Coquettish Rebirth

"Of course you can quit smoking! In fact, another principle is designed into this method, which is the principle of the brain's active selection!" Talk about something. "Now think about it, everyone, how many times we have to choose what to eat every day, and report the number to me." Although Jia Hongjian's request seems to have nothing to do with any active choice, everyone still I roughly gave an answer according to my own estimation.Some said it 10 times, some said it fifteen times, but after everyone finished talking, Jia Hongjian announced a number that everyone couldn't believe-"Although what everyone said seemed to be more than ten times In fact, according to the statistics and calculations of American scientists, although the American testers gave an average of fourteen times a day, which is similar to ours, they actually made more than 200 food choices throughout the day! "

200 times?A person will make more than 200 choices a day for the real thing?Are there so many?Just when everyone was surprised, Jia Hongjian continued to say: "That's right, more than 200 times. For example, when you wake up in the morning, what do you want to eat for the family? You have a choice. It is to make some food." How about pickled rice, pickled mustard or leftovers, rotten rutabaga, or go out to buy some sesame seed cakes and soy milk? Or go out to buy some porridge and fried dough sticks? Or sugar balls? For buns, which one do you buy? How many do you buy? What kind of stuffing do you buy? Did you see , just to eat breakfast, we have to go through so many choices, but among so many choices, there are many things that we subconsciously skip without thinking about them, and we won't remember these things afterwards..."

Hearing what Jia Hongjian said, everyone thought about it, and it really happened!But what does this have to do with active choice? "This matter is related to many things we are addicted to. For example, old smokers, when they feel like smoking, they may subconsciously light a cigarette without thinking about it. Wait until they smoke Halfway through, I might even startle myself. Huh! When did this come on? Sometimes when we are lazy and want to procrastinate things, isn’t it the same? I wonder if I should clean the house For a while? I thought about it for 2 minutes, and then my brain stopped thinking about it. It took a day to realize that I had forgotten it. The main reason for this is that when we do many things, we don’t think clearly in our minds! After thinking about what we want to do and then subconsciously making a habitual choice, there is such a habitual choice. Of course it is not easy to get rid of bad habits!"

After talking about this, although the audience below all looked suddenly enlightened, but at this time Jia Hongjian was going to add his own real private goods to the training class—"Then we have to get rid of a habit, right? What is the method? When faced with a habitual person who will make subconscious choices, the first thing we need to do is to mix sand in this subconscious! It is to mix in subjective choices! That is, let him realize the previous It’s wrong to subconsciously, you should choose another one! Generally at this time, it’s a little stressful, especially prone to frustration. So everyone must not criticize, it’s best to encourage, and don’t say lowering the other party’s The amount of smoking and so on. In this way, the other party can add subjective choices to their own habits little by little without pressure. For example, at the beginning, they subconsciously choose to smoke the whole stick or the one on hand. Now let them consciously They realize that their interests are not damaged, but they have to add a little choice, so that the subconscious will not feel disgusted, and it is easy to add it. After adding it, when they can reach the level of smoking every sip or taking a When smoking, you will take the initiative to think about this action and make a choice. Then the willpower will easily work! It is acceptable to smoke half a cigarette at a time, and you can control it. How about taking a puff? Right? If every time you smoke, you can restrain yourself from taking the one at hand, but go to your room to get a cigarette. After a long time, you will consciously smoke. You can further let him smoke only at a time. Is it half-rooted? So, for willpower to work, the most important thing is an old Chinese saying - think twice before acting! What does it mean to think twice before acting? This is not to make subconscious choices before doing everything , You must carefully make a rational choice in your subjective consciousness, this is where you can exert your willpower! Even thinking twice before acting will be very beneficial to everyone!"

Sure enough, at this time, everyone was attracted by Jia Hongjian's words.What?Does the kind of thinking twice you use to quit smoking work for people like them?What use is it to them?

"Do you know? Although we humans have evolved from monkeys to intelligent creatures, we actually spend 99% of our lives in a daze! Why? Because we have no consciousness at all at these times! We don't know Why do we choose this, we don't know why we do it, even to put it bluntly, we are literally sleepwalking! If we think twice before doing everything, what is the result? The result is that our willpower is multiplied Growth, the result is that we no longer spend every day like addicts, but can actively choose everything we encounter, so can we do better and more correctly than others who are muddled? For example, when we have an argument with another person in the family, if we follow our temper, it is easy to have a cold war, quarrel or even fight, but what if we can think twice before losing our temper? The process of thinking twice If you find that it is not good to lose your temper, but tell the other party, will you be happy all your life? Isn’t this already much more successful than many people in the world? If we see that our children’s test scores are not satisfactory, we will Instead of hitting the child in a fit of anger, think twice before acting, help the child find the reason for the poor test, help the child find a more reliable method, will our children be more successful than other people's children in the future? Yes No? We are humans. Why are humans different from monkeys? Isn’t it because our brains are developed and we can do more thinking? If we just act on instinct all day long, if we just follow our brains every time we encounter something Xingzi loses his temper or something, that's hard to say, what's the difference between us and monkeys?"

Jia Hongjian has started to slowly brainwash now!He is now beginning to instill a magical philosophy in everyone-"So, when we are more able to control our words and deeds than others, and control our reactions when encountering problems, then we will be great in the future! Then we will be relatives We are the envy of our friends and neighbors. We are the children of career and family. We are three successes! Not only do we have a good relationship with ourselves, but we also have a very close relationship with everyone in the family, which is very happy, and each of the children is very promising! Everyone, don’t you Don’t you want this kind of life? Besides, we didn’t mean that we have to achieve complete control immediately from tomorrow. We can fully realize that there are some things today that we don’t think twice about, and we can just think twice about this matter tomorrow! We You only need to take such a small step every day, you only need to make a little bit of insignificant improvement, and you don’t even need to spend more brains. I did it! Dear friends, don’t you feel tempted?”

"Be tempted!" Almost everyone replied in unison. When they answered, their eyes were full of longing, just like those people who were brainwashed by pyramid schemes!In fact, it is similar. Jia Hongjian added a little bit of Nietzsche's "Superman Philosophy" to this willpower course.Nietzsche's "Superman Philosophy" was originally a philosophy that emerged in the mid-to-late 19th century, when the traditional values ​​were collapsing and the values ​​of the new era were being established in the face of the transition from modern society to modern society.

Although this "Superman Philosophy" seems to have something to do with Hitler's fascism, in fact there is still educational content in it, which is to teach people self-design, self-education, and self-achievement!However, the "superman" in Nietzsche's "Superman Philosophy" is a person who surpasses himself and the weak. He can fully express himself and dominate the mediocre people; the superman is the yardstick of truth and morality, and the creator of norms and values.This thing sounds like too much brainwashing tendency, but Jia Hongjian got rid of those parts of values, got rid of those parts of rule, creation, etc., but vulgarized these things, and vulgarized them to everyone. The part that ri can usually touch.Through such vulgarization, these employees subconsciously began to yearn for this superhuman state. After all, everyone lives to seek a feeling that they are important. If they reach the superhuman state, can it be unimportant?

As long as the employees can start to "evolve" themselves according to Jia Hongjian's requirements, they will be on the road of "superman".Jia Hongjian is not going to take this group of "supermen" to conquer cities and conquer lands, but to let them become heroes in their lives. By the way, this group of people will bring endless benefits to Huaxia Hi-Tech in the process of becoming heroes. !At that time, Huaxia Hi-Tech will simply have a group of terminators!Isn't it the same as cutting melons and vegetables when competing with other people in the market? (to be continued)rq