For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 63 Dear Gu Wei (2)
"Then why did you put my picture on the title page?"

"In order to distinguish it from others."

"..." Many times I think Gu Wei is an alien.

When I got home from get off work, I said to Gu Wei, "I'll bake corn for you to eat." (I just learned it from Teacher Lin on the phone.)
Then get down to it.

Gu Wei silently stir-fried vegetables and made soup beside him.

When he served three dishes and one soup, I was still fighting with the corn kernels.

Gu Wei: "Hmm—"

Me: "Huh?"

Gu Wei: "I just want to ask, what time can we have dinner today?"

I:"……"

Finally, I gave up the frying pan and switched to an electric baking pan, poured it in, and pressed the lid: "Eat the vegetables first."

Gu Wei sat across from me, with a half-smile expression on his face: "No way, the food is finished, isn't it ready?"

Me: "Then you eat slowly."

After waiting for 10 minutes, I ran to the kitchen to take out the baked corn, and it still looked pretty good.

Bring to the table.

Gu Wei: "I'm already full after eating vegetables."

I exploded: "Gu Wei!"

Gu Wei: "Just kidding."

Then he ate half of it.

Me: "Aren't you full?"

Gu Wei: "The chief has given instructions, do I still dare to be full?"

Me: "If I didn't go to you back then, what would you do?" Actually, I have always been curious.

Gu Wei said calmly, "Then I'll go find you."

Me: "And then?" Do you light candles and play the guitar downstairs?
Gu Wei: "Call me directly."

Me: "And then?"

Gu Wei: "Catch and leave."

I am embarrassing...: "And then?"

Gu Wei stopped suddenly: "Why are you telling me?"

I'm curious."

Gu Wei: "I tell you that you won't be able to use it in your next life."

Tsk, Gu Wei, have you learned how to talk about love?

Gu Wei accompanied me back to City Y.

After taking a bath at night, I blow-dry my mother's hair. I stand while she sits with her forehead in my arms: "When I get old, will you blow-dry my hair like this?"

I said, "When you're old, I'll do whatever you want."

Mother smiled: "I'm old, what else can I do? Old arms and legs, so I just stay at home."

I said, "You can eat it. Eat whatever you want. If you want silver, I'll give you gold. If you want gold, I'll give you emerald. If you want emerald, I'll give you diamonds."

Mother: "Then what if I want to eat diamonds?"

Teacher Lin floated by and wiped his mother's face: "Then throw you into the mine..."

The air was relatively dry, and Mr. Lin didn't have the habit of applying body lotion after taking a shower, so he swayed to his mother's side: "My back is itchy, scratch it."

Mother was someone who would never do aggressive things to the skin, so she stroked his back and said, "Okay."

Teacher Lin: "Scratch again."

Mother: "..." She stroked her twice again.

Teacher Lin: "To the left, a little to the left, um, a little bit higher—too high!"

"..." Mother exploded, "Am I your maid?!"

Teacher Lin: "Is this job done by a maid?!"

Mother: "..."

Teacher Lin: "Even if it is, it must be a male servant girl!"

Gu Wei and I laughed.

I carried a large stack of folded clothes to the dressing room, and saw Gu Wei wandering around, looking down at the things in his hand.

Me: "What are you looking at so seriously?"

Gu Wei shook the thing in his hand: "Your mother gave it to me."

My diary when I was young... I don't even know what I wrote!Is there a mother who cheats children so much?Rob!The pile of sheets and quilts in my hand couldn't be freed, so I kicked them!
Right leg target height, Gu Wei chest.Turns out he didn't kick the diary (he got out of the way).

Me: "Ahhhhhhh—"

Pulled the ligament...

Sure enough, he is old.

Gu Wei hugged me to the sofa, relaxed my leg muscles, and couldn't laugh or cry: "How long have you not exercised? Have you never exercised since you went out?"

Me: "Who just exercises high kicks when it's okay?"

Gu Wei smiled: "I told you to kick me."

Me: "..." After a while, "Isn't the ligament strained?"

Gu Wei gritted his teeth: "No. At most, the right leg will be longer than the left leg in the future."

=_=!I quickly stretched out my left leg and swept towards him, but he pinched my calf.

Gu Wei: "I knew it!"

I laughed: "Isn't it the same length?"

Gu Wei: "If you rebel, you want it."

about the child

Yin Xi recommended me to watch "Where Are We Going, Dad", which made me inexplicably happy.

