wife scandal

My parents and elder brother didn't know about my divorce at the beginning. After all, the situation of my mother's family was not good at that time. An elder brother who lost the ability to work due to serious injury was enough to make my parents sad. At that time, my father was also in very bad health. Well, I don't want to irritate the two old men anymore.

When I got divorced, apart from being allocated a small house, at the same time, I held nearly 10 yuan of private money during my marriage with Deng Wenliang. This part of the money was originally reserved for our small family, and there is something personal about me. Income, there is also some money that Deng Wenliang gave me every month, and I saved it if I couldn't spend it all.

Originally, with this sum of money, I was not in a hurry to find a job, so I could carefully consider the position that suits me, but as the saying goes, the house leaks and it rains continuously. Just when I resigned and prepared to look for a job, my father fell ill again. Falling down, early symptoms of stroke, very dangerous.

Because of the family situation at that time, a sick elder brother could not help at all, and my mother was already in her late [-]s, and it was impossible for her to accompany the bed to take care of the patient, so I was in the hospital to take care of my father when he was admitted to the hospital, and my savings Half of it was spent on my father's medical expenses, because some special medicines cannot be reimbursed by medical insurance.

In this way, after my father’s condition is stable and he is discharged home from the hospital, I have to be busy looking for another job, because I don’t have much savings in my hands, and I must have a decent income to support my future life. I also want to obtain the custody of my daughter Tongtong, so I need a stable and decent job.

However, after several interviews, I became more and more disappointed.

Because my actual situation at the time was not optimistic. I was close to 35 years old and had been at home for more than three years. Although these three years were nominally working part-time in accounting at Shen Tianlin’s company, in fact, this part-time work experience, Formal companies do not accept it, and they will automatically consider this experience as being unemployed at home.

Formal large companies attach great importance to the previous professional experience of employees. You, a woman in her thirties who has been at home for more than three years, can be said to be uncompetitive in the workplace. A well-known company will think that your previous home experience It decouples you from the society and prevents you from engaging in high-precision financial work; private small companies are very age-sensitive, and they generally set the entry age below 30 years old, because the accountants they recruit not only do financial work, but also work part-time in the office For some other jobs, they need young people in their prime and quick hands and feet, so the employees of such companies are generally under the age of 30. In this way, women in their thirties like me do not have the advantage.

So I encountered an unprecedented problem, and I couldn't find a suitable job position for a while.

Back to Shen Tianlin's company?

Of course, this idea is not feasible. Let’s not talk about his unreasonable thoughts about me. I just said that the resignation was proposed by myself. As the saying goes, a good horse never turns back. Eat this back grass.

However, if I don't return to Shen Tianlin's company, I really can't find a job that can match the salary he gave me.

During this period, I was very hesitant in my heart, and I kept wondering in my heart, what should I do next?

Because I came out to look for a job again at my age, I belonged to a relatively awkward group of people. Compared with those young people in their early twenties who have not graduated from college for a few years, I must not be competitive.

And my experience of staying at home for several years also makes it difficult for me to enter some large-scale enterprises. If I can’t enter such enterprises, I can only enter some relatively informal small enterprises, which means that the salary will not be too high .

At that time, I always had an idea in my mind, that is to do something by myself, and start slowly like a small business. Haichao has been by my side to give me advice. We had an idea at the time that we wanted to open a fast food restaurant, but after several times After planning, I felt that it was not feasible.

At this time, a friend from other places that Haichao knew wanted to go back to his hometown because his wife was going to have a baby, so he wanted to sell the Malatang shop next to a bustling street in the village in the city, so Haichao and I went to visit the shop. After visiting the store, we all felt that the location and scale of that store were very suitable, so we wanted to sell that store.

The store is located in a village in the city. This kind of place has already been included in the scope of urban planning, so it will be demolished sooner or later. However, as long as the government does not come to force the demolition, this kind of place will be very busy and bustling. It is a good place to make money. , very popular.

Because there are many cheap rental houses around the village in the city, and there are many cheap snack bars on both sides of the street. The rent here is much cheaper than regular commercial stores in the city, which is suitable for small businesses like us to practice for the first time.

