A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 79 2 Fill in the blank: I have a ( ) father
If you had to sum it up in one word, how would you describe your dad?Although we are talking about how to be a loving father here, we also have to recall the past and think about what kind of father we had when we were teenagers.

After many people become adults, they forget the years when they were young and frivolous, and set too strict requirements on their children.If I were a child instead, I might not be able to meet my expectations for my child.

When everyone recalls their childhood, they can find some good memories of being with their father, and they can also think about what they thought of their father at that time, and they can also look at their own education from their own development today. …Actually, from past experience, we can find a lot of educational experience, and we can also understand whether the way we educate our children today is reasonable, whether it needs to be improved, and so on.Forgetting the past is really a waste of precious childhood.

Let's take a look at how a 17-year-old described his dad in his diary.

Dad is the person I love the most, and the person who loves me the most. I have an amazing dad.He never hit me, my buddies said many times that my dad was really nice to me.Dad is over 50 years old this year, and his hair is almost falling out.He looks so serious. In our big family, I seldom see my dad smile, but he always smiles at me and chats with me.

I could sense that Dad wanted to get to know me.Therefore, I often feel very sorry for him. Dad has been on a business trip for a year and a half. During that time, I always find things for my family.After my father came back, in order to educate me well, he began to change himself.He has become different from before.Sometimes I am really moved, but I can't help but quarrel with my mother and make him worry.I was so dishonest at school and my academic performance was not good, but my father never seemed to give up on me and always encouraged me.My little progress will make him very happy.In his eyes, his son is very outstanding, but unfortunately I always let him down.

Dad cared about me very much. When I had a relationship problem with a girl, I thought he would not be able to understand me this time.How many parents can understand high school students now?But after I told him, he was not angry and comforted me for a long time.I remember that I cried for a long time that day, and my father chatted with me until midnight, teaching me how to be mature.I didn't go to school the next day, he went to work early in the morning.My heart always hurts badly, and my father always sends me messages telling me to be strong. That period of time was the most depressing and warmest time when I grew up.

Later, my father was also sick. He wanted to visit me at school several times, but I refused.When I got home, I found that my father had lost weight. I didn't know how to comfort him.He was very happy to see me coming home, and asked me to call my buddies if I was free. He invited us to have a meal and let us all study hard.In the eyes of ordinary parents, the farther away students like us are from their children, the better, but Dad doesn't think so. He said that the bad is the appearance, and the good is the essence. We are also good children.

One day I said that I was depressed, and my father took me to play basketball.His movements are very uncoordinated, making people want to laugh and cry. Several fathers go to learn basketball for their sons.In fact, I know that he didn't want to learn, he just let me play, because he knew that I would play when I was bored. Standing on the basketball court, I almost burst into tears.Dad, why are you so nice to me?

This year I cut off all my permed hair and he said it looks more handsome this way.It's time for me to do something to make him happy. I want to let him know that I'm old enough to let him know that I can protect him.

It may be your child who wrote this diary; or it may be a child you think is very worthless.After reading this diary, what will Dad think in his heart?

At least, when the child grows up and becomes a father, he will love his child like his father, respect him, trust him, and accompany him silently.This is the continuation and contagion of love. A father who knows how to love can pass on the love that belongs to his family to his children and grandchildren.

What kind of father do you have?Maybe the best answer is, I have a (loving) dad.

(End of this chapter)