Military Marriage: Young Master Han's Intriguing Wife

Chapter 167 The Energy of Happiness Han Shaoling could imagine that if Han Shaoting really decided to divorce, he would lose a good wife forever. 【*A strong-willed woman like Song Lingzi may become a thorn in her husband's heart in an ordinary marriage, but in the Han family, Song Lingzi will push Han Shaoting to the top.Behind every successful man, there must be a successful woman supporting him. Undoubtedly, Song Lingzi is a very good candidate.

Han Shaoling left, leaving Song Lingzi alone.She walked out of the window sill, looking at the gray sky, showing a smile from the bottom of her heart.In her previous life, she was a strong woman who was invincible for love, but she was abandoned in return. She, who was strong on the outside and soft on the inside, lost the courage to survive.In this life, she is a weak woman. She sticks to herself for the sake of her career. Maybe she will lose her marriage. However, what she gets in exchange is a woman who can walk gracefully and move forward calmly.

People say that it's not terrible to fall in love with a scumbag, but the terrible thing is seeing his true face and still refusing to let go.Likewise, holding on to a marriage that doesn't make sense can be scary.After all, life is limited. If you still refuse to let go of this marriage knowing that it is going to die, that is not called infatuation, but an idiot.Home you Zhuang Zi.

Of course, Song Lingzi is not indifferent to this marriage. If she really divorces, it will hurt her greatly, but she is not willing to turn herself into a yellow-faced woman for the sake of marriage: when she goes out, it is for Bargain with the vegetable seller, go home to be a maid, and take care of all the housework. When the husband comes back, he becomes an escort, laughing, talking, and sleeping with him.

Perhaps, there are many women who live their lives like this, but Song Lingzi doesn't want this kind of life.She was born again, she shouldn't dedicate herself to men like she did in her previous life.She should have her own life, which can be used as a memory when she is old.

Back in the bedroom, Song Lingzi changed into a gray knitted dress, put on a thick coat, carried a bag, and went to Zhuang Ya's house.

Zhuang Ya was making dumplings in the kitchen, while Song Jing was sitting in the living room watching TV.

Hearing the doorbell ring, Song Jing got up and opened the door.When Song Lingzi saw Song Jing was there, a trace of surprise flashed across her face. "Dad, why are you at home?"

"I'm not at home, where is it?" Song Jing was very dissatisfied. Why did his daughter turn her arms out?

Song Lingzi's lips twitched, but she still didn't say anything.According to common sense, Song Jing should have found a place to move out long ago, but he just stayed in Zhuang Ya's apartment like a normal person, with no plans to move out at all.

If it were someone else, Song Lingzi had already opened her mouth to chase him away, but this time the target was her own father. No matter how much Song Lingzi hated him, she would never have opened her mouth to chase him away.

Zhuang Ya walked out of the kitchen and called her daughter: "You are back, come in and help me make dumplings. Tonight, we will eat dumplings."

Song Jing heard the words, and quickly echoed: "The dumplings made by your mother are delicious, you hurry to help, our family will eat dumplings tonight."

After hearing Song Jing's words, Zhuang Ya sneered: "Who is in your family? Tell you, you have no share in tonight's dumplings."

Song Jing didn't expect that Zhuang Ya would shame herself in front of her daughter, her old face flushed red.In the past few days, Zhuang Ya cooks and washes clothes separately from him, so that he can only eat instant noodles, and he has to learn how to run the washing machine and dry clothes by himself.

Song Lingzi entered the kitchen and asked in a low voice, "Mom, you haven't cooked anything for Dad these days, have you?"

"Are you distressed?" Zhuang Ya cast a sideways glance. "He's your dad, not mine. Why should I serve him?"

Song Lingzi was speechless, these two people used to be the closest people in the world, but after they got divorced, they became irrelevant people.Even, there is a daughter between them.

Thinking of this, Song Lingzi's eyes became gloomy.If she and Han Shaoting divorced, I'm afraid they wouldn't even have this connection. Apart from the shared memories, they would be a part of marriage history - ex-husband and ex-wife.

"What's wrong with you?" Zhuang Ya saw that Song Lingzi was wrong, "Why do you look so bad today?"

Song Lingzi smiled wryly, her mother was still caring, Han Shaoling talked to herself for a long time, but she didn't see that her expression was bad. "I had a fight with Shao Ting last night."

"Arguing?" Zhuang Ya chuckled. "Silly girl, as a husband and wife, how can you not quarrel? Your father and I quarreled the most when we were in the best relationship. Now, the weaker the relationship is, the less likely it is to quarrel. Do you know why? Because the other party is not It takes a lot of effort to get angry with the relevant people.”

