Military Marriage: Young Master Han's Intriguing Wife
Chapter 166 What if I want to add sin
Chapter 166 There's no reason to blame her! Tears rolled down Song Lingzi's eyes. She didn't want to cry, at least, she didn't want to cry in front of Han Shaoting. 【 】But no matter how she wiped it away, the tears still gushed out like spring water.
"When did I treat you like a marionette?" Han Shaoting saw Song Lingzi crying, and a flash of reluctance flashed in his heart, and he wanted to step forward to hug her, but he couldn't hold back his face. "You want to go out to do things, did I say anything against it? If you didn't make such a big fight this time, I wouldn't allow you to go out to work. Also, before we got married, we had already made it clear that You also promised yourself that in this life, you can ask me to do anything, just don't ask me to love you. You said that you are not only Mrs. Han, but also my wife, so why don't you think about it? After this advertisement is released on the street, others will What do you think of me? Is it that I, Han Shaoting, have degenerated so much that I want my wife to show her face to shoot commercials to support the family, or is it that I, Han Shaoting, do not have enough financial means to satisfy my wife?"
"Do you think you're the only one who feels wronged?" Han Shaoting became more and more angry as he spoke, ignoring that Song Lingzi was still crying, and continued to reprimand: "Let me tell you, you are not the only one who is wronged, I am wronged too. I worked hard to maintain this family, but With just a few words of yours, you completely negate this family."
"Yes, a few words from me will negate your hard work, what about you? A few words from you will negate all my hard work." Song Lingzi had stopped crying. "You are working hard to maintain this family. Didn't I put in my own effort? Didn't I fulfill my wife's responsibility? Or, my contribution is insignificant and not worth your consideration. It seems that the two of us should calm down. "
"Calm down?" Han Shaoting is not a fool. Hearing this sentence, he already knew the subtext hidden in Song Ling's words, and immediately felt hurt.This feeling made him furious. "I really need to calm down. ***, I really need to calm down." Saying that, Han Shaoting kicked the chair hard, then slammed the door and left.
The loud sound of closing the door echoed in the room. Song Lingzi no longer had the heart to cook, and went to the bedroom in a daze.Seeing the wedding photo in the bedroom, Song Lingzi threw herself on the bed and began to cry.
In the middle of the night, Song Lingzi stretched out a hand in a daze, and habitually touched the place next to it, but it was cold.She opened her eyes, a trace of pain flashed in her black and white pupils.Closing her eyes, she hugged herself tightly in her arms and fell asleep.
After Han Shaoting went out, he went to the bar first, drank a little wine, and smoked a few cigarettes.When he calmed down, he drove home.Parking the car downstairs in his apartment, he sat in the car, waiting for Song Lingzi's call.
He thought that as long as Song Lingzi made a phone call or sent him a text message, he would go home.
It's a pity that when the lights in the apartment went out, he didn't wait for Song Lingzi's call and text message.Disappointed, he drove the car again, left the apartment, and drove to Han Shaoling's home.
As soon as he arrived at Han Shaoling's door, Han Shaoting rang the doorbell desperately.
Han Shaoling fell into a drowsy sleep, and when he heard the doorbell ring, he cursed secretly, which bastard is it that disturbs people's dreams like this?
Opening the door, seeing Han Shaoting, he was startled: "Why are you here?"
"What? I'm not allowed to come?" Han Shaoting glanced at Han Shaoling and walked straight in. "Are you hiding your beauty in the golden house here?"
Han Shaoling rolled his eyes, closed the door, and followed behind Han Shaoting: "You came to my house so late as a guest, you won't quarrel with your sister-in-law, and come to my house to take refuge?"
Han Shaoting remained silent, went straight to the sofa and sat down.
Han Shaoling was startled, did his crow's mouth really hit the mark? "Did you really quarrel with your sister-in-law?"
Up to now, Han Shaoting did not deny it, and answered with a light hum.
