Secret Lovers of Senior Officials: Alipay for Marriage

"Yesterday, my mother received news from my former Harvard classmates. They have all been working hard in the past two years, and they have gained a lot. Some of them have even emerged and quickly rose to the top. However, my mother plans not to go out to work for the next three years. It's not that my mother made any sacrifices, but that since I choose a kind of happiness in life, I have to give up a kind of happiness. If my mother chooses to accompany you, I have to give up the happiness of work..."

"Many parents always think that being with their children is the most insignificant thing. Work is the most important thing, and career is the most important thing. My mother also knew a female professor at the time. She gave birth to her first child at the age of 40, but the day before the child was born In a meeting, I immediately went to various conference calls in the afternoon after giving birth, so that my work partner couldn't bear it, and told her to rest first...Compared with such a career madman, my mother would rather choose to accompany her wholeheartedly. It's very simple, since you are Mother has begged for the gift of God thousands of times, so mother has the obligation to take care of you in every possible way, care for you, and accompany you. In addition to your basic necessities, food, shelter, and transportation, you must also care about your mood changes and experience your growth bit by bit. This kind of experience is much more important than money and work, I think this is the most important point of being a parent..."

"Earning money and working are lifelong careers, and it is never too late; but the time for children to grow up is limited. Mom decided to also be a full-time housewife, and accompany you slowly to understand everything in this world... "

"In the world of life, happiness is the greatest foundation. As the famous writer Wang Shuo said: What requirements do I have for my child? Why should I let her succeed? The so-called career success is not just earning some money to make her mother *Are you all envious when you see it? Why bother! My mother deeply agrees with this sentence. Now, people's value is success, and success is nothing more than earning money and having status... But, this is not related to happiness in life Going the other way?"

"There are many people who earn money in this world, but few people who are happy. My mother is fortunate to have created the conditions for you to live a stable life. Therefore, there are no other big demands on you. The so-called 'looking forward to a child' or 'looking forward to a daughter' Chengfeng'...It is nothing more than the parents being lazy and unhappy all their lives, so they pin their hopes on their children and selfishly hope that their children can achieve tasks that are impossible to complete. If you follow their wishes, they will think you are a dutiful son, Otherwise, you will be disappointed and think that you are not up to date..."

"In our country's 24 filial piety legends, there is a very strange story. A certain person is very filial to his mother, but his family is poor. He discussed with his wife that it would be better to kill his three-year-old son and save food for the old mother to eat more. The reason Children can be regenerated, and there is only one old mother. This person is regarded as a filial son. In fact, isn’t this the most terrible bullying? If you really want to be filial, why doesn’t he work hard to earn money? Why doesn’t he save his rations to the old mother ? Such perverted and vicious parents are admired, and we can see the distortion of the values ​​of our nation for thousands of years: children are only the private property of their parents, and they live or die if you want them. My mother thinks that this is extremely wrong, extremely Vulgar, for such parents, we must rise up and resist, lest they harm future generations..."