medical marriage

Chapter 439 Is Your Weakness Here?
After Shi Youxi cleaned up the kitchen, Little Bean Sprout was also tired from dancing, and was quietly held by Yu Ziyao in his arms, looking at her like Yu Ziyao, while sucking his thumb.

From time to time, he made a sound of "ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh" only he can understand the Lilliputian language.

Shi Youxi looked at the man, one big and one small, who were in sync with each other, feeling inexplicably happy.

"Let's go, give Little Bean Sprout a bath." She wanted to laugh, but she couldn't, instead, she felt a little weird.

"Okay." Yu Ziyao nodded, picked up Little Bean Sprouts and followed her.

Seeing Shi Youxi, Xiao Bean Sprout was extremely excited, and kept reaching out to grab her hair, yelling "Yi Ya Yi Ya".

Shi Youxi went to turn on the water and prepare things for Xiaodouma to take a bath. Yu Ziyao undressed Xiaodouma and repeated to him tirelessly: "Take a bath... Xiaodouma takes a bath..." He read every word seriously and slowly, which made him feel uncomfortable. Little Bean Sprout can hear the pronunciation of every word clearly.

Little Bean Sprout stared fixedly at his opening and closing lips, without blinking his big eyes, making one feel that he was serious about learning to speak.

Shi Youxi knew that he was not someone who didn't love children.

On the contrary, he has unlimited patience with Little Bean Sprouts, and loves the little guy as much as she loves Little Bean Sprouts.He is not too dirty or too tired to get up in the middle of the night to change the diaper and wash the butt of the little bean sprouts. Sometimes when changing the diaper, the little bean sprouts will wet his hands and clothes. He has never gotten angry or angry .

He looked at Little Bean Sprout with tenderness and affection.

She believed what he said, he just didn't want another child to trap her, and he didn't want to make her more tired...

But she was angry because he never discussed anything with her!
Or if he really regards her as his wife, he should give her an equal position, let her share all the joys with him, and let her share all the troubles with him!
Instead of making her feel that she is completely an accessory to him like now, it's the same with her or without her!
Maybe what he said is right, she also yearns for the kind of freedom that is not bound by the family, like her classmates and peers, to live a single life that is free and can go wherever she wants.

Going to work happily, everyone gathers at the food stall at night, vomits about the leadership, and complains about the whole day...

But she was married to him after all, and she already had a little bean sprout!

Her life has also begun to re-plan!

Those days that I used to yearn for now are not as important as my husband and children!
She doesn't think that her husband and children are all in her memories, what's wrong with that!On the contrary, when she gets old in the future, recalling it will add more warmth, at least, she has seized every minute and second of being with them!
Don't want to miss even a moment!
If decades later, their hair will be gray, and the children will have their own families and people they want to accompany.

At that time, she will live with him again, and it is good for the two of them to travel around the world carefree.

Sitting in the garden next to each other in the sunset, reading a book, listening to music, and smelling the fragrance of flowers, that's fine!
Or, when they are too old and don’t have enough physical strength to travel around the world, they are at home, sitting by the window, and the memories of the past and the moon are fine...

At least, he is in every picture and every memory after the age of 22!

He's all in!
What else does she have to regret?
"The water is full!" Yu Ziyao patted her on the shoulder, and she stared at the water in the bathtub in a daze, not even feeling that the water was full or overflowing...

"Ah? Oh!" Shi Youxi snapped back to his senses, looked at the water pouring out along the edge of the tank, and hurriedly got up to turn off the tap.

"What are you thinking?" Yu Ziyao checked the temperature of the water, which was about the same temperature as the back of his hand, and slowly put the bean sprouts into the water.

As soon as he touched the water, the little guy desperately started to kick his legs like a frog, and his two little hands were also patting the water vigorously, showing two small and cute teeth happily.

Shi Youxi thinks that a child who has just grown two teeth is the cutest!
She also had to admit that his knowledge in parenting had the most effective effect on Xiaodou Sprout.

