I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Yu Huanshui: "Your value is not high. This may sound unpleasant, but since you asked me, I will tell you the truth.

Of course, if you like that kind of flattery, I can accommodate you.

As for the situation, I am the best at it."

Girl: "That's not necessary. I understand and I've taken it to heart, but I still want to ask a question."

Yu Huanshui nodded: "You go ahead."

Girl: "I won't do business in the future, because I don't make much money in a year.

Now, I met a boy among them. He is a very young boy with a good family background. He is very outstanding.

I just want to date him and then get married, and then I won't do business anymore. Is this okay?"

Yu Huanshui: "Sister, remember this, if he reaches a high position at a young age, or even has some power in his hands, there is a high probability that someone will be interested in him.

Can you understand how a big boss chooses a son-in-law?

Just like the imperial examinations in ancient times, when you pass the exam, many high-ranking officials will keep their eyes on you.

One day you will become the son-in-law of the dragon.

If this boy did not rise to the top step by step through his own strength, as you said, it is because he has a good family background.

That's even more impossible.

Because he will have better options.

Comparing horizontally, why did he choose you?

Especially when you are on the scene.

Even those so-called older people, the old guys, can put their arms around your waist.

What do you think he sees in you?

Don't tell me you are very beautiful. Beauty is the least valuable in the face of power.

There are plenty of beautiful girls if I want them.

Can you understand?
Few people would marry a girl at a drinking table like this because he would have better options.

So I suggest you first find a way to stabilize your career or business in one place with your own abilities.

And then get in touch with them and do whatever you want. I think this is okay.

Otherwise, I don’t understand why this young and powerful person would choose you.

It's nothing more than having a relationship and dumping it when you get tired of it."

The girl was silent.

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"The boss is choosing a son-in-law, hahahahaha."

"Those who are truly powerful cannot make their own decisions about marriage. This is very real."

"I've made it very clear before, it's impossible for a businessman to say I like you (covering my face and laughing)."

"For a truly talented woman, refer to Zhong Xiaoai (sunglasses)."

"Yes, look at Zhong Xiaoai, all the leaders are polite when talking to her."

"Don't say it, you really don't say it."

. . . . . .

Yu Huanshui: "At a drinking party, Lao Deng can just hug you casually. It is very likely that the person who is bringing you to do business has already informed Lao Deng in advance.

You thought the person who took you there knew the big shot, but in fact, you were just like that public relations officer.

At that time, we often looked for professional public relations.

Public relations are not just about prostitutes. Some of them come from prestigious schools and are pretty and young.
We usually introduce ourselves as: this is my assistant, and you can contact her if you have any needs in the future.

The public relations person is good at handling things and being attentive, and most importantly, he or she also knows a little about various areas of the workplace.

Just doing well in all aspects.

But even so, let me be frank, these truly powerful bosses don't need one or two toys.

Most people know this clearly and are unlikely to get themselves involved.

Saying that I like you or am interested in you is nothing more than a passing moment.

I don’t know if you can understand, but sometimes I deliberately relax everyone’s vigilance, deliberately reveal some flaws to you, and by the way, get business things done.

But no one said, what if I can really marry you.

If you ever say you can marry a PR girl or a girl you invited over for social events, you won’t have to do this anymore.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“You thought you were qualified to sit at the table, but it was actually PR (laughing and crying).”

"To put it bluntly, it's the dish that garnishes the dinner (laughing to death)."

"This is just a condiment. At most, you will be awarded an advanced degree at the end of the year. Some people without backgrounds don't want to be condiments and want to make the main course. In the end, they will be attacked, smeared, and suppressed."

Clear!

"The comments section is really full of people saying that others are dishes, but what can ordinary people like us say when we don't even have a chance to be on the table?"

What the hell!

Heartbroken.

. . . . . . .

Girl: “I think I can figure it out.”

Yu Huanshui: "It's enough for you to understand this. Many young girls and boys are easily deceived by these things.

It seems like if you have been taken to so many restaurants and have met so many leaders, it seems like you have become a member of this class and everyone is on the same level.

No.

You are not qualified yet.

Remember, when you are qualified, this so-called big leader, this old Deng, will never dare to put his arm around your waist, and will never dare to say in public that he likes you.

The fact that he said that means he has never liked you. Everyone at the table treats you as a plaything, but you are the only one who takes yourself seriously.

If you don't understand it clearly, it is very likely that you will waste your whole life on it.

I have seen people like this who specialize in socializing at the drinking table. Most of them are still unmarried, look down on those who are inferior to them, and come into contact with these leaders and business owners every day, and think they are very awesome.

To put it bluntly, the moment you get old and lose your looks, you’ll be kicked out.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Mr. Shui is right. Young people should not be deceived. It's like the clerks selling clothes in big shopping malls. When we say it's a bit expensive, they roll their eyes and look down on us, as if the brand belongs to them."

"This reminds me of something that happened around me. A girl's ex-boyfriend now has tens of millions of dollars in assets at home, and she mocked her current boyfriend for being poor (laughing to death)."

"What does his tens of millions of assets have to do with her (laughing and crying)."

"In the final analysis, I can't see myself clearly and I'm lost."

“So I can’t figure it out.”

. . . . .

Girl: "Okay, I understand. Thank you, Mr. Shui."

"You're welcome. Go on."

After the girl left, Yu Huanshui said to the live broadcast room: "He is young and powerful, do you think he lacks beautiful girls around him?

Absolutely not bad.

Remember, power can only be used, not clung to.

The moment you cling to power, you will remember that you are dead. The greater the gain, the higher the risk. There is no immortal who will never change.

The gods on the mountain are replaced in waves, and they always have their own dogs.

You don't have much foundation, so people will definitely not take you with them when they move to another place.