Song Lingzi's heart sank, because the other party was irrelevant, so she wouldn't quarrel, but did she quarrel because she cared about the other party?If this reason is true, then what is the relationship between her and Han Shaoting?Is it because you care too much about each other?If Han Shaoting really cared about her, why didn't he respect her ideas and give her a little breathing space?

Zhuang Ya saw that her daughter was in a trance and was worried. "Son, what's wrong with you?"

Song Lingzi blinked her eyes, and finally said in a low voice, "Mom, I mean if, if I divorced Han Shaoting, would you..."

When Zhuang Ya heard these words, her expression gradually became serious. "Why are you arguing?"

"Have you seen my ad?" Song Lingzi was upset. Could it be that her mother didn't see the ad last night.

Zhuang Ya sneered: "He occupies the TV, how can it be my turn to watch it? Besides, he watches either the sports channel or the news channel all day long. What can he see?" Zhuang Ya said of him, naturally Song Jing.It can be seen that during this period of time, Zhuang Ya has accumulated a lot of resentment in her heart.

After a pause, Zhuang Ya asked Song Lingzi seriously: "You two quarreled because of the advertisement?" For Zhuang Ya, it was a bit difficult for her to understand her daughter's thoughts. Why are you arguing about the advertisement?

Song Lingzi nodded, and briefly explained the matter.

After Zhuang Ya listened to her daughter's words, she dragged her into her bedroom.Pressing her daughter onto the bed, Zhuang Ya looked very solemn. "Mom just asks you one thing, do you really want a divorce?"

Song Lingzi shook her head subconsciously, and then smiled sadly: "Mom, what's the use if I don't want a divorce? Shaoting won't allow me to show my face, and I don't want to change myself into another person for him." Song Lingzi only needs to think, Become a woman with nothing to do, stay at home all day doing housework, and wait for her husband to come back, there is a feeling of suffocation.

Zhuang Ya understood her daughter's thoughts. "You child..."

Sitting next to Song Lingzi, Zhuang Ya took her daughter's cold hand: "My child, marriage and divorce are very simple things. You only need to go through the formalities, and within 5 minutes, two people become strangers. But marriage, It's not as simple as going through the formalities. Two people come together and run in with each other. Maybe in the end, the two become one and share life and death. Maybe it's like me and your father, and we become strangers in the end. But no matter what it is At the beginning, don’t give up easily. If you give up easily, you will give up other things easily in the future. Learn to work hard, persevere, find a balance between career and marriage, and let him understand you Choose your own choice, and then respect your choice, instead of blindly adding your own ideas to the other party."

"Mom, he didn't give me a chance to explain at all." Song Lingzi's eyes turned red. It wasn't that she didn't want to explain, but Han Shaoting's attitude was too rough at the beginning, which aroused the rebellion in her bones.If Han Shaoting had discussed with her calmly from the beginning, maybe Song Lingzi would have offered to terminate the contract for him. "Never tried to understand me either."

"Men are like this. They don't listen to explanations easily, and they don't want to understand women's thoughts." Zhuang Ya smiled and patted her daughter's head. "Most of the men in this world are selfish and sexual. Even a man with a gentle appearance will have a sexual side. Especially for women, the more you like them, the more you cherish them, the more you want to hide them, no Let other men take a peek."

Song Lingzi smiled bitterly. According to Zhuang Ya's theory, isn't she the treasure that Han Shaoting is holding in his hands? "Mom, if things are really as you said, he is so angry because he cares about me. Maybe our marriage can still be saved, because he is afraid..." I am afraid that Han Shaoting will always regard her as a substitute, as this substitute No longer obedient, you can find another obedient substitute. This feeling of being easily abandoned and replaced at any time is really terrible. .

Zhuang Ya didn't know the entanglement in her daughter's heart. She hugged her shoulders and persuaded her in a low voice: "Let him calm down for two days. When you are calm and sit down to talk together, you won't be so impulsive. Ling Zi, Mom doesn't want you Divorce, but mother will not force you to stick to this marriage. If you feel that this marriage is not what you want, mother will support you. I will say so much today, just hope that my daughter will not go wrong You can’t choose to give up when you should persist, and choose to persist when you should give up.”

Song Lingzi's heart was warm. For the first time, she discovered that her heart was full of energy, a kind of energy of happiness, which came from her own heart. "Mom, thank you."

"Silly boy." Zhuang Ya stroked her daughter's soft hair. "When I was young, there was a grandma who said that your hair was soft and your personality was soft. Now it seems that that grandma is wrong, and you are tougher than your mother." Zhuang Ya knew very well that Song Lingzi was different from herself. Song Lingzi's marriage has lasted for more than 20 years, but Song Lingzi can't do it. As long as she decides that her marriage is dead, she will leave without hesitation.Although this kind of thinking has its disadvantages, it also has a positive side.At least, her daughter is living according to her own mind. The most rare thing for a person is not to succeed, but to live according to her own mind.