Coquettish Rebirth

"Do you know why our family can develop from a state of near abject poverty 13 years ago to today? Do you know why our family can become the Chinese family with the most wealth in the world in 13 years?" Jia Hongjian's interrogative sentence is really exciting. The American employees on the scene immediately concentrated their attention, and each of them had some preset "answers" in their heads. f top f point f small f said that some people think that Jia Hongjian would say why China is good, just like Americans who started from scratch would say that this is the success of the "American Dream", some people think Jia Hongjian and others They would talk about the reason why their family seized something when the opportunity came... But none of them expected Jia Hongjian to attribute it to such a reason in the end-"The main reason why our family can flourish is that we The pressure is so great that we crave success like a drowning man craves air!"

How could this be the reason?Just listening to Jia Hongjian explain: "Because only my mother had a job at that time, my father was unemployed! There was no compensation at all, he was fired! My mother's salary was only tens of dollars a month at that time, what the hell? What is enough to do? Yes, the cost of living in China was not high at that time, and a few dozen dollars was enough for a family to live a normal life, but is this enough? My father originally had an income of tens of dollars a month, and the two Together, our family can live a middle-class life at that time. Although it is impossible to buy a car, at least we can live comfortably. But suddenly when my father lost his job, our family’s income dropped by more than half , if only relying on my mother’s income, the whole family can only live like that! It was not easy for my father to find a new job back then. Employment system, they rarely openly recruit new employees! The recruitment is only for fresh graduates. In this case, my father can hardly find a suitable job, unless he goes to be a street waiter, unless he goes to a garage Work for a company that started a business in China!"

Jia Hongjian explained their family's plight in a way that Americans could understand.To be honest, in fact, their family was not in a difficult situation back then, but since he was said to be in a difficult situation at the time, who can stand up and refute it?Let's add oil and vinegar.Will there be someone here to investigate whether what we said is true?Nonsense, can it be true if we are the parties involved?So under Jia Hongjian's embellishment, their family suddenly fell into a predicament, caught in a situation similar to a poverty trap.It seems that if Jia Gang doesn't start a business, he won't find a suitable job for several years, so Jia Hongjian wants to help his father to start his own career!

"When we went to find the coach of a gold medal athlete with $5 in our pockets, the coach has become a star in China! Yes, it is not the athlete who becomes the star, but the coach who becomes the star. Because several athletes under the coach The results are very good, so everyone thinks that this coach is the hope of Chinese track and field! And you must know that the Chinese have never won a medal in the Olympic track and field before. This is a historic breakthrough! At that time, many companies looked for him The coach gave a very high price as an endorsement, and we only had 5 US dollars. If we gave it to the other party, the other party might not even read it, and would not sign with us at all. So when I went north with my parents, Our relatives and friends all said that we were crazy. They all thought that we could not succeed! Some of them persuaded our family to invest 5 US dollars in the stock market, saying that at least there would be returns after investing in this way. At least it is better than our vain north It’s a good time to waste travel expenses and time...all of them thought we would not succeed! But we succeeded!” Jia Hongjian talked about the past very seriously at this time, of course, he still added more details!Back then, there were no relatives or friends to talk to at all!

"Why? Because our desire for success is like a drowning person's desire for air! Even if there is the slightest possibility, we have to fight! Do you know that when we were looking for that coach, many companies were looking for him. Coach. The price they offered was very high. In fact, it would be a shame if we go up and ask for a price at such a time-as you can imagine, the coaches got millions of dollars What kind of eyes will the coach look at us after hearing the price we offered? You should Imagine it? He felt that we were insulting him, and he looked at us with eyes that made us crazy...

Isn't that a shame?At such a time, ordinary people will definitely retreat by themselves in order not to humiliate themselves, but our family does not!Why?Because our desire for success is like a drowning person's desire for air!Not even shame can stop us from wanting to succeed!Our thinking at the time was that as long as we could succeed, even if he laughed at us, even if he spat at us, even if our family would shine his shoes, wash his clothes and serve as his servants, as long as he could listen to us for 5 minutes Speak up, that's fine, then we'll have a chance!Everyone knows that many times people don’t want to listen to what you have to say, then there is really no chance at all. As long as you are willing to give us 5 minutes, at least we can still fight hard and pray for a miracle to happen!If self-esteem is too strong at such a time, there will be no success at all!At that time, in order to succeed, as long as I was not allowed to sleep with that man, or do some other disgusting things, I was willing to do anything else!I would be willing to give them a household toothbrush to clean the toilet! "

What Jia Hongjian said at this time was really resolute, it was really resolute, as if he really had this kind of determination back then!But to be honest, he really didn't think about it that way back then!He just used the other party's use of doping to force the other party to submit!But there is no need to decipher the tricks used back then, and in line with the theme of his speech, make something that can endure any humiliation in order to succeed... How deceptive!That's right, at this time Jia Hongjian was staring at the hundred waiters one by one with a very aggressive look, a look that seemed to be able to penetrate the depths of everyone's hearts.His eyes made all the waiters feel guilty!It seems that Maggie is a little guilty now, and she suddenly finds that she is not as eager to succeed as Jia Hongjian?And it sounds like what Jia Hongjian said is quite right. If a person can't stand even a little bit of humiliation, how can it be said that he is still eager to succeed?She is eager to make money, but now she is not happy when she hears that she needs to shine shoes and do manicures... How can it be said that she is eager to succeed?

Yes, she has never struggled for a life like a waiter.In the general concept in the United States, work and career are separated. Work is just having to work part-time to do something you don’t like, while career is something worth fighting for your whole life by starting your own business!But even though she said so, she is eager to make money, but after analyzing it, she seems to be so eager to make money?Not eager to make money enough to just ignore all the humiliation?Just as she was analyzing herself, Jia Hongjian's voice appeared again! "If you can't even do the most basic things like shoe shine and manicure, how can I believe that you are extremely eager to succeed? Do you know why I chose you people? It is because you people are more stressed than other applicants. Great! Some of you have to work part-time to earn tuition for your husband, some are single mothers who have to raise two children, and some have to work three jobs to support their families. I think you are so stressed that you should be more eager than others To be successful, you should ignore humiliation more than others! Now tell me, do you really want to be successful?"

"Think!" A group of waiters said their thoughts sparsely. "The wind is too strong, I can't hear you clearly!" Jia Hongjian turned his head and turned his ear to them, "Say it again!" "I want to!" The group of people shouted louder and more orderly. "What? Why did I hear a group of sissies humming? Tell me again what you want to do?" "We want to succeed!" A group of people suddenly shouted in unison at this moment, and each of them seemed to be exhausted. The strength of the whole body is the same!That's right, if Maggie and the others heard that they were going to shine shoes and do manicures, they were really hit hard. They immediately felt that this job was bad. Although the pay was good, it was not very satisfactory to them, and make them feel uncomfortable.But now it's different, they began to feel that this is a challenge, as if as long as they can pass such a challenge, then they will be able to succeed in the future, as if nothing can stop them!

But didn't Jia Hongjian want to brainwash, didn't he want the waiters to understand that service comes first?Why is the result of the brainwashing now like a pyramid scheme brainwashing?How do you get a bunch of people to scream for success?This is the difference in national character. In China, Jia Hongjian can use another way to say it, but in the United States, interests must be put first.In China, Jia Hongjian can completely rely on caring to stimulate the enthusiasm of employees, but in the United States, he has to distribute a certain amount of dividends to stimulate employees, and then use success and success to fool everyone, so that everyone can block the negative Emotional, full of fighting spirit and want to challenge the future!He felt that under such a situation, he could continue to fool around! (To be continued..)