But this new god on the mountain wants to use his power to do his own things, so he must get rid of you.

That's when you're done.

But I am reasonable and compliant, I have complete qualifications, I will bow to anyone who comes, and I can withstand the scrutiny.

That's the reason.

Even if this mountain collapses and another mountain comes in, I will still do the same work and pay taxes.

So young people must be vigilant.
You have not received any systematic training in this area, but your family has actually taught you.
In situations like this, you are usually the first to die."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"The gods on the hills change in waves, but they always have their own dogs (thumbs-up)."

"I am now working as a dog for others (laughing and crying)."

"Brother, be careful of being purged in the future (raised eyebrows)."

"Reasonable and compliant, and able to withstand scrutiny, these two sentences are so classic!"

"Mr. Shui is amazing. I'm grateful for your advice."

“In conclusion: The iron-forging man is also the iron-forging man! (dog head)”

Great!

. . . . . . .

Yu Huanshui: "Just like this sister just now, she saw it herself, besides taking you out for dinner, what else did he take you to do?

She just said that the actual benefits are just a little bit, not much.

But this thing is the most confusing.

I always feel like I’ve had so many meals with the big guys and met so many people, but what’s the use?
In today's society, let me be honest, when something really happens to you, who will come to help you?
No one's.

Because the moment something happens to you, your relationship is gone.

Do you think you can't resist the black hat on someone else's head?
"If you are close to a tiger, you will survive halfway. Remember this."

"Mr. Shui, do you have any good suggestions on workplace sexual harassment?"

A highly praised comment flashed by.

Yu Huanshui responded: "Then it depends on which kind it is, is it a dirty joke between leaders and colleagues, or is it a real physical act?

If it's just about words, remember that the first time is all tentative.

At the beginning, I used words to test you, and you didn't resist. Some girls were even silly and would smile and follow my dirty jokes.

Then slowly he began to put his arm around my shoulders and started to make some deliberate body movements,
When it got to a certain point, he became even more unscrupulous.

So remember, human nature is tempting.

When he tells you a dirty joke for the first time, if you are not willing to do so, refuse it immediately.
Just tell me not to tell such jokes. We are in a working relationship. Clearly, sternly and seriously state your bottom line and reject him directly. That’s all that matters.”

The comment read: "I'm your project partner. We've been working together for two or three years. It's been pretty good. But he suddenly seemed to be interested in me a while ago, but I didn't pay any attention to him.

And now he is not making dirty jokes, for example, after the project cooperation is finished, he will say, "It was a pleasure to spend time with you today, it's over so quickly, and I will miss you at night."

But he's married, and I think that's greasy."

Yu Huanshui: "If he says he misses you at night, you should tell him clearly that you don't need to miss me anymore and we are just work colleagues.

It doesn't matter if you just clearly state your bottom line.

If your cooperation is affected by such a rejection, it means that this cooperation is not worth carrying out. No job is worth sacrificing yourself for.

Unless the profits he brings are very considerable, that is, they have exceeded your bottom line principles,

You think that for this money, I don’t have to worry about the rest of my life, and I can break my bottom line, then do it.

Otherwise it's just a job.

We are just connecting with each other on a normal basis. You don't need to think about me at night. I just made it clear. You said you are married, so you should miss your wife more. "

. . . . . . .

On the barrage

"Human nature is to try and hit the nail on the head."

"I once tried to put my hand on my shoulder, but I just shook his hand off, and then nothing happened (laughing and crying)."

"Well done, no job is worth sacrificing yourself for (thumbs up)."

"Mr. Shui said it very well!"

"I learned another trick. When I find a partner, I will definitely show it to her (hahaha)."

"What if your partner reads this and says that the profit he offers is indeed considerable (dog head)?"

You fuck,
Grab the bamboo shoots,

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Yu Huanshui: "I remember when I was working, one of our sales staff was a tall girl, who was really pretty and not married.

Then at that time, my friend's company was connected, and my friend joked with her in a teasing tone,
Oh, you don’t have a boyfriend yet. If you really can’t find one, just follow me.

I was just joking with the little girl.

But the girl in my company was very firm. She pointed out clearly that you should tell your wife about this matter. Pull your wife to my side, and the three of us will sit together and talk about it. If your wife agrees, I will agree too.

My friend just smiled awkwardly at that time.

What do I mean by this?

I just hope you can understand and don’t be afraid to tell the truth. We can cooperate and what we ultimately see is business and profit.

As long as a conflict of interest exists, you normally won't offend others, and even if you state your bottom line, it won't affect your work.

Because after all, everyone is here to make money.

If your interests are not strong enough, even if you feel wronged and don't resist, people won't do business with you.
People are not stupid.

What if the other person doesn’t have a wife?
Then just say you have a boyfriend.

If he still pesters you, you can tell him that my boyfriend has a mental illness and cannot stand stimulation.

If my boyfriend knew about this, he would definitely kill you.

Then pretend to answer a phone call, baby, no, no, I'm not outside, I'm with my mother now.

When I heard it was your boyfriend calling, damn, even Brother Lin was scared to death."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"We are all here to make money. As long as there is a relationship of interest, you can throw out your bottom line normally, and it will not affect your work (thumbs-up)."

"Yes, girls must have the courage to refuse and protect themselves."

"I've learned something new. Before, I always didn't know how to say no, and ended up putting myself in a bad position."

"I haven't graduated yet. I'll be doing an internship next year, so I'll start learning first (heart)."

"My boyfriend has a mental illness and can't stand stimulation, hahahaha."

"Lingo (dog head)."

"I seriously suspect Mr. Shui is hinting at Big Brother."

no doubt,
Package.

Hahahahahaha. (End of this chapter)