Han Shaoling raised his forehead, this couple must be lovers of joy, they would quarrel and get awkward at every turn, regardless of whether other people's hearts can bear it or not. "Tell me, why are you two arguing this time?"
Han Shaoting took out a cigarette and asked Han Shaoling, "Can I smoke?"
Han Shaoling frowned. Han Shaoting's smoking habit was developed in the army to relieve stress.On weekdays, he seldom smoked, but today, he clearly smelled the strong smell of smoke on Han Shaoting's body. "Did you smoke a lot today?"
Han Shaoting said nothing, "It's fine if you can't smoke." Saying that, Han Shaoting put the cigarette back into the cigarette case.
"Brother—" Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaoting, feeling sad. "You can smoke if you want, I'm just worried about your body."
Han Shaoting took out the cigarette again, lit it, and took a slow puff: "Your sister-in-law is going to divorce me."
Han Shaoling was drinking tea, when he heard this sentence, he immediately choked up. "What did you say? Sister-in-law is going to divorce you?" Han Shaoling was frightened. Some time ago, he clearly saw them messing with each other. It took only a few days. How did it come to this? "Why? What kind of divorce is going on so well?"
Han Shaoting took another drag on his cigarette. He wasn't sure about Song Lingzi's true thoughts, but he just caught her message from her words.Han Shaoting felt very uncomfortable, never thought that Song Lingzi would be so stubborn in this matter, even for this matter, she would rather divorce her than compromise. "We had a big fight tonight."
Han Shaoling was helpless, Han Shaoling didn't need to say anything, Han Shaoling had already guessed it, but no matter how much they quarreled, it wouldn't lead to a divorce, right?
"Did you turn on the TV to watch commercials today?" Han Shaoting naturally noticed Han Shaoling's helpless expression, and flicked the cigarette ash in his hand.
Han Shaoling shook his head, saying no.
Han Shaoting thought for a while, and then told the story from beginning to end. "Just for this matter, she just refused to listen to me and insisted on insisting on her own ideas."
Han Shaoling rubbed his chin. "It's just an advertisement, and you..."
Seeing Han Shaoting glaring at him, Han Shaoling immediately shut his mouth and stopped talking. .
Han Shaoting leaned back on the sofa, looking a little tired: "I really feel tired. I thought getting married was a very simple thing, but now that I think about it, I find it ridiculous."
Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaoting's appearance with a bit of sympathy. "You and sister-in-law communicate a few more times. Sister-in-law is a bit stubborn, but she's not the kind of person who doesn't listen to reason. You speak out what you mean and listen to her opinion when the time comes."
Han Shaoting poked out the cigarette, "I've already said what I should say. Even if she refuses to listen to me, there's nothing I can do about it. I'll be staying with you for a few days, so calm down."
Han Shaoling stared at the ceiling speechlessly. These two people were born enemies, and if they had something to say, they insisted on quarreling in this way.Perhaps, the ancients were right, beating means kissing and scolding is love, and if you don't beat or scold you, you don't love each other.
That night, Han Shaoting stayed at Han Shaoling's house, and when he slept until midnight, he habitually turned over and stretched out his arms to hug the person beside him, but his hands were in vain.Opening his eyes, looking at the empty bed, he felt lonely for the first time, and this feeling made him feel a little hesitant.What if, what if that woman is really determined and wants to divorce him?Thinking of this possibility, Han Shaoting felt a dull pain in his heart.It's him.
He never thought about divorce, even when he was most angry, he never planned to give up the marriage.It's just that Song Lingzi's words deeply irritated him, making him unable to save face to reconcile.
Staring at the mobile phone on the table, Han Shaoting sighed, and waited patiently for two more days, as long as Song Lingzi was willing to reconcile, then he would forgive her generously once.
Song Lingzi woke up very early, dumped out half of the dishes made yesterday, and then started to do cleaning work in an orderly manner.Halfway through, Song Lingzi heard the doorbell ring, opened the door, and saw Han Shaoling standing at the door with a smile: "Sister-in-law, good morning."
