I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

On the barrage

"I've given you all the tricks, hahahaha."

"Brother, this is an amazing eloquence (laughing and crying)."

"After hearing this line of speech, I almost want to forgive him (laughing to death)."

Hahahaha.

"It's all my fault for not giving you timely comfort. Wow, it's still a single bet (covering my face and laughing)."

"Who said a single bet is not a bet (dog head)?"

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Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Remember, it means to affirm the other person's value and the other person's efforts. By the way, I will give you a small gift."

Man: "Yeah, thank you, brother. I'll remember that."

Lin Feng: "There is another point. If you end the long-distance relationship, you should pay your respects on time after you return home. Because you know that you have been long-distance for so long and you don't communicate with her. If you come out and start a cold war again, then there is really no hope for their marriage."

Man: "Pay the food, hehe."

Raymond Lam: "Don't laugh, we haven't gone home yet, don't be so happy so early, wait until we get back to be happy.

I can see that you are feeling uncomfortable being alone outside, right? But you must hold on until you get home."

Man: "Hahaha okay, thank you bro."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Deliver the food on time, damn it, hahahahaha."

"I taught you everything step by step (laughing and crying)."

"This is really chewy (awesome)."

"Big brother is really good at coaxing women (laughing to death)."

So powerful.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “His mother laughed out loud, and hehe.

Anyway, this is the principle. Just do it. Remember, don't go into the cold war when something happens, and be sure to coax the other person in advance.

Don't try to do it at the last minute, otherwise we'll be in a cold war for so many days. When you go back, your sister-in-law will not touch me, and she'll elbow you twice and break your ribs.

So you must coax her first."

"Okay, okay, thank you, big brother. I'll go and coax him now."

The man left.

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said to the live studio: "He is already married and has a wife and children. If you don't like this kind of guy, just don't get along with him.

Stop saying that bullshit in the comment section.

Why do you always advise people to divorce?

Okay.

If your friend goes home and says some nice words, the couple may get back together, be in love with each other, and feel like a new marriage after a short separation.

Just like he said, it will be fine once we meet.

After all, my sister-in-law feels aggrieved because they live apart from each other.

The New Year is coming soon, and the whole family will be happily reunited, right?

To be honest, they are a perfect match made in heaven. Why are you, an ugly freak, objecting in the comments?
It's someone else's marriage, why do you, an ugly bastard, always criticize her husband? She doesn't even want to marry you.

There are still people who criticize other people’s wives. What do you know? The child is less than one year old. Maybe the wife is suffering from postpartum depression. Why do you always criticize other people’s wives?
She won't marry you.

Always posting disapproval in the comment section, always putting yourself in the shoes of others,

What are you doing?

It’s crazy.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"What are you, an ugly freak, objecting to in the comment section (laughing and crying)."

“That’s so heartbreaking, hahahaha.”

"Brother is right, it could indeed be postpartum depression."

"To prevent any trolls, let me first explain that depression is not a psychological problem, it is a physiological problem. In a life controlled by hormones, the mood swings are too great, causing one of the nerves that controls emotions to break down. Some people are born fragile. The purpose of taking medicine is to stabilize emotions, and then gradually heal this nerve."

"Been taught a lesson!"

"But I admire my elder brother even more. He seems to be joking all the time, but he has actually thought of all the possibilities (thumbs-up)."

Really awesome!
. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "In fact, in a family, who is more relaxed, the boys or the girls?
In fact, most people don’t have it easy.
Don't argue, I'm talking about ordinary families.

Let’s put aside those men and women who have no sense of responsibility at all.

I said that as long as most people enter a normal life, if you don't have a lot of money at home, it's not easy and it's a burden. It's not easy to make money, but it's also a difficult task to raise children well and educate them well.

So most of the time, everyone is tired.

So don’t have that kind of should emotion in life.
For example, I think it’s your right to make money since I’m taking care of the children.

