I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Yu Huanshui: "I would like to remind you that young girls who are just entering the workplace should be careful of those old men who always tell you about life philosophy and ideals.

That's all their glory.

I used to think that this approach was not easy to use in reality, but in this live broadcast room I found that this question was not asked for the first time.

There are always some old people who introduce her to many rich friends and introduce her to various things.

Then she thought of relying on this old man, or these so-called friends she knew, to cross the class barrier, anyway, she wanted to use them to do something,
You are crazy.

Do you know how others see you?
Lao Deng brings different girls here every year, and you are just a plaything.

Lao Deng may have made some achievements in this industry, so when we have dinner together, everyone will give him some respect.

But that's about it.

If you want to use this resource, what will you use it for?
If you leave Lao Deng, you will still be nothing.

At the end of the day, you yourself have no core values.

This is just like if you have a cousin in real life, even if he is in a high position and has some power, can you use it?

If you don’t have core competitiveness, you won’t get any benefits even if you are relatives.

What about Lao Deng?
And we all know that Lao Deng has no good intentions.

Because normal leaders and bosses will not teach you so many things, because it is a labor cooperation relationship, and there is nothing to teach.

For some particularly disgusting ones, you might be the same age as his daughter, so any normal person would avoid you.

How could someone be the same age as your daughter? Why would you send him to a hotel?
You are over 60 years old, almost as old as someone else's grandfather.

So I remind young girls in the workplace that they must learn to de-mystify.

For example, if you ignore the environment and the people he brought you to meet, if you look closely, he is just an elderly man in his 60s.
What does he have?

What practical things can he give you?
No, it wasn’t. ”

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On the barrage

“Lao Deng brings different little girls here every year (thumbs-up).”

"If you put aside the halo, you're just an old man in his 60s, hahahahaha."

"I can tell you from personal experience that dating Lao Deng meant I had no money to spend and learned a lot of useless lessons (grin)."

"You can't even beat the little one, and the old one will try to kill you (dog head)."

Old bird hahahahahaha.

. . . . .

okay,

Next person!
Ding~
"Hey bro."

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, what's the problem?"

Woman: "Brother, I just have a question about the child."

Lin Feng nodded: "Tell me about it."

Woman: “First of all, I’m an elementary school teacher. Then, I became a widow when my eldest child was two years old. His father suddenly passed away.

Then I remarried, and after marriage, his current father and I had another son, who is the second son in our family.

The current situation is that my mother-in-law has been taking care of the second child, and I am mainly taking care of the eldest child.

And our eldest son doesn’t have a good relationship with his current father and grandmother.”

Lin Feng: "Excuse me, does your son dislike his stepfather and grandmother, or does his stepfather dislike your son?"

Woman: "My stepfather has always been very good to him. Actually, it's not like my child dislikes his stepfather.

It’s mainly because the eldest child in our family doesn’t perform well in all aspects. He’s a bit slow and a bit stubborn.

I'm not used to it in all aspects.

Now our eldest child is seven years old and in the first grade. He has difficulty in learning.
Later I took him to the hospital for a checkup and found that he had some attention deficit and sensory system disorders, which is ADHD, symptoms like these.”

Lin Feng looked up: "Symptoms?"

Woman: "Yes, I enrolled him in some training courses to correct his symptoms.

But during this process, I still couldn't fully accept that my child was such a child.

So sometimes I can't control myself and sometimes I beat and scold my children.

Every time after I beat and scolded him, he was actually very scared and would admit his mistakes, but after a while he would completely forget about it.
It may also be related to his previous attention deficits.”

Lin Feng: "So, you are very discriminatory against people with attention deficit disorder?" Woman: "Really."

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said calmly: "But I also have attention deficit."

Ah? ?

The woman looked stunned.

Lin Feng smiled and said, "When you watch me live, don't you notice that there are people criticizing me for moving around during the live broadcast in the comment section?"

The woman scratched her head: "I really didn't notice."

Raymond Lam: "No kidding, sister-in-law, I always thought that if I had taken a test when I was a kid, I might have had more serious attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder.
Because I was at school at the time, the teacher had no choice but to arrange my seat next to the desk.

But what I want to say is that I am still living a good life now, right? "

The woman was silent for a while and then said, "But I have always been the only one taking care of the eldest child in our family, and I haven't been doing a very good job of it."

Lin Feng frowned and said, "What do you mean your children are not well managed? Let me ask you, does your child have any behavior that affects others?
For example, if he has attention deficit, does he affect others in class?
Or is it that he was walking around during class and disturbing the teacher?"

Woman: “No.”

Lin Feng: "Then did he lose control of his own behavior and hit others?"

Woman: “Neither.”

Raymond Lam: "Does he have the habit of swearing at people?"

Woman: “No.”

Raymond Lam: "Does he behave in a particularly rude way towards you, or does he look at you sideways?"

Woman: “Neither.”

Lin Feng: "Did he do something bad on purpose to get his brother scolded by you guys?"

Woman: "No, no, he wouldn't do that."

Lin Feng: "Do your children ever suddenly stop talking, or stop talking for a long time, which makes you panic?"

Woman: “No.”

Lin Feng: "Did he run away from you or hide to make you anxious?"

Woman: "No."

Lin Feng slammed the table and said: "I can ask you 100 questions, but you don't have any of them, so what are you anxious about?

Let me tell you, the situations I mentioned above happen to many children, so what exactly is wrong with your child? "

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On the barrage

"I could ask you 100 questions and you don't have any (covering mouth and crying)."

"Yeah, so what did the child do wrong (crying)?"

"Every time big brother asks, it's like a drumbeat hitting my heart. I want to cry so much."

"The most shocking thing was when my eldest brother said, 'I also have attention deficit.'"

"I used to think that my elder brother was humorous and smart, but today I suddenly felt that he has great compassion (thumbs-up)."

. . . . . .

Woman: "But his attention deficit also causes him to have poor grades."

Lin Feng looked up: "So the grades are bad, so what?"

The woman was startled.

As if he was stumped by the question.

Lin Feng continued, "Does it mean that if he gets good grades, he is your son, but if he doesn't, he is no longer your son? Do you not love him anymore, Mom?"

Boom~
The woman was completely silent.

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On the barrage

"If his grades are bad, he is no longer your son... Holy shit!! This is a soul-searching question!!!"

"The word 'Mom' from the eldest brother at the end was so shocking!!"

"I cried! (tears)"

“It’s also full of irony (dog head).”

"I came in to watch Mr. Shui share his workplace experience, and was suddenly struck by this young man. As a father, I realized that I need to reflect..." (End of this chapter)