Song Lingzi also smiled, and turned sideways to let Han Shaoling in.
As soon as Han Shaoling entered the room, he was slightly surprised to see Song Lingzi doing hygiene.Looking at Song Lingzi's appearance, she didn't look like she was having a big fight with her brother. Could it be that Han Shaoting made a fuss out of a molehill? "Sister-in-law, this is the breakfast I bought along the way, eat it while it's hot."
Song Lingzi's cheeks flushed slightly. Since last night, she really hasn't eaten anything. Now when she heard Han Shaoling talking about it, her stomach started to growl.
When Han Shaoling heard this sound, he knew that Song Lingzi hadn't had breakfast yet, so he got up and went to the kitchen to get the dishes.After entering the kitchen, Han Shaoling saw that there were half-cut vegetables in the kitchen, and they were dry. He guessed that they were half-cut vegetables yesterday and were not used later, so he knew it in his heart.
Han Shaoling took out the bowls and chopsticks for two people, divided the breakfast into two portions, handed one to Song Lingzi, and gave the other to himself. "Sister-in-law, brother stayed at my house last night."
Song Lingzi had already guessed, "Did he ask you to come?"
Han Shaoling shook his head, "He didn't know that I came to see you. In fact, when a husband and wife quarrel, it stands to reason that I, as a brother-in-law, shouldn't be involved. However, this time your quarrel seems to be a bit too much. I heard from my brother, Do you plan to divorce?"
Song Lingzi paused her hand, looked at her reflection in the bowl, "Is that what your brother said?"
Han Shaoling is a veteran in shopping malls, and he is best at observing words and emotions. When Song Lingzi asked this question, he knew that Han Shaoting had really complicated the problem. At least, the sister-in-law in front of him did not intend to divorce at all. "Did my brother misunderstand what you meant?"
"He didn't misunderstand me." Song Lingzi said solemnly. "I said that if he continues to impose his will on me, then I will choose to go this way."
As soon as Han Shaoling heard it, he knew what the subtext meant.At this time Song Lingzi didn't want to divorce, but if Han Shaoting continued to divorce, she would choose this path.The key to this matter is whether Han Shaoting compromises.But Han Shaoling knew very well that his elder brother was a stubborn donkey, and he would not look back until he hit the south wall.
"Sister-in-law, you have been with him for so long, and you also know that he has a stubborn temper. If this stalemate continues, it will hurt your relationship. Instead of doing this, it is better to follow his wishes and ask Crown Company to terminate the contract. As for the commercials that have already been filmed , I will discuss it with my brother, assuming that this incident has never happened, the advertisement can continue to be broadcast, and when the new advertisement is released, this incident will be over." Han Shaoling thought about it all night, and came up with this compromise .
Song Lingzi put down the spoon and stared at Han Shaoling: "I know you're doing it for my own good, but I don't want to compromise. I won't give in to this matter."
"Even if this matter will damage your marriage?" Han Shaoling's voice was a little cold.He was somewhat dissatisfied with Song Lingzi's persistence.
"If I say, I don't like your brother serving in the army, I want him to leave the army, or I insist that he stay in the military academy for the rest of his life and not let him go to the front line, do you think he will agree?" Song Lingzi asked Han Shaoling back. "He won't agree. Maybe he would rather divorce me than agree to this."
"In terms of career, I fully support him. Knowing that his work is life-threatening and will damage our marriage, I have never said a word. Perhaps, you will say, since the day I married him, I have I know that he is a soldier. However, Han Shaoling, I hope you understand that a woman cannot understand the meaning of her husband until she becomes a wife. When she becomes a man's wife, she will understand that the relationship between husband and wife is not between a man and a woman. Love is so simple, for a woman, her husband is a very important person in her life, apart from the relationship between parents and children, no one is more important than her husband." Song Lingzi looked solemn. "I don't want to lose my husband. I have every reason to interfere with my husband's work, because this job will make me lose him at any time. If I impose my wife's wishes on him, what will happen to him?" Do? Compromise like me? If he will compromise, I will too."