Every time she went to the physical examination for vaccinations, she only realized how good the little bean sprouts were when she compared them with other children's children!

The six-month-old bean sprouts have more performance than other seven-month or even eight-month-old children. At seven months, they know more than other nine-month-old children!
Just like now, Little Bean Sprouts seems to be very autonomous in terms of mobility and performance.

Hand-eye coordination and joint action are also possible. No matter what they see, they like to reach out for it. They can put small objects in a large box, pour them out, and put them in and out repeatedly.

Can slap the table with his hands vigorously, and feel novel and interesting about the sound of slapping.

Able to stretch out fingers, actively put down or throw away objects in hands, instead of passively letting go, even if adults help him pick them up and throw them away.

Can play with two objects at the same time, such as putting a small box into a large box, knocking a bell with a small stick, and knocking on a toy with both hands.

Can pinch the toy and give the toy to the designated person.

Open your hands to be hugged by an adult, grab something with your fingers to eat, change things from one hand to the other, shake or knock hard no matter what is in your hand.

Sometimes, when he pops a voice approaching "Mom" or "Daddy", it always cheers up the whole family.

It can't be said that all of these were achieved by Xiaodou Sprout's own IQ, but probably Yu Ziyao's credit!

Song Qingyun said that Ziyao used to be like this when he was a child. He always knew more than other children and spoke earlier. At eight or nine months, he could clearly call out his parents...

She began to think, perhaps, Little Bean Sprouts inherited Yu Ziyao's high IQ!
"Youxi?" Yu Ziyao stretched out his hand and waved in front of her eyes: "What are you smirking at?"

She looked at Little Bean Sprout, and kept giggling there, making his hair stand on end.

Could it be that it really stimulated her and traumatized her nerves?

"No." Shi Youxi turned to look at him, then shook his head.

Little Bean Sprout really resembles him, even his facial features are very similar to him!
When he grows up, what kind of evildoer should he be, who will bring disaster to the country and the people?
However, no matter how he grows up in the future, she will never let him have premarital sex!
She has no objection to falling in love, but the forbidden fruit is still not allowed to be stolen!
She can't let her future daughter-in-law feel as sorry as she does now!

"Go to rest if you're tired. I'll just bathe Little Bean Sprouts!" Seeing her in a daze, Yu Ziyao just answered her call, and then fell into another wave of trance, unavoidably worried.

Just like now, he took the small towel that was used to wipe Little Bean Sprout's body, and wiped it directly on his face.

Not to mention the water that wiped his face, even the clothes on his chest were soaked!

From time to time, he looked at him frowning and nodding, giggling for a while, and serious for a while as if he had made a decision, he looked panicked.

Shi Youxi also saw it, and hurriedly wrung out the towel, helped him dry his face, and apologized repeatedly: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry! I really didn't mean it! That... I can do it next, your clothes are wet, go and change. !"

It really sucks!

How could she be so absent-minded?

"Are you okay?" Yu Ziyao asked worriedly, frowning.

"I'm fine!" Shi Youxi replied reflexively, then looked at him again, and emphasized again: "I'm really fine, I'm just thinking about something."

"What are you thinking about?" Yu Ziyao asked.

But Shi Youxi had already pursed his lips and stopped talking, and concentrated on helping Xiaodoumen wipe his body.

Yu Ziyao couldn't help sighing as she looked at her acting like she didn't want to talk to him.

The two helped Xiaodoumen take a good bath, and Shi Youxi put him on the small bed after feeding him milk.

Yu Ziyao also cleaned up the bathroom, took a shower and came out.

"Look at him, I'm going to take a shower." After Shi Youxi said to Yu Ziyao, she took her pajamas and went to the bathroom.

Yu Ziyao frowned, could their topic only revolve around Xiaodou Sprout?
If there were no bean sprouts, wouldn't they even need to talk?

After taking a bath, Xiaodou Sprout sat down comfortably on the small bed after a full stomach, completely unaware of the embarrassing atmosphere between the two adults.

