Learn some wonderful questioning techniques, mind reading techniques, and psychological control tech

Chapter 29 Part [-]
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Chapter 6 Interrogation scene 6: The secret that women cannot tell

The second section uses rhetorical questions instead of unsure answers
Mini scene house:
When a boy is about to confess his love to a girl, how can he find out how she feels about him through questioning.

Question story session:
Girl: "I have a question for you. How can there be men in this world who don't want to find a girlfriend or get married?"

Boy: "Huh? Why?"

Girl: "It's not that he is incapable, he looks worse than others, or other reasons. As long as the girl likes it, it's enough, but why doesn't the boy know? Could it be that he can't feel it? Are he really stupid?"

Boy: "You say boys are stupid? Can't feel it? You mean girls are more active and sensitive?"

After saying this, an imperceptible smile appeared on the boy's face.

Girl: "Yeah, some boys are just stupid, and they don't even know if someone likes them."

While saying this, the girl glanced at the boy inadvertently.

Boy: "When you say that, I'm even more confused. Who do you mean by boy? Do I know him?"

Girl: "It's you."

Boy: "Me? Who likes me?"

Girl: "I like you, how stupid!"

Boy: "Actually, I like you too."

Wonderful question:

Generally speaking, the mood before a boy confesses to a girl is joy, nervousness, and uneasiness. He doesn't know whether the girl will accept him, and the girl will not take the initiative to express her feelings for the boy.Girls' thinking is always hazy and reserved, and straightforward expression is not their favorite.At this time, in order to see their sincerity clearly, you can use the questioning method of constant rhetorical questions. Even if the other party asks you to answer, you can answer with questions instead of asking you to answer instead of asking her.The girl's true intentions will slowly be revealed in front of your eyes.

In the story, during the conversation between the boy and the girl, he did not answer any question directly, but gave back to the other party in the form of rhetorical questions.The advantage of doing this is: while not revealing your own thoughts, the other party's thoughts will gradually emerge with her answers.

The girl above first complained that some boys practiced celibacy, and analyzed that it might not be that he was incompetent but that he didn't realize that there were girls who liked him.These few words are obviously tendentious: she already has her own heart, but the boy she likes hasn't understood yet, and she is reminding him in this way.And the boy in the article, no matter what questions the girl asks, he doesn't answer, but just answers the questions.He wanted to use this method to find out the girl's mind first, and then say what he wanted to say after knowing it well.Unexpectedly, the girl took the lead in saying what she liked about him during his questioning, and he also took advantage of the opportunity to express his love to the other party.

The questioning method of just asking questions instead of taking the initiative to answer can have unexpected effects when boys woo girls.Compared with men, women don't like straightforward expressions. They hope that the other party will give themselves a psychological preparation, which includes language, questioning methods and speaking content.It is not easy to do this well.Therefore, before a man expresses his love to a woman, he should try to find out what the other party is thinking, and use rhetorical questions to let her reveal her thoughts, so that he can seize the opportunity to show his love and capture the other party's heart in one fell swoop.

(End of this chapter)