Han Shaoling was speechless. He suddenly discovered that Song Lingzi's articulate speech was much stronger than he had imagined.At least, he, a veteran in the shopping mall, seldom suffers from being deflated, but today, he tasted deflated from Song Lingzi's side.
After finishing the last few mouthfuls of breakfast, Song Lingzi pushed the bowl aside. "I know that in the eyes of you men, when a woman is married, she should stay at home and keep her own place. Even if she goes out to work, she must find a job that satisfies the man. However, I have been thinking about a problem. If a woman's life, Will her marriage be really happy if she does everything according to her husband's wishes? Can it guarantee that there will be no problems in the marriage?"
"Actually, this idea is very absurd." Song Lingzi continued without waiting for Han Shaoling's answer. "When a man wants to leave a woman, it's often not because the woman is not obedient enough, but too obedient. It makes him feel that such a woman doesn't mean much to him. How about a traditional good woman? Outside Most of those who are divorced and abandoned by men are such good women. Now being a mistress is always more prestigious than being a wife, do you know why? It is because a man is willing to spoil her, he will not spoil his wife, in his eyes Here, as a wife, she should live in the way he imagined, not according to his wife's wishes. Some women, before marriage, are extremely beautiful, but after marriage, they become completely yellow-faced women, which is what she wants Is it? No, women will become yellow-faced women because of men's self-esteem. Many men will unknowingly kill their wife's nature and make her look hateful. "
"Sister-in-law, I think you think too much, my brother, he is not such a person." Han Shaoling did not expect that besides Han Shaoting, Song Lingzi was the one who complicated the problem.
Song Lingzi took out a tissue and wiped her mouth lightly. "Yes, your brother didn't think so in his heart, but he did it. Men have double standards. If I were replaced by a soldier, do you think he would agree? Men smoke, gamble, drink, this kind of behavior They are all called hobbies. If a woman smokes, gambles, or drinks too much, it is a vice. A man has a bunch of confidante outside, which is called popularity, and if a woman has one or two confidante, it is called restlessness."
"There is an old saying in China, which says that there is no excuse for inflicting a crime." Song Lingzi looked very calm, but there was a trace of sharpness in her eyes that could see through people's hearts, which made Han Shaoling terrified. "If he wants to give up our marriage, even if there is no such thing, he will find other excuses to give up. For example, he can say that I am too strong to live without relying on him, and that I am not as gentle and considerate as other women. He can also Said that I am skittish, and after I get married, I can still attract other men. Of course, he can also say that I have someone in my heart, and I will never forget my ex-boyfriend, or someone else. Otherwise, he can also say confidently, I Song Lingzi is right He's not good enough to bend his head and listen to him."
"So, don't think that my current behavior is damaging our marriage. What can really damage our marriage is the selfishness in everyone's heart." Song Lingzi summed it up very clearly. "He wants to keep me as a pet, but unfortunately, I'm not a peaceful woman, I can't be a pet, I just want to be a woman. In this way, even if one day he chooses to give up on me, I can live a dignified life If I go on, I will not become a pitiful wretch for him. Han Shaoling, I can tell you frankly that I will not make any principled compromises for the sake of marriage, because all principles cannot be changed. Once changed, That person is not the original person.
What else could Han Shaoling say? "Are you really not going to give in?"
"I said, if he wants me to back down, he will also back down." Song Lingzi's determination was very firm. "I'm making my own choice now. Now, it's his turn to make a choice. He can choose to continue or give up. However, no matter which choice it is, I respect his choice."
