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Chapter 111

Chapter 6 Chapter 15 The Meaning of Romance

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If the man around you makes you feel that he cares about you, he understands your feelings, he likes you, he is willing to serve you, and he will always be by your side, it is probably the result of his courtship to you.By doing this, a man can directly satisfy a woman's need for romance.If a man takes the initiative to show his affection to a woman, she will feel pampered.But if he forgets to do these things, a smart woman will use a soft hammer wrapped in Shanghai Jin to gently and continuously ring his alarm bell.

Men feel love differently than women.He felt loved because she repeatedly let him know that he made her feel very fulfilled.If she is in a good mood, he will feel loved. Even if she just feels the sun is warm, he will feel that he has credit for it.A woman's satisfaction is where a man's happiness lies.

Women feel romantic because they get roses and chocolates, which symbolize love, and men feel romantic because women feel romantic.A man's little attention is exchanged for a woman's infinite gratitude, which is the source of romance.Almost all romantic cornerstones are laid by men and women enjoy sitting on them.Women don't know that the love a man needs most is to make him feel satisfied in his spouse.

He feels love when he sees her smiling with a gift from him; if he can do something for her, love will enter his heart.The most important skill in loving a man is to care about what he does right, and then express appreciation or gratitude to him; the biggest mistake is to only see his shortcomings.

【Together with you】

Romance is a form of affection.The essence of romantic love is to regard the loved one as a precious confidant but it is difficult for oneself to possess the other party.Therefore, they use poems, songs, martial arts or any imaginable method of pleasing to get the other party's attention and love.

Many people think that pure and noble joy can only exist in concentrated silent prayer without any sexual elements.A man who loves and respects a woman deeply will feel unable to relate her to sexual activity, and his love will take poetic and imaginative forms, naturally full of symbolism.

The reason why the tree of love is so luxuriant is that romantic love is believed to be the most ardent fountain of joy that life has to offer.The relationship between a man and a woman who loves each other, is full of imagination and tenderness, has inestimable value.

Romantic love should be the driving force of marriage.However, what makes a marriage happy is not romantic love, but a love that is more intimate, more affectionate, and more realistic than romantic.In romantic love, each party sees the other through a haze of brilliance, and the resulting impression is not entirely true.If a woman wants to maintain a romantic love after marriage, she must avoid intimacy with her husband, and like a sphinx, do not reveal her inner thoughts and feelings, while maintaining a certain degree of physical privacy .However, these actions cannot bring the marriage into the most perfect state.And to be perfect, there needs to be genuine intimacy without any pretense.This kind of contradiction that can solve the lives of all people can give people the feeling of greatest happiness, and it is shared by all people.This feeling is love.

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