No, we also have to give some emotional value. When we come back, we have to ask people if they have worked hard.

Similarly, you shouldn’t think that since I’m earning money outside, it’s your responsibility to take care of the children at home.

Remember, nothing is as it should be.

It's exhausting to take care of children at home without any social interaction. When you come home, you should also care about how their day is going.
Even if you know that this is how people live every day, you can still ask them if they are unhappy today.

Couples should not take the other person's entitlement for everything just because they have been together for too long.

It’s not something that should be taken for granted. We should still be grateful to each other.

It is not easy to run a family well. Both sides have to make great efforts to let our children live in a loving family and a relatively stable environment.

I said, it is really not easy for people to live a good life, so you should be grateful to each other, be grateful to your husband or wife, and create conditions for yourself.

You should greet your husband for his hard work, and similarly, you should thank your wife.

It's not easy to manage the household and take care of the children. You have to care about your wife when you come home.

Just don't always compare yourself with others, and don't look at what others say on the Internet. They don't care. If you have no money at home, they won't transfer it to you.

You can't take care of your child well, and the boy online won't let you take care of him.

So they are just stirring up conflicts. Whether you two can live happily together has nothing to do with them.

Drink less chicken soup or duck soup.

They have traffic and they make money, what about you?
After all, life still depends on two people supporting each other, so be more grateful to each other and thank each other for their efforts.

When two people first get together, you feel sorry for your wife and you feel sorry for your husband. You will appreciate and feel sorry for each other.

But after a long time, it seems that everyone takes it for granted.

Most of us have this problem.

So we need to change and reflect.

We should not forget that we need to be grateful just because we are close.

We should not ignore the standards we should have just because we are close to each other.

So why do couples need their own space? Because when they are too close, they will easily forget to be grateful and to thank each other.

But to be honest, this kind of thing is actually the cheapest thing in married life.

You are like many boys. They are actually very hard-working outside, but when you get home, your wife feels sorry for you and your children can give you some emotions.
Hey, I immediately felt that I could endure hardships again tomorrow and I was full of energy again.

The same goes for my wife.
Do you think your wife really wants to buy some luxury bags?
No,

In fact, both husband and wife knew that the family conditions were such that even if they gave her money, she would be reluctant to spend it.

So when your husband comes back and gives you some encouragement, and the two of you give each other some emotional value, this little thing will pass, and you won't feel so bad about it.

So I said that what many people need is this cheapest thing, something with a little emotional value.

Boys and girls are the same.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

“Emotional value is the cheapest thing (thumbs-up).”

"One is to create conditions, the other is to support families, neither is easy."

"Brother's words are like a spring breeze (heart gesture)."

"Big brother is really a breath of fresh air, and has improved many people's cognition (thumbs up)."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "When you consider that the other party does not give you emotional value, you should reflect on whether you have given the other party emotional value.
They are all the same.
It doesn't say who doesn't understand what and who should do what.

Both sides need each other.

In marriage life, there are indeed some people who do not know how to be grateful.

Because some people just don't like you, they think this marriage is just a compromise.

That would be difficult.

So why do I say that love is the prerequisite for marriage? Because if there is really no love, most people are selfish, they will definitely think more about themselves, and they will definitely be more willing to care about their own feelings.

In this situation, it is difficult to think for the other person.

So we still have to love each other, because only by loving each other can we understand tolerance and giving. "

[Military Advisor’s Comments: In fact, the person who is most suitable for you is never the one you cannot have.

But it’s the person who sees through your temper, still doesn’t care about anything, and is willing to stay with you.

When you reach a certain age, you will find that what you need is not a passionate love, but someone who will not leave you.

Affection is not as long as a long-term companion, and there is no need to say a lot of love.

In any relationship, if you know how to give in to each other and take turns to bow your heads, you will never fall apart.

There is no such thing as two people who are born to be together. It's just that one knows how to tolerate and accommodate, while the other knows when to stop. 】(End of this chapter)