Han Shaoting saw Han Shaoting's shadow from Song Lingzi's body.Two people have the same pride, the same stubbornness, and the same perseverance.If it were someone else, once they knew that their husband was going to divorce, their first thought would be to keep their marriage, instead of insisting on their own choice like Song Lingzi, and then leaving the final decision to her husband.
"When did I treat you like a marionette?" Han Shaoting saw Song Lingzi crying, and a flash of reluctance flashed in his heart, and he wanted to step forward to hug her, but he couldn't hold back his face. "You want to go out to do things, did I say anything against it? If you didn't make such a big fight this time, I wouldn't allow you to go out to work. Also, before we got married, we had already made it clear that You also promised yourself that in this life, you can ask me to do anything, just don't ask me to love you. You said that you are not only Mrs. Han, but also my wife, so why don't you think about it? After this advertisement is released on the street, others will What do you think of me? Is it that I, Han Shaoting, have degenerated so much that I want my wife to show her face to shoot commercials to support the family, or is it that I, Han Shaoting, do not have enough financial means to satisfy my wife?"
"Do you think you're the only one who feels wronged?" Han Shaoting became more and more angry as he spoke, ignoring that Song Lingzi was still crying, and continued to reprimand: "Let me tell you, you are not the only one who is wronged, I am wronged too. I worked hard to maintain this family, but With just a few words of yours, you completely negate this family."
"Yes, a few words from me will negate your hard work, what about you? A few words from you will negate all my hard work." Song Lingzi had stopped crying. "You are working hard to maintain this family. Didn't I put in my own effort? Didn't I fulfill my wife's responsibility? Or, my contribution is insignificant and not worth your consideration. It seems that the two of us should calm down. "
"Calm down?" Han Shaoting is not a fool. Hearing this sentence, he already knew the subtext hidden in Song Ling's words, and immediately felt hurt.This feeling made him furious. "I really need to calm down. ***, I really need to calm down." Saying that, Han Shaoting kicked the chair hard, then slammed the door and left.
The loud sound of closing the door echoed in the room. Song Lingzi no longer had the heart to cook, and went to the bedroom in a daze.Seeing the wedding photo in the bedroom, Song Lingzi threw herself on the bed and began to cry.
In the middle of the night, Song Lingzi stretched out a hand in a daze, and habitually touched the place next to it, but it was cold.She opened her eyes, a trace of pain flashed in her black and white pupils.Closing her eyes, she hugged herself tightly in her arms and fell asleep.
After Han Shaoting went out, he went to the bar first, drank a little wine, and smoked a few cigarettes.When he calmed down, he drove home.Parking the car downstairs in his apartment, he sat in the car, waiting for Song Lingzi's call.
He thought that as long as Song Lingzi made a phone call or sent him a text message, he would go home.
It's a pity that when the lights in the apartment went out, he didn't wait for Song Lingzi's call and text message.Disappointed, he drove the car again, left the apartment, and drove to Han Shaoling's home.
As soon as he arrived at Han Shaoling's door, Han Shaoting rang the doorbell desperately.
Han Shaoling fell into a drowsy sleep, and when he heard the doorbell ring, he cursed secretly, which bastard is it that disturbs people's dreams like this?
Opening the door, seeing Han Shaoting, he was startled: "Why are you here?"
"What? I'm not allowed to come?" Han Shaoting glanced at Han Shaoling and walked straight in. "Are you hiding your beauty in the golden house here?"
Han Shaoling rolled his eyes, closed the door, and followed behind Han Shaoting: "You came to my house so late as a guest, you won't quarrel with your sister-in-law, and come to my house to take refuge?"
Han Shaoting remained silent, went straight to the sofa and sat down.
Han Shaoling was startled, did his crow's mouth really hit the mark? "Did you really quarrel with your sister-in-law?"
Up to now, Han Shaoting did not deny it, and answered with a light hum.
Han Shaoling raised his forehead, this couple must be lovers of joy, they would quarrel and get awkward at every turn, regardless of whether other people's hearts can bear it or not. "Tell me, why are you two arguing this time?"
