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Chapter 6 Psychological Strategy 6: Harmonize with colleagues and create a relationship that is both right and left

Section [-] Differentiate the treatment of colleagues in Chengfushen
Mental Wisdom Call:

The so-called colleagues who are too deep in the city refer to those colleagues who do not want others to easily understand their minds at work, and always try to protect themselves in various ways, hiding their secrets.This kind of colleague often speaks far and wide, does not make a clear statement on any issue, and often ambiguously talks about him.

Skillful in control:

When dealing with colleagues who are too deep in the city, you have to be careful and guard against them.You must pay more attention to your words and deeds, and be careful not to be used by others and become his tool, let alone let him know your details.

The reason why some colleagues are too deep and unwilling to communicate with other colleagues is because he (she) may be a person who has had setbacks and been hit and hurt.Past experience makes this kind of person have a very strong hostile attitude towards society and others, so he takes more protection for himself.

Such colleagues are often "bitten by snakes once, afraid of well ropes for ten years". Their past failures make them unwilling to open their hearts to anyone. It's to protect yourself so that you won't suffer the slightest harm.They think that as long as they close the door of their hearts, others can no longer hurt themselves.

Such a colleague is actually very lonely in his heart. He (she) may be very eager to communicate with others, but he (she) is afraid of being hurt again, so he (she) wraps himself up in layers and does not get close to anyone.

For such colleagues, we should not treat them indifferently, but should be frank and touching with sincerity.The city of this kind of person is not for harming people, but for preventing people.Therefore, you should not have any precautions against such a colleague. In order to truly achieve the purpose of communication, you can even open your heart to him (her) without reservation.

At work, some colleagues seem to be very sophisticated, making it impossible to understand their inner hearts, but in fact, it may be that he (she) lacks understanding of certain things and cannot come up with valuable opinions.In this case, in order to cover up their ignorance, they communicate with people in a noncommittal manner, with an ambiguous tone, and pretend to be very deep.

On the outside, this kind of colleagues give other people a deep impression of Cheng Fu, but in fact they are often relatively empty in their hearts. They obviously lack assertiveness when dealing with problems at work or interacting with colleagues, and they also lack a certain degree of awareness of things.

In view of the characteristics of this kind of colleagues, we should pay attention to: when getting along with them, don't chase after them, make them feel very shameless, and don't deliberately expose their ignorance in public.If you don't pay attention to these, you will have one more enemy and one less friend among your colleagues.

In short, if you have to deal with some people who are too deep in the city, you should carefully distinguish them, see what kind of people they belong to, and then determine your own behavior.

(End of this chapter)