"Doctor Gu, what will it be like if you bring your baby?"

"It's as if it's not your baby."

"=_=... I think men who become fathers are very handsome."

"Ah."

"There is a mature temperament."

"Ah."

"Warm and cute."

"Ah."

"It makes me happy just looking at it."

"Lin Zhixiao, what do you want to do?"

"...what can I do?"

"..."

I took the subway with Gu Wei, there was only one seat left, after thinking about it, I decided to stand with him.

A pair of young parents, sitting across the aisle of the carriage, their baby toddler, like a small train, walks from father's arms to mother's arms, and then from mother's arms to father's arms... repeat .Suddenly, Baby changed his route halfway, rushed towards Gu Wei, and then threw himself on his lap.Gu Wei immediately bent down to support the baby, fearing that the baby would fall due to inertia when the car stops.Then, finding that the baby didn't let go, she hugged his legs like that, looked at him with her head up, and after watching for a long time, she made an expression between Marilyn Monroe's classic asking for a kiss and blowing bubbles.

Bao Bao resolutely hugged Gu Wei's leg tightly, even if his parents pulled it, he couldn't pull it.Gu Wei looked at me with embarrassment.

I laughed: "You should exercise in advance."

Gu Wei's ears turned red.After thinking about it, he simply squatted down.Baby let go, stood in his arms and blinked at him.

Gu Wei tried to hug him, but Baby was very cooperative, with one arm wrapped around his neck.

Gu Wei stood up holding him, hugged him for a while, and kept communicating with him in an extremely soft voice: "Uncle will get off the car soon, can you go and find Dad?"

It was only one stop before we got off the bus that he put the baby in his father's arms.

After getting out of the car, Gu Wei helped his forehead: "I'm so nervous that I'm sweating..."

Gu Wei: "I'll go to a meeting next week."

Me: "Well."

Gu Wei: "About four or five days."

Me: "Well."

Gu Wei: "What's wrong?"

Me: "Are you tired?"

Gu Wei remained silent.

Chen Cong said: "The elders live like monks. They don't smoke or drink, sleep at a fixed time and get up at a fixed time. There are often emergencies. If you don't take good care of your body, you will be unable to carry it when you are 50 or [-] years old. Retirement is not far from the coffin. Yes. Look at the surgery schedule!"

The doctor's father said: "We don't want our children to go this way, because we have come all the way and know how hard it is."

Only I know the hardships of this industry, and I can only caress Gu Wei's back and say to him: "Just tell me if you are tired." Actually, it doesn't help much.

Caressing his spine one by one, thinking of him standing with his head bowed in front of the operating table for so long every day.

Gu Wei: "I called your dad two days ago, and he said that he wants to move to City X after retirement."

I said "um".

Gu Wei wrapped me in his arms: "When the parents have retired, we will have children."

I froze for a moment, I didn't expect him to mention this suddenly.

Gu Wei: "I'm too busy... I can't take care of you."

Me: "It's okay. I'm OK."

Gu Wei: "No."

Me: "Gu Wei——"

His voice was soft but not subject to discussion: "No."

Me: "Do you want to be a dad at 40?"

Gu Wei: "Yes."

Me: "Just ask the confinement sister-in-law."

Gu Wei: "No." He was so stubborn that there was no room for negotiation.

I'm actually not that attached to children. I used to think that it doesn't matter if I have them or not.But one winter, when I was going out, I saw the doctor's father helping grandpa unzip his coat, put on a scarf, and lead him out by the hand.I watched the two of them walking hand in hand from behind, and suddenly felt that if there were no children, then how difficult life would be for grandpa after grandma left.Children are the continuation of the partner. If the partner leaves, only the children can give spiritual support and emotional relief.

Then, there was the idea of ​​having children.

Now, this has become Gu Wei's concern.

In their hospital, when Director A’s wife gave birth, Director A was undergoing surgery. When he got off the operating table and heard that the fetal position was not right, he rushed to the delivery room without changing his clothes; Director B was an old woman; Director C gave birth early when he was studying in graduate school. The child was sent abroad in junior high school, and now he only sees him once a year or two.

Director B persuaded Gu Wei: "You have a heavy task for the next two years, and Xiao Lin is still young."

Gu Wei became sad and silent, it hurt my heart to see it.He rarely asks of me.

I stroked his back: "Okay. Wait another two years."

Gu Wei sighed lightly.