Han Shaoting took out a cigarette and asked Han Shaoling, "Can I smoke?"
Han Shaoling frowned. Han Shaoting's smoking habit was developed in the army to relieve stress.On weekdays, he seldom smoked, but today, he clearly smelled the strong smell of smoke on Han Shaoting's body. "Did you smoke a lot today?"
Han Shaoting said nothing, "It's fine if you can't smoke." Saying that, Han Shaoting put the cigarette back into the cigarette case.
"Brother—" Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaoting, feeling sad. "You can smoke if you want, I'm just worried about your body."
Han Shaoting took out the cigarette again, lit it, and took a slow puff: "Your sister-in-law is going to divorce me."
Han Shaoling was drinking tea, when he heard this sentence, he immediately choked up. "What did you say? Sister-in-law is going to divorce you?" Han Shaoling was frightened. Some time ago, he clearly saw them messing with each other. It took only a few days. How did it come to this? "Why? What kind of divorce is going on so well?"
Han Shaoting took another drag on his cigarette. He wasn't sure about Song Lingzi's true thoughts, but he just caught her message from her words.Han Shaoting felt very uncomfortable, never thought that Song Lingzi would be so stubborn in this matter, even for this matter, she would rather divorce her than compromise. "We had a big fight tonight."
Han Shaoling was helpless, Han Shaoling didn't need to say anything, Han Shaoling had already guessed it, but no matter how much they quarreled, it wouldn't lead to a divorce, right?
"Did you turn on the TV to watch commercials today?" Han Shaoting naturally noticed Han Shaoling's helpless expression, and flicked the cigarette ash in his hand.
Han Shaoling shook his head, saying no.
Han Shaoting thought for a while, and then told the story from beginning to end. "Just for this matter, she just refused to listen to me and insisted on insisting on her own ideas."
Han Shaoling rubbed his chin. "It's just an advertisement, and you..."
Seeing Han Shaoting glaring at him, Han Shaoling immediately shut his mouth and stopped talking. .
Han Shaoting leaned back on the sofa, looking a little tired: "I really feel tired. I thought getting married was a very simple thing, but now that I think about it, I find it ridiculous."
Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaoting's appearance with a bit of sympathy. "You and sister-in-law communicate a few more times. Sister-in-law is a bit stubborn, but she's not the kind of person who doesn't listen to reason. You speak out what you mean and listen to her opinion when the time comes."
Han Shaoting poked out the cigarette, "I've already said what I should say. Even if she refuses to listen to me, there's nothing I can do about it. I'll be staying with you for a few days, so calm down."
Han Shaoling stared at the ceiling speechlessly. These two people were born enemies, and if they had something to say, they insisted on quarreling in this way.Perhaps, the ancients were right, beating means kissing and scolding is love, and if you don't beat or scold you, you don't love each other.
That night, Han Shaoting stayed at Han Shaoling's house, and when he slept until midnight, he habitually turned over and stretched out his arms to hug the person beside him, but his hands were in vain.Opening his eyes, looking at the empty bed, he felt lonely for the first time, and this feeling made him feel a little hesitant.What if, what if that woman is really determined and wants to divorce him?Thinking of this possibility, Han Shaoting felt a dull pain in his heart.It's him.
He never thought about divorce, even when he was most angry, he never planned to give up the marriage.It's just that Song Lingzi's words deeply irritated him, making him unable to save face to reconcile.
Staring at the mobile phone on the table, Han Shaoting sighed, and waited patiently for two more days, as long as Song Lingzi was willing to reconcile, then he would forgive her generously once.
Song Lingzi woke up very early, dumped out half of the dishes made yesterday, and then started to do cleaning work in an orderly manner.Halfway through, Song Lingzi heard the doorbell ring, opened the door, and saw Han Shaoling standing at the door with a smile: "Sister-in-law, good morning."
Song Lingzi also smiled, and turned sideways to let Han Shaoling in.
