For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 32
Before we knew it, we became "legends" among each other's friends.

Gu Wei and I are not good at dancing, but we have good friends around us.At our age, it is really a kind of happiness to have friends and colleagues who get along well with each other, make jokes when we have nothing to do, and help each other when we encounter difficulties.

In my circle of friends, Gu Wei is known as "the art of controlling a wife".

In his circle of friends, I was known as "the right way to control the husband".

We explained: "No, we just have compatible personalities", but no one believed it, and the reason is unknown.

Chen Cong is a treasure

Chen Cong always said: "You two can achieve a positive result, brother is really heartbroken, and it is ready-made dumpling stuffing."

As Gu Wei's closest friend and colleague, they are in the same junior high school, the same high school, and the same graduate school. Although they are at different levels, they are quite close.The two of them have worked their way up to now, and in Chen Cong's words: "As far as our relationship is concerned, we can definitely marry each other with our fingertips in the future."

However, Mrs. Chen has been in the family for two years, and Gu Wei is still a widow. Out of consideration for the future happiness of his children, Chen Cong claimed to "shoulder the heavy responsibility of releasing Gu Wei".

When he first learned about our relationship, Chen Cong was still quite worried: "Gu Wei, isn't it stressful to find someone who is so much younger than me?" (What kind of logic is this?)
Gu Wei: "She is small, don't you find it very interesting?"

Chen Cong was at a loss: "Huh? Then... what about getting old?"

Gu Wei: "She's old, don't you think it's interesting?"

Chen Cong: "..."

Later, Chen Cong said to me: "Gu Wei sometimes, the way of speaking is wrong."

Chen Cong is still very satisfied with Gu Wei's changes after falling in love: "Yo, that's fine, I've gained two catties for you, and you're becoming more and more like a mature man!"

So I quietly passed Chen Cong's "assessment".After that, every time he went to the hospital, he yelled happily "Siblings~Xiaoxiao~", not only yelling himself, but also inciting the masses to yell along.There are many interns in the hospital, and it will be boring for young people to get together.

Eating in the cafeteria at noon——

"Doctor Gu is in love!"

"no picture no truth!"

Chen Cong immediately added a kick: "Mobile desktop, mobile desktop."

Then a group of people looked at Gu Wei with green eyes.

After Gu Wei bought the meal, he just took out his mobile phone and dialed my number, when someone snatched it away.

When I pick up here, I only hear——

"Mobile phone!"

"Desktop desktop!"

"Hurry up!"

I thought there was a crossover, so I said, "Huh? Is there a bug in the communication tower?"

There was an instant silence.

After a while, Gu Wei said with a smile, "Have you eaten yet?"

I asked, "What happened just now?"

Gu Wei: "It's okay, you have already scared them away."

I:"……"

Later, when I went to the hospital, people I didn’t know would say to me, “Look for Dr. Gu?” That feeling was extremely shy.

Chen Cong was the first to sniff out something wrong with Gao Xi's matter, and immediately reminded Gu Wei: "If you think about this matter clearly, you should be quick."

Chen Cong was also the first to talk to me: "Xiaoxiao, Gu Wei never thought about having anything to do with Gao Xi."

I said, "I know."

The matter of continuing the frontier is actually not as simple as it is written in the novel.It is pure nonsense to look back and be able to do firewood.Many times, a relationship has passed, recognized it, let it go, and looking back, it really is the past.When you have people who love each other by your side, after you slowly explore, deliver, and merge together, you will not be separated so easily.Giving up the love in your hands and going back to a fresh and curious game about the past, only a fool would do this.

Chen Cong: "Gu Wei's method is the most appropriate. If you don't give the other party a chance, it will freeze after a long time. After all, it's not good to make a fuss in the same unit. Besides, Gu Wei's predecessors and future generations stick to you. Blind eyes can't see it."