Yu Ziyao sat on the stool beside the small bed, lost in thought.

He had to admit that what Shi Youxi said at the dining table really hit his heart.Every word she said was full of accusations, pointing directly at his shortcomings, every sentence was so tough and hit the nail on the head.

No matter how good his starting point was, he forgot that she was also a thoughtful and independent girl.

Although she is usually careless and careless, her mind is meticulous. It's just that she is good at persuading herself to think on the bright side. She optimistically faces everything that makes her feel uncomfortable.

She is not stupid, she is just kind, kind and willing to tolerate him with understanding.

It wasn't until he chose an extreme method that he really stimulated her and hit her...

In fact, the elders only saw him pampering and caring for her, but in fact, it was she who spoiled him...

Her repeated concessions and indifference made him an authoritarian and independent individual in the relationship between husband and wife, forgetting that husband and wife should be a group.

"Baba... Baba..." On the small bed, Little Bean Sprout was pulling hard on the guardrail, her little face flushed red.

"Do you want to sit for a while, little bean sprout?" Yu Ziyao gently pulled his little hand off the guardrail, and then supported his armpit, making him sit up.

Little Bean Sprout likes to sit very much now, and the things he sees from the perspective of lying down can no longer meet his needs.

After sitting up, Little Bean Sprout yelled happily "Ba Ba Ba" again, holding Yu Ziyao's fingers, and bouncing her little butt for a while.

Yu Ziyao took a musical tambourine and put it between his legs, turned on the switch, the colorful 3D lights of the tambourine turned on, and the wooden horse in the middle began to spin, the music made the little guy drool excitedly.

Let go of Yu Ziyao's hand and start beating the small drum.

In fact, he doesn't know the correct way to play, but he knows that as long as he beats the snare drum, the snare drum will make a sound.

"Shoot this, this is yellow!" Yu Ziyao turned off the music, only let the lights and the Trojan horse run, while gently and patiently talking to him slowly.

"Yellow." He held Little Bean Sprout's hand, placed it on the yellow button, repeated the color, and then patted Little Bean Sprout for help.

The snare drum makes a "dong" sound, although it is a simulated drum sound, it is also very realistic.

Little Bean Sprout was stunned for a moment, then curiously began to tap the yellow button independently.

Every time the little bean sprouts patted, the snare drum would make a "boom", and Yu Ziyao would say "yellow" to him.

Little Bean Sprout would look at his mouth shape seriously, and opened his mouth. Although only saliva dripped from the corner of his mouth, and no actual sound was made, Yu Ziyao patted his head with satisfaction and smiled at him. Praise: "The little bean sprouts are awesome!"

At this time, the child can't control his language ability, but he has started to learn autonomously. He will move his mouth, which means that he is learning.At this time, the adults should give him encouragement and let him build up his self-confidence.

"Ba..." Little Bean Sprout also uttered a single word, very happy that he would say the same, and slapped the snare drum a few times vigorously.

Yu Ziyao would give him a corresponding response every time.

Shi Youxi came out of the shower, looked at the time, and walked over: "Little Bean Sprout, it's time to sleep! Go to bed!" She deliberately repeated the word "sleep", speaking slowly, and said emphatically.

Yu Ziyao took away all the toys on the little bed, Shi Youxi was lying on the bed holding the little bean sprouts, but the little guy was holding onto her clothes tightly and refused to let go.

"Be good, little bean sprouts, it's time to go to bed! Mommy will accompany you, okay?" She had no choice but to sit down where Yu Ziyao sat just now, patted his shoulder lightly, and looked at him tenderly.

"The black sky hangs low, the bright stars follow each other, the insects are flying, who are you missing..." She sang the lullaby that she had been singing since he was still in her stomach , the little guy looked at her with his big eyes open, but he had calmed down, but the little hand that was holding her clothes was still holding it.

Shi Youxi smiled and sang the song repeatedly until he closed his eyes, smacked his little mouth and fell into a sweet dreamland.