As soon as Han Shaoling entered the room, he was slightly surprised to see Song Lingzi doing hygiene.Looking at Song Lingzi's appearance, she didn't look like she was having a big fight with her brother. Could it be that Han Shaoting made a fuss out of a molehill? "Sister-in-law, this is the breakfast I bought along the way, eat it while it's hot."
Song Lingzi's cheeks flushed slightly. Since last night, she really hasn't eaten anything. Now when she heard Han Shaoling talking about it, her stomach started to growl.
When Han Shaoling heard this sound, he knew that Song Lingzi hadn't had breakfast yet, so he got up and went to the kitchen to get the dishes.After entering the kitchen, Han Shaoling saw that there were half-cut vegetables in the kitchen, and they were dry. He guessed that they were half-cut vegetables yesterday and were not used later, so he knew it in his heart.
Han Shaoling took out the bowls and chopsticks for two people, divided the breakfast into two portions, handed one to Song Lingzi, and gave the other to himself. "Sister-in-law, brother stayed at my house last night."
Song Lingzi had already guessed, "Did he ask you to come?"
Han Shaoling shook his head, "He didn't know that I came to see you. In fact, when a husband and wife quarrel, it stands to reason that I, as a brother-in-law, shouldn't be involved. However, this time your quarrel seems to be a bit too much. I heard from my brother, Do you plan to divorce?"
Song Lingzi paused her hand, looked at her reflection in the bowl, "Is that what your brother said?"
Han Shaoling is a veteran in shopping malls, and he is best at observing words and emotions. When Song Lingzi asked this question, he knew that Han Shaoting had really complicated the problem. At least, the sister-in-law in front of him did not intend to divorce at all. "Did my brother misunderstand what you meant?"
"He didn't misunderstand me." Song Lingzi said solemnly. "I said that if he continues to impose his will on me, then I will choose to go this way."
As soon as Han Shaoling heard it, he knew what the subtext meant.At this time Song Lingzi didn't want to divorce, but if Han Shaoting continued to divorce, she would choose this path.The key to this matter is whether Han Shaoting compromises.But Han Shaoling knew very well that his elder brother was a stubborn donkey, and he would not look back until he hit the south wall.
"Sister-in-law, you have been with him for so long, and you also know that he has a stubborn temper. If this stalemate continues, it will hurt your relationship. Instead of doing this, it is better to follow his wishes and ask Crown Company to terminate the contract. As for the commercials that have already been filmed , I will discuss it with my brother, assuming that this incident has never happened, the advertisement can continue to be broadcast, and when the new advertisement is released, this incident will be over." Han Shaoling thought about it all night, and came up with this compromise .
Song Lingzi put down the spoon and stared at Han Shaoling: "I know you're doing it for my own good, but I don't want to compromise. I won't give in to this matter."
"Even if this matter will damage your marriage?" Han Shaoling's voice was a little cold.He was somewhat dissatisfied with Song Lingzi's persistence.
"If I say, I don't like your brother serving in the army, I want him to leave the army, or I insist that he stay in the military academy for the rest of his life and not let him go to the front line, do you think he will agree?" Song Lingzi asked Han Shaoling back. "He won't agree. Maybe he would rather divorce me than agree to this."
"In terms of career, I fully support him. Knowing that his work is life-threatening and will damage our marriage, I have never said a word. Perhaps, you will say, since the day I married him, I have I know that he is a soldier. However, Han Shaoling, I hope you understand that a woman cannot understand the meaning of her husband until she becomes a wife. When she becomes a man's wife, she will understand that the relationship between husband and wife is not between a man and a woman. Love is so simple, for a woman, her husband is a very important person in her life, apart from the relationship between parents and children, no one is more important than her husband." Song Lingzi looked solemn. "I don't want to lose my husband. I have every reason to interfere with my husband's work, because this job will make me lose him at any time. If I impose my wife's wishes on him, what will happen to him?" Do? Compromise like me? If he will compromise, I will too."