Now that the idea has been decided, we will implement it immediately, and the lease agreement of the store will be completed soon. The rent is paid in advance by me personally, because I am running the store in general, and the tide is only a symbolic entry point In fact, she is mainly doing me a favor.

After renting the house, we asked someone to clean it up, repaint the walls, and put up a bright plaque. This kind of place doesn't pay much attention to luxurious decoration at all, and the people living around it are low-paid migrant workers. , so as long as it is simple, practical and clean.

We bought some necessities for opening a Mala Tang shop from the original owner, such as tables, chairs, dishes, refrigerators, freezers, etc., as well as some tools for making Mala Tang, which saved us from buying again. , we added some necessary daily necessities.

In the process of doing this, Haichao helped me go through the relevant procedures for opening a store with the departments of industry and commerce, taxation, etc., because she is much more familiar with various aspects than me. I really want to thank her, a good friend who has never met before. Helped me a lot.

There is a not-so-small vegetable market next to the village in the city. There are all kinds of vegetables, fruits, fresh meat and poultry, so it is very convenient for me to open a Malatang shop. I also recruited a young girl from Sichuan to help me. , It can be said that everything is ready and only owes the east wind.

On a sunny day, our small shop finally opened!

The door of our shop is usually open, and there is a row of shabu-shabu shelves at the door. The soup inside is prepared by me according to the secret recipe provided by the original shop owner. Usually, I mainly stand at the door of the shop and cook the ingredients for customers myself.

The store is small in size. In addition to some necessary necessities for the refrigerator and freezer, there are also four small square tables. Some customers like to sit down and eat, so they will walk into the store and sit down to eat slowly. We also provide some Small pickles with unique flavor.

The little girl I hired was mainly responsible for greeting the customers in the store, and then helping me with my men and things.

To open this kind of snack bar, you must not be afraid of suffering, because if you want to make more money, you have to get up early and stay late.

Every morning, I arrive at the store at seven o'clock to make all preparations for the day and welcome customers.

In the evening, we usually don’t finish work until around nine o’clock. During holidays when there are a lot of people, we have to follow the off-duty time.

At the same time, my working environment is mainly outdoors, so it will definitely damage a woman's appearance to a certain extent, such as sun protection, beauty treatment, etc., are not even mentioned.

But I didn't care about it at all. Until this moment, I really felt that the beauty of a woman didn't mean much to me. I just wanted to eat a bowl of rice with my own hands.

For the hard work of opening this store, I have already made sufficient psychological preparations at the beginning of the opening. After all, I encountered the greatest hardship in my life before, first divorced and then unemployed. At that time, I did not have much money in hand. I was repeatedly frustrated in finding a job that matched my major. Various circumstances forced me to find a well-paid job as soon as possible, and this snack bar was just right for me at the time.

As long as this kind of small shop is willing to endure hardships, the income is quite good. It can be said that the small business has small profits but high sales.

Because of this, I gritted my teeth and opened this small shop. During that time, every night when I came home, my back was sore and my body seemed to be falling apart. The hard work is self-evident.

However, at the end of the month, when I think about the huge net profit of the month, the pain in my heart is swept away, because the great joy of harvest has completely replaced the hard work I suffered before.

On a Saturday afternoon, the weather was cloudy and foggy.

On this day, because the rented migrant workers and students around us are all at home on vacation, our business is very good, and it can be said that we are all overwhelmed.

The Sichuan girl I recruited was Xiaomei. She spoke Mandarin with a Sichuan taste, and helped me warmly greet all the customers in the store, while I kept busy in front of the cooking rack.

At this time, I didn't notice at all that there was a person standing about one meter away from me, watching me for a long time.

It wasn't until the customers in front of me gradually dispersed that I took the time to raise my head and glance at that person. In fact, I noticed later that a person seemed to be looking at me all the time, but I didn't have time to look up at him.

Now, I finally raised my head and took a serious look at that person. At that time, I was stunned.

Because, he is Ye Xing.