After all, the two once had a relationship, no matter how short or long the relationship is, if Gu Wei speaks badly to Gao Xi or treats him like a pet, I will be the most disappointed.Don't love a man who has broken with his ex-girlfriend, and don't love a man who devalues ​​his ex-girlfriend.The former is scum, and the latter is also scum.A man who really regards a relationship as the past has a peaceful state of mind, a polite manner, and a rigorous attitude, because no matter whether it was good or bad in the past, she will not have an impact on our lives now, and neither will the future. .

During that time, Chen Cong was almost inseparable from Gu Wei in the hospital, trying to prevent Gao Xi and Gu Wei from having any chance to contact alone.When Gu Wei had a showdown with Gao Xi for the last time, Chen Cong was by his side.

"Gao Xi, I have a family. Even if I don't have a family, it's impossible for us. We both know our problems. You are still you, and I am still me. It's useless to do it again. Don't come to our department in the future, to avoid suspicion. "At that time, Gu Wei hadn't even met my parents.

Although Chen Cong joked afterwards that his heart was in vain, we still thank him, because there are not many men who are willing to do such a thankless thing, unless they are determined to treat you as a brother.

Chen Cong's character is like this, if he is not sincerely emotional, he seldom talks;As in friendship, so in love.

That's how he proposed to his fiancee back then.

Mrs. Chen: "How do I know that you won't bother in the future?"

Chen Cong: "What are you looking for? Don't you just ask for sex? All women look the same when they are cut open in front of me. I have already seen the essence through the phenomenon, so why bother?"

His fiancée agreed after thinking about it, what a magical couple.

It is rumored that Mrs. Chen is "extremely difficult to deal with". As an excellent journalist, she has good eloquence, quick response and strong aura, and can suppress Chen Cong in minutes.

The first time I was invited to Chen Cong's house, I saw Mrs. Chen in person. She was unexpectedly slender.I found out that Mrs. Chen's appearance was extremely deceptive and confusing. It was when she made a teapot with her hips on her hips and ordered Chen Cong to buy seven kinds of vegetables within 15 minutes.

Later, the four of them washed, cut and cut a large table, and shabu-shabu.

At the end of the meal, Mrs. Chen decided—"Truth or Dare! Tell me, when was Gu Wei the sexiest?"

I was suddenly pointed at by a chopstick, and I was a little out of sorts. I turned my head and looked at Gu Wei who was putting potato slices into the pot beside me: "When cutting vegetables." I always felt that Gu Wei put on his apron and shredded potatoes. Carrot shreds... when it comes to all kinds of shreds, da da da da da, it's so sexy that it can't be sexier.

Gu Wei shook his head and laughed beside him.

Mrs. Chen: "Say, when is Xiaoxiao the sexiest?"

Facing the tip of the chopsticks that suddenly turned towards her, Gu Wei was obviously much calmer: "Just say you want to gossip, and use your chopsticks to cover up."

Mrs. Chen: "I'll cover up a little bit, so you don't have to cover up."

While putting the vegetables on the table calmly, Gu Wei said: "It's time to iron the clothes. At that time, it's more like a husband and a child."

Chen Cong suddenly said "Oh~~~" wretchedly, but Mrs. Chen gave her a sideways look and immediately silenced her.

Later, Mrs. Chen said to me meaningfully: "Next time when you are ironing clothes, wrap yourself up tightly, or just expose yourself."

I seem to suddenly understand something...

The relationship between Chen Cong and Gu Wei, in general, is love, killing, mutual hatred.

someday.

Chen Cong: "Last night, my wife insisted that I watch some romantic movie with her. After I finished watching, I said I was bored, but she still lost my temper with me. Is it boring in the first place! She still teases me... "

Gu Wei: "My wife never uses physical violence against me." (I always use mental violence against him.)
someday.

Chen Cong: "Did you watch the game last night? My wife forbids me to watch the game at night."

Gu Wei: "My wife and I watched it together." (I mainly watched handsome guys.)
someday.

Chen Cong: "I ate quick-frozen dumplings for two days in a row!" (Mrs. Chen is on a business trip.)
Gu Wei: "Yesterday we had four dishes and one soup." (On a whim.)
someday.

