I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Lin Feng: "But sister, please use this trick with caution.

This trick is only suitable for our mother,

If you meet someone like my dad, do you still want to do PUA?

It all depends on whether you are afraid or not.

When my dad beats you, you'd better say, "Dad, I know I was wrong."

Really

You have to give face.

The dignity of a father must be fully respected.

Don't be stubborn.

When your dad beats you, you cry.

The expression must be in place,
Don't pretend.

When the time comes, I'll just say it doesn't hurt.

Then I’ll really beat you to death.

You must shed tears when you need to.

To cry,

Be loud,
It seems like he was beaten badly.

Give him the dignity of a father.

It means that you have already been taught a lesson, and everyone is just going through the motions and everything is peaceful.

But if you insist on doing it, you're just pretending to be cool.

You said it doesn't hurt.

Don't cry.

You still want to say a few more PUA words.

That's it.

You don't even give your dad a little face. You'd better be prepared to accept your dad's divine punishment.

There's really nothing I can do about it, you just have to be stubborn.

Then he deserves to beat you to death."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"You have to give dad some face, hahahaha."

"Big brother is so experienced, it seems he got beaten a lot when he was young (laughing and crying)."

"Really, I was a stubborn kid when I was little. I refused to admit my mistakes and yelled at my parents. My grandma tried to stop me, but I attacked indiscriminately and yelled at everyone.
My dad was the only one beating me at first, and then my mom and grandma also picked up a broom and beat me (I cried so hard).”

“Hahahaha, the whole family plays together (covering face and laughing).”

He yells at everyone.

The visuals are too strong.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Can you understand, everyone?
Mom is used for PUA.

Dad’s dignity still needs to be maintained.

So if you cry, cry louder and scream more miserably.

Even if your dad kicks you lightly, you will have to roll on the ground a few more times.

Give me some face,

It felt like I was going to die.

Your father won’t beat you anymore.

It's normal to beat you if you do something wrong, but I won't beat you to death.

But you don't even give me this face.
Dad must want you to know what fatherly authority is. "

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"If daddy kicks you lightly, you have to roll on the ground a few more times, hahahaha."

"When I was a child, my dad beat me so hard that I couldn't open my eyes. He thought I was injured and took me to the hospital. The doctor said the child was sleepy. I went back home and scolded him again (crying to death)."

"You have to stand at attention when you are beaten, how can you fall asleep (laugh to death)."

"No matter how hard you try, you still have to sleep (raised eyebrows)."

Hahahaha.

"I'm different. My dad pushed my head into the toilet, and I got angry and said I was thirsty (dog head)."

"Luckily it's not that early. If you get up early, all the toilets are dry, so you won't be thirsty (covering your face and laughing)."

"I'll just die of fullness (grin)."

puff~
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng took a puff of his cigarette and said slowly, “Like when I was a kid, there was one time when my mom was visiting relatives and was not at home, so it was just me and my dad at home.

It was too hot outside and I didn't want to go out. My dad looked at me for at least 10 minutes.
I guess what my dad must have been thinking at that time, should he beat me up and then let me cry while going out to eat with him?
Or should I really go out and buy some food and have him cook it for me?
Maybe it had been a long time since my father had shown his fatherly love to me, so at that moment, my father suddenly overflowed with love.

Because I was very thin when I was little, and my mom wasn't around, and my dad saw how small I was,
My father weighed it for a while and said, "Okay, I'll go buy some vegetables and cook for you."

My dad finally bought a bunch of vegetables from outside and cooked them himself, which took him at least an hour and a half.

Because my dad doesn't usually cook, the food tasted really bad.
I took one bite and said, "Ouch!"

I said it’s not delicious, so I don’t want to eat it.

就那一瞬间啊，我爸可能就是仅有的父爱给我消耗光了，立马给我揍了一顿，
After beating me, he asked me if it smelled good?
I said it smells good.

Do you want to eat?

I said eat.

Just like that, under my father's coercion, I stripped away all the food on that particularly unpalatable dish.

My father nodded with satisfaction, smiled and said it was very good.

Since,

I now understand this truth: you can PUA your mom, but you must maintain your dad’s dignity.

Otherwise he will really beat you!"

The girl burst into laughter and said, "Thank you, brother. I feel much better now."

Lin Feng nodded.

"It's good that you can listen to me. Go ahead, sister."

The girl left.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"My dad looked at me for at least 10 minutes, thinking whether to beat me up or buy groceries to cook. Haha. This scene is so strong and funny. Haha."

"Then the eldest brother successfully consumed the last bit of fatherly love from the old man (dog head)."

"It turns out there is fatherly love, but not much (sunglasses)."

Hahahaha.

"My son is like this. He asks me to make it, and when I make it, he says it tastes bad (angry)."