Yu Ziyao poured her a glass of water, the water was neither hot nor cold, and when it slid down her throat, it actually added a little bit of sweetness.

"Every time I'm with him, I'm very happy and full of satisfaction. I have a tall image in my heart! I feel that in this world, I'm being relied on by others, not just relying on others." Shi Youxi looked at Little Bean Sprout and said, but she knew that Yu Ziyao was listening.

"Before giving birth, every woman is just a girl. Even a woman is just a strong girl! Only after giving birth, will she become a real woman from the inside out!

Because she knows that in the eyes of her children, she is like an omnipotent superman!She will do all the things he can't do, and she will help him with all the difficulties he can't do alone, so she has to gradually improve herself and be strong.

Even if she has a husband who dotes on her to the bone and a family who loves her like a treasure, in the eyes of the child, she is just a mother, she will protect him and give him the warmest and most secure embrace!
The reason why a mother is great is not that she wants to erect a memorial archway called greatness for herself, but because her nature is to be strong for her children and she does not want to see disappointment in their eyes.She can't wait to present her best side in front of the child, so as to help the child build up his confidence.

And I also want to be such a mother, I don't want the sensible children to see in the future, just an incompetent mother who can only cling to his father and can't help him in anything!
I hope that in his eyes, Mommy is as powerful as Daddy! "

Shi Youxi turned her head and looked up at him, showing a shallow smile, but it was extremely quiet and gentle.

She thought about it for a day, struggled for a day, and got angry for a day, but now she is calm and relieved.

Since both of them had good intentions, it wasn't because he hated her or didn't love children that he didn't want her to have children.

So what is unforgivable?

"What you said is right. I shouldn't ignore your feelings and make decisions between us on my own. In the future, I will re-examine my perspective and face up to the relationship between us as husband and wife. I'm sorry to make you wronged Already!"

Yu Ziyao knelt down and looked at her level, letting her see the sincere apology in his eyes.

She is not only his woman, she is his wife, the mother of his son!

And he really shouldn't deprive her of the right to know, she has the right to participate in any decision between them.

"Thank you! If you really don't want to have another child, I'll just go for a sterilization operation. Compared with your sterilization, a woman's pregnancy will not hurt her body..."

"No, you are not allowed to go!" Yu Ziyao seriously stopped her words: "You are not allowed to undergo insemination surgery, do you hear?"

"Then you're still thinking about having a ligation?" Shi Youxi frowned. Has he really made up his mind after eating the weight?
"No!" Yu Ziyao shook his head and sighed: "As for the second child, let's reconsider carefully! But, even if we want to, this year is not allowed. You just gave birth to Xiaodou Sprout for less than a year. My body hasn't recovered yet, so it's not suitable to get pregnant again."

He took a step back and no longer insisted on not having a second child, but he could only take her health as a prerequisite.

Shi Youxi smiled softly, hugged him, and leaned his head on his shoulder.

"Whether or not to have a second child suddenly doesn't feel so important now! Maybe you're right, we already have a little bean sprout, and the second child... just let nature take its course! If you are pregnant, you can have a baby, and you don't need to think about it Go for it! In this way, we can all feel more relaxed, and there will be no psychological burden. Otherwise, every time we are together, it seems that we are only together for the purpose of having a baby!"

"Thank you, wife!" Yu Ziyao hugged her tightly, this girl is really just like what she said, she has changed from an ignorant girl to a woman from the inside out!
An independent-minded, mature-minded little woman who knows how to advance and retreat!
"I'm sorry, husband! I was too impulsive today, and I will make myself better in the future!" Shi Youxi kissed his neck, felt him shrink his neck, and she pushed him away in surprise: " Where is your weakness?"

"..." Yu Ziyao was speechless for a moment, why did the painting style change so quickly?

Just now, I was still perceptually complaining about human nature philosophy and psychology, why did it become human physiology in the next second?

(End of this chapter)