Chen Cong: "My wife and my mother must never be together for more than half an hour. Once more than half an hour, there will definitely be conflicts and I will be caught in the middle."

Gu Wei: "The two of my family get along very well, and there is no conflict." (This is true.)
Chen Cong sighed: "Why is your life so good?"

Gu Wei was very calm: "Don't be envious or jealous."

Chen Cong exploded immediately: "You won't die!"

someday.

Chen Cong: "Hey, new shirt?"

Gu Wei: "The school bought it."

Chen Cong: "Aren't you going to eat?"

Gu Wei: "The school will send it in a while."

Chen Cong: "How do you go home at night under such heavy rain?!"

Gu Wei: "The school came to pick me up and take you back along the way."

Chen Cong: "Aren't you a man who eats, wears, and transports you?!"

Gu Wei: "When she comes, you can ask her if I am a man."

Comrade Gu Wei, what do you mean by your words?
So when I went to pick up Gu Wei, Chen Cong came up to meet him: "School, you can take care of me too!"

I:"……"

domineering couple
Every time I turn on the computer, the floating windows that pop up are always full of various social news: fights, threats and intimidation, looking for death...

Gu Wei summed it up, when Sansan and I met someone who jumped off a building and cut his wrists, we would never step forward to persuade him to come down with the warmth of spring, but would only——

"Jumping, it's a real jumping, it's not a difficult movement, you've been muttering about it for a long time, do you want external assistance?!" sniffing, it was Sansan.

"Oh, whatever you want." It was me who walked by.

So I have to find a warm-hearted one, and Sansan has to find a cold-hearted one.

Compared with Chen Cong's "protection" of me, Sansan's attitude towards Gu Wei is serious, rational, and critical.Her reason is: Anyone who can cut a knife off a person is not a good stubble.

In the past, Sansan imagined a beautiful future like this: "When you come to X City, we will depend on each other for life. I will take care of the outside and you will take care of the inside. I will chop firewood and you will cook." The result—"Where are you here to deepen the revolution?" Friendship? It's obviously here to cultivate adultery!"

I couldn't understand: "Didn't you just encourage me to take down Gu Wei at the beginning?"

Sansan: "I saw that you never walked to the river, and I was worried that you would not be enlightened! Who knew that when you got to the river, your shoes were not wet, and people fell directly into it! What do you like about him?"

I said, "He doesn't need to do anything, the stop there is just a painting!"

Sansan despises: "I didn't realize you were such an idiot before."

I sighed: "Young man, you haven't met it yet, so you don't understand."

Later, Comrade Xiao Zhongyi was born.I smelled the smell of pink early on, because Sansan was very bluntly nympho when she was still very ignorant: "The assistant manager is very young, and the main problem is that they are also very handsome."

I asked, "How handsome?"

Sansan: "It's just... the kind that will make you feel better after watching it for a long time."

Therefore, it is true that beauty is in the eyes of beholders.

Once when I went shopping with Sansan, I saw a blood collection truck, and the type A and type O blood banks were ischemic. We discussed it and went to donate blood.While queuing in front of the blood collection vehicle, two passing girls chatted in front of the billboard.

A: "OMG, don't donate blood. My periods have been irregular since I donated last time."

B: "That's right! I saw a person on Tianya who said that after donating blood, she felt dizzy and fatigued for two whole months, lost weight directly, and even got sick!"

Sansan twitched her lips when she heard that, "Is she smoking 200 or 2000?"

A: "Women should learn to love themselves. How many women do you think are stupid enough to donate blood?" After speaking, the two looked at us.

At that time, there were only three or three or two women in the queue, and San and three were working overtime and being put on small shoes by their superiors, so they were quite excited, so they came up out of nowhere: "Girl, have you read too many postings from Tianya? Put the knife on your neck for you to offer."

A: "Then why do doctors and nurses never donate blood?"

Sansan: "Why do all the doctors and nurses I know donate? Could it be that people are divided into groups and things are divided into groups?"