Han Shaoling was speechless. He suddenly discovered that Song Lingzi's articulate speech was much stronger than he had imagined.At least, he, a veteran in the shopping mall, seldom suffers from being deflated, but today, he tasted deflated from Song Lingzi's side.
After finishing the last few mouthfuls of breakfast, Song Lingzi pushed the bowl aside. "I know that in the eyes of you men, when a woman is married, she should stay at home and keep her own place. Even if she goes out to work, she must find a job that satisfies the man. However, I have been thinking about a problem. If a woman's life, Will her marriage be really happy if she does everything according to her husband's wishes? Can it guarantee that there will be no problems in the marriage?"
"Actually, this idea is very absurd." Song Lingzi continued without waiting for Han Shaoling's answer. "When a man wants to leave a woman, it's often not because the woman is not obedient enough, but too obedient. It makes him feel that such a woman doesn't mean much to him. How about a traditional good woman? Outside Most of those who are divorced and abandoned by men are such good women. Now being a mistress is always more prestigious than being a wife, do you know why? It is because a man is willing to spoil her, he will not spoil his wife, in his eyes Here, as a wife, she should live in the way he imagined, not according to his wife's wishes. Some women, before marriage, are extremely beautiful, but after marriage, they become completely yellow-faced women, which is what she wants Is it? No, women will become yellow-faced women because of men's self-esteem. Many men will unknowingly kill their wife's nature and make her look hateful. "
"Sister-in-law, I think you think too much, my brother, he is not such a person." Han Shaoling did not expect that besides Han Shaoting, Song Lingzi was the one who complicated the problem.
Song Lingzi took out a tissue and wiped her mouth lightly. "Yes, your brother didn't think so in his heart, but he did it. Men have double standards. If I were replaced by a soldier, do you think he would agree? Men smoke, gamble, drink, this kind of behavior They are all called hobbies. If a woman smokes, gambles, or drinks too much, it is a vice. A man has a bunch of confidante outside, which is called popularity, and if a woman has one or two confidante, it is called restlessness."
"There is an old saying in China, which says that there is no excuse for inflicting a crime." Song Lingzi looked very calm, but there was a trace of sharpness in her eyes that could see through people's hearts, which made Han Shaoling terrified. "If he wants to give up our marriage, even if there is no such thing, he will find other excuses to give up. For example, he can say that I am too strong to live without relying on him, and that I am not as gentle and considerate as other women. He can also Said that I am skittish, and after I get married, I can still attract other men. Of course, he can also say that I have someone in my heart, and I will never forget my ex-boyfriend, or someone else. Otherwise, he can also say confidently, I Song Lingzi is right He's not good enough to bend his head and listen to him."
"So, don't think that my current behavior is damaging our marriage. What can really damage our marriage is the selfishness in everyone's heart." Song Lingzi summed it up very clearly. "He wants to keep me as a pet, but unfortunately, I'm not a peaceful woman, I can't be a pet, I just want to be a woman. In this way, even if one day he chooses to give up on me, I can live a dignified life If I go on, I will not become a pitiful wretch for him. Han Shaoling, I can tell you frankly that I will not make any principled compromises for the sake of marriage, because all principles cannot be changed. Once changed, That person is not the original person.
What else could Han Shaoling say? "Are you really not going to give in?"
"I said, if he wants me to back down, he will also back down." Song Lingzi's determination was very firm. "I'm making my own choice now. Now, it's his turn to make a choice. He can choose to continue or give up. However, no matter which choice it is, I respect his choice."
Han Shaoting saw Han Shaoting's shadow from Song Lingzi's body.Two people have the same pride, the same stubbornness, and the same perseverance.If it were someone else, once they knew that their husband was going to divorce, their first thought would be to keep their marriage, instead of insisting on their own choice like Song Lingzi, and then leaving the final decision to her husband.
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