and wait to die. It doesn’t matter. I don’t feel bad at all. There are many talents. If you can’t do it, someone will come to grab your position. The body is climbing up! You humbly go to the employee and tell him that if he needs you to take the blame, he will tell you. The real reason behind this is that you want to win, because you are the leader, and you see farther than them , see more! They are just employees, they can’t see as far as you, they may be dazzled by the trivial profits in front of them! What you have to do is to coax them to lead them in various ways, with They are step by step towards the goal you want - victory!"

At this moment, all the students in the audience looked at Jia Hongjian thoughtfully.To be honest, what Jia Hongjian said just now was a bit "hurtful".In fact, Jia Hongjian did not coax them with the words just now, but directly said that the previous words were all coaxing them, saying that he was like a kindergarten aunt coaxing children. For the proud son, it hurt a little.However, in addition to these words, the other experiences in Jia Hongjian's words made them absorb thoughtfully—when others are ordinary people, they who are relatively extraordinary , to teach the other party by coaxing and deceiving, and lead the other party forward?Just to win?This sounds... really hard work... It turns out that being a successful person is not all smooth and comfortable all the way, and there are so many things that are not known to outsiders?

Jia Hongjian stayed for about a minute for the students to digest.He looked at the students quietly, and also glanced at Jia Jingxing, and found that Jia Jingxing was also thinking about absorbing it. "Ha, fool this idiot too!" At that time, he secretly laughed in his heart.To be honest, what he said just now was actually half-truth-how could he really feel uncomfortable teaching new people?I'm not upset at all, this kind of good teacher is Jia Hongjian's favorite, okay?

You can show off how much you know, you can show off your senior qualifications, what a great opportunity to pretend!And to pretend to be aggressive, he is also used to pretending to be very unwilling to teach—this is how he looks like a master!How can a real expert be willing to teach newcomers something?For example, Feng Qingyang in martial arts novels and the like, they are all indifferent all day long, how could they come out and grab someone and say they want to teach?Didn't they have to be taught half-heartedly and reluctantly after various investigations?At the same time, when teaching, there must be some unpleasant words on the mouth.This is the same as a girl being chased by a boy. If she is too proactive and gives the other party what she wants, the other party will feel that it is worthless!You have to show that you don't want to give it to the other party at all, so that the other party will cherish it, okay?It's like the legendary saying that "books cannot be read unless they are borrowed" - borrowed books are cherished more because they have to be returned, and they take the time to read them!And my own book will not have such a sense of urgency!

"Okay, don't think about it, think about it later when you have time. Now, since we have talked about talking to employees in a low-key manner, let's talk about it by the way. The first thing to talk about is how to talk to others. "Jia Hongjian clapped his hands and said after attracting everyone's attention, "Don't think that you can say what you want without going through your brain when talking. The robots of the Oriental Pearl Tower can do that kind of thing. People, the reason why we are human is because we have brains. We have a purpose when we talk. For example, I am talking to you now, although I am very unhappy, but I still want to talk in detail, because I want you all Absorb it, lest I have to teach it again later. So, whether you are talking to employees or others in the future, if you really want the other party to listen, then you must think about how to say it in advance so that the other party will listen You have to go in! Instead of simply expressing your single-cell thoughts, that is truly irresponsible! If you want an employee to tell you what he knows, then you have to make him listen to you and tell you! So, how do you make the other party willing to tell you? Who knows?"

After he asked this question, the students immediately didn't dare to try it out, and looked at each other with big eyes and small eyes, as if they were a little bit overwhelmed by Jia Hongjian, and they didn't dare to be too active... ( To be continued..)