B took hold of A: "Okay, don't be angry." Then he turned to us and smiled sweetly, "Sister, remember to go back and drink 200cc chicken soup to replenish blood after the donation."

Sansan: "Your middle school biology and Chinese teacher taught it, the chicken soup goes directly into the blood vessels."

The surrounding nurses and blood donors laughed together.

I took Sansan's arm, and said to the two girls, "I wish you good health, and never have a blood collapse, and never go to the operating table, lest there will be no blood from stupid people to save you."

The last two girls left quickly.

Sansan is a person who lives a very lively life. You can always see a very stubborn vitality in her, which has not disappeared after many changes, so it is very valuable.Sansan also had a pure first love.When she was in high school, she was the class monitor, and when she came and went with the deputy monitor, she had a little ambiguity.But at that time, except for Jinshi Yinxi and his ilk, most people would not dare to risk their lives for puppy love, so the two of them exchanged glances occasionally.

After the college entrance examination, Sansan went to City X, and the deputy squad leader went to City Z, and the two began a long-distance relationship.The later stories were nothing new, the deputy squad leader was "infatuated" with Sansan on one side, and affectionately towards "alternate girlfriend" on the other side.Sansan parachuted into Z City to surprise him, but it turned out to be no surprise. She simply cursed "Bastard" and came back, lying in my arms and crying all night.From the sophomore to the junior year of high school, she waited for him for four and a half years.

I comforted her: "It's okay, who didn't fall in love with a few scumbags when they were young?"

After being heartbroken, Sansan regained her anger: "My mother is in such a beautiful age, what are you afraid of!" However, she never gave any man a chance after that, "Seriously make money! How can a man be reliable with money?"

At a class reunion after work, Sansan met the deputy monitor again. She responded calmly and called me when she got home: "I really want to leave, but I still feel sad."

It is the brain that wants to open, and the heart that is sad, that is the only pink in the youth that is burdened by books.

Sansan hadn't dealt with her emotions well yet, but rumors began to spread in the circle of classmates.

On the night of the class reunion, Sansan drank too much, and her deskmate enthusiastically sent her home. As soon as her heart was moved and her head became hot, she let out a sigh of relief.There is no substantive content, only mentioning the relationship with the deputy squad leader back then, but for those who are interested, it is enough to make up N dramas, plus the deputy squad leader fanning the flames with his pipa half-hidden, the rumors are getting hotter and hotter, the more The more outrageous the compilation.

Sansan was trembling with anger: "How could my high school deskmate make up so many things? Doesn't she feel guilty!"

Although Sansan looked like a hot-blooded young man shouting and screaming all day long, he was very soft in his bones.She is always used to think of people in a positive light, and suffered a lot for this.I really didn't want to see her good life be ruined by such things, so I warned her: "Remember, don't expose your wounds to irrelevant people in the future. They are watching the excitement, and they won't feel sorry for you."

I have been thinking, such a good girl, when will a good man show up, love her, protect her and promise her peace for the rest of her life.

When Xiao Zhongyi was chasing Sansan, it happened that Sansan was stabbed by soldiers.Xiao Zhongyi faced up to the difficulties, came in the water, went out in the fire, all those who blocked the way, disturbed, hindered, and caused chaos, met the gods and killed the gods, met the Buddha and killed the Buddha, everything was completely wiped out.

Before giving up resistance, Sansan asked, "What do you like about me?"

Xiao Zhongyi looked at her: "Why do you have to have a reason? It's just because I want to be with you."

Since then, Sansan has completely fallen.

During the tug-of-war between Xiao Zhongyi and Sansan for more than a year, [-] to [-] were entangled and depressed several times, and the consequences of being unhappy were "School, let's go eat delicious food", "School, let's go shopping", "School, let's go out and play this weekend"...

Gu Wei was very upset about the time I was carve up, and Sansan also held a "scientific and cautious skepticism" towards him, so when Gu Wei and Sansan met at first, there was always some "sparks flying around" ".

(End of this chapter)