"Let's just say, is it possible that it really tastes bad (covering face and laughing)?"

Case solved.

Hahahahaha…

Lin Feng smoked a cigarette and said to the screen: "My sister smiled and left, but I have to say something to my parents.

Don't hit your children lightly.
Especially my daughter.

You have to love your daughter, so that she won’t be cheated away by someone else with just a piece of candy in the future.

why?

Because my family always gives you a handful of candy, so if I give you a candy outside, can you steal it?

impossible.

But your family has never let her eat candy. Huangmao took out a candy and she tasted it and it was so sweet.

Didn’t she just go with Huangmao?

So parents who have daughters at home should remember that fathers should love their daughters from a young age and take them to see big occasions.

Then when she goes out in the future, the yellow-haired man will deceive her.

She would say, you can’t ride this will-o’-the-wisp as well as my dad does.

Do you think you could trick your daughter away?
Huangmao always likes to make promises to girls.

Then the cakes my father gave me were bigger than the cakes you drew.

How could you cheat me?"

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"The cakes my dad gave me are bigger than the ones you drew. Hahaha. This dad is so handsome."

"Give the girl some biscuits, and the yellow-haired man will take both her and the biscuits away from you. Are you afraid (dog head)?"

Hahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Then what should we do if our family has no money and no conditions?
Love is all.

Feeding cakes to a daughter does not necessarily require any conditions. It can also be psychological care, and the child will also be rich.

She will tell her father everything, so she can communicate with you and interact with you.

This generally won't be a problem.

What I fear most is the kind of parents I often talk about, those who have neither money nor love.

The more brutal and dictatorial you are at home, the easier it is for girls to run away.

I saw someone say in the comments that it's not necessarily the case.
Some girls who were very much loved by their families also ran away with Huangmao in the end.

That's not right, buddy.

This is a multi-dimensional thing. First, look at the person, then look at the fate.

You cannot control a person's destiny.

But as a parent, what you can provide for your children is something you can control.

We often say that daughters should be raised in wealth.

Many people understand raising a child in wealth as financial spending or spoiling.

None of them are correct.

The real enrichment is first of all the enrichment in knowledge.

What is insight?

Is it to travel around the world by plane?

its not right.

Knowledge is the three perspectives.

If a person does not know what it means to have consistent values, he will have no idea what he wants and due to the limitation of his knowledge, mismatched marriages will be everywhere.

Then comes the enrichment of personality.

What is personality?

It is the bottom line and principle as a person.

For example, don’t be humble in front of the one you love, don’t be arrogant in front of the one who loves you, don’t be jealous or compete for other people’s love, and take responsibility for what belongs to you.

Finally, it is the enrichment in terms of attention.

What is attention?

It's love and care.

But this love is caring, not spoiling.

Can do these three things,

I still can't guarantee that your daughter won't be cheated by a yellow-haired guy in the future.

But what I can guarantee is that even if she is cheated in the future, she will still have the confidence to live her own life well and the opportunity to make new choices.

Even if she is divorced and has children, she is still a hot mom.

It is definitely not the complaining women you see in my live broadcast room.

What if I am a rough and uneducated person who cannot talk about the big principles of personality and values?
brothers,

There is never a shortage of reasonable people in this world.

Haven’t we heard enough truths since we were young?
Life would still be a mess if it were different.

It seems like what I said in the live broadcast room is not enough?

How many sisters-in-law really listened to it?
Let me tell you,

Truth is something that can never be learned by listening or talking.

On what?
Do it.

Want to let your daughter know what the correct three views are?
You just love your wife and that's it.

Want your daughter to know what a healthy personality looks like?
You just love your wife and that's it.

Want your daughter to know what happiness is like?
You just love your wife and that's it.

There is no need to explain anything to your children, just love them.

The children see it all and automatically transform it into their own personality, values ​​and definition of happiness.

Instead of teaching her how to tell which is the yellow-haired one, how can she avoid being cheated?

You might as well love your wife.

Use actions to show her what a real good man looks like.

Do you understand?
If there is no reason, love is over."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"You just need to love your wife, and your children will see it in their eyes, and it will automatically become your own personality, values ​​and definition of happiness..."

I go!

suddenly see the light.

"There is no reasoning, love is over (thumbs-up)."

"Anecdotal information: A successful father is one whose daughter says she wants to find a husband like him when she grows up. A failed father is one whose daughter says she doesn't want to find a husband like him when she grows up (dog head)."

"Really, I've had this idea since I was a kid that I must not look for a husband like my dad (covering my face and laughing)."

"So my father's role is to tell me that I must not find someone like this, and if there is nothing else, then don't get married (crying to death)."

"My husband treats me very well and is very good to my daughter, but he has no money (laughing and crying)."

"Be content, sister. This is spiritual and psychological wealth. Cherish it."

Got it. (End of this chapter)