Me: "So you have to take good care of your body. When I'm not around, you should eat and sleep. Your maintenance tasks are more difficult than mine. If I find you eating biscuits again, you will be in trouble."

Gu Wei: "Yes."

Me: "The takeaway is not delicious, but it's fresh."

Gu Wei smiled: "Yes."

When I was dazed and started to feel sleepy, he whispered in my ear, "We'll just have one, just one."

That serious but slightly excited tone made me want to laugh.In fact, he has always loved children.

Me: "What a waste of your genes!"

Gu Wei fell silent.

I touched his face: "Darling, try to run to the twins."

Gu Wei was finally amused by me and fell into a deep sleep.

Yin Xi came to X City for business, and I immediately demanded: "Bring my son."

After receiving my son, I said to Yin Xi: "Go and do your work, I and Pumpkin are living together."

I hugged the pumpkin: "Do you miss me?"

Pumpkin head dots.

After playing for a while at home, Pumpkin: "Hungry."

"What to eat?"

"pumpkin pie."

=_=Does food need to be linked with the name?

There is no pumpkin in the house, so I asked, "Would hash browns work?"

Guagua shook his head.

Me: "Sweet potato?"

Guagua looked up at me.

I hurriedly guided: "The last time my aunt bought it for you, do you remember the roasted sweet potatoes? Sweet potatoes are also melons." (Guagua is very obsessed with the word "melon".)
Guagua thought for a while and nodded.

While steaming sweet potatoes, Gu Wei came back.

Me: "Guagua, call me Uncle."

Guagua: "I——f." Authentic British accent.

Me: "Aunt—Father—"

Guagua: "I—f."

= _ =
Gu Wei hugged Guagua into his arms: "Call me aunt and father."

Guagua: "Aunt~Dad~Dad~"

Well, Gu Wei, you have won.Frustrated, I head to the kitchen to finish my sweet potato pie.

When the sweet potato cakes came out of the pan, the guaguas were overturned!With round eyes, he stretched out a round finger and pointed at the small round cakes in the electric baking pan: "Drop melon——"

Then he turned his buttocks and opened his arms towards me: "Hug." He immediately abandoned Gu Wei.

Nap.

I lay on the bed and Guagua lay on top of me.My heart is warm, very beautiful.

When he woke up, he found that there was a pool of saliva in his chest.

After waking up, Gu Wei helped Guagua get dressed, and when he was done, he loosened his hands, and the drowsy Guagua threw himself on the bed and sat down.

Gu Wei picked him up: "Guagua?"

Guagua closed his eyes and nodded, Gu Wei let go and plopped down on the bed again.

Gu Wei laughed directly.

Guagua started to toddler, and she was so cute and cute.On the lawn, he held Gu Wei's fingers with both hands, walked forward with his calves, and kicked the ball in front of him in a very ecstatic posture. .

Yin Xi and I sat on a chair and chatted.

Yin Xi seldom gossips, so he rarely asked: "Do you have any plans to have children?"

Me: "In two years."

Yin Xi: "Have your parents talked to you?"

Me: "No. They themselves marry late and have children late, so they are quite open-minded."

Yin Xi looked at one big and one small in the distance: "The doctor likes children very much."

Me: "He has always liked children. It's just that he is busy with work, and he is afraid that he will not be able to take care of them at that time. He wants to wait a little two years for my mother and my mother-in-law to retire."

Yin Xi: "What about you?"

Me: "It's okay, as long as you don't get too old to live."

Gu Wei carried Gua Gua on his shoulders and walked towards us, Gua Gua hugged his head and giggled.

I clapped my hands: "Come on, auntie."

Guagua slid from Gu Wei's arms into mine, and kissed me on the cheek.

When I was feeding Guagua yogurt, I turned my head to look at Gu Wei, who was looking at Guagua in a trance.

I called him softly, and he raised his eyelashes and smiled at me.

At night, Gu Wei sat on the bed, distracted with a book in his hand.

I asked: "What do you think?"

Gu Wei: "Nothing."

I sighed: "Gu Wei, I don't care when I have children, whether they are male or female, or how many there are. What I care about is that you are their father. You brought him to me. Most importantly, nothing else matters."

I touched his face: "We are only two years behind. Don't take him as a concern, feel sorry or have a psychological burden."

Gu Wei gave a soft "hmm".

Because of the child's matter, Gu Wei and I really had a hard time talking about it, and we had a lot of back and forth in our hearts, so we almost got out of the way.Now I finally caught the culprit!
(End of this chapter)