The Money Management Bible for Twenty-Twenty Women

Chapter 19 part
Part 7 The four essential savings for women on the road to wealth
Chapter 2 Friendship Savings: A Woman's Most Intimate Confidante

Section [-] Friends make big money for you

The interpersonal relationship status of women in their twenties, that is, whether they have good popularity, is related to whether work, life, and career can proceed smoothly.In a sense, popularity has become the key to a person's livelihood.With good karma, you can realize various ideas in life; without good karma, you will be frustrated everywhere and unable to move forward.

Good popularity is one of the most precious wealth in our life.Since ancient times, those who get the right way get more help, those who lose the way get little help, and those who win the hearts of the people win the world.It can be seen that popularity and life, popularity and career are inseparable.

In fact, building a good relationship with others is not difficult, as long as you put your heart into it.

Smiling is actually a trump card to bring the relationship between people closer.It is said that when a person smiles, 13 facial muscles are used, while when frowning, 47 facial muscles are used.Because of this, people are happy and natural when they laugh.A smile or smiley face is like a small stone thrown into the water, constantly adding and widening the friendly ripples.Facing the piercing eyes of others, smiling in return will make others unable to bear to speak harshly at you.For those who are eccentric and shy, if we can greet them with a smile, the barrier between us will be eliminated, and the tense face of the other party will quickly relax and a smile will appear.A genuine smile requires sincerity of heart, that is, it must arise from a genuine desire to help.A psychologist once said: "Behavior is basically produced after emotion. But in fact, behavior and emotion are inseparable. We can indirectly regulate emotions that are not controlled by the will by restricting the behavior that is directly controlled by the will. .”

Someone said: "Praise can make a weak body strong, can restore peace and trust to a fearful heart, can rest and strengthen injured nerves, and can give people in adversity the determination to succeed." Psychological research on rewards and punishments also shows that the behavior after being praised is more reasonable and effective than the behavior after being reprimanded.

Another important thing to establish a friendly relationship with others is to know how to be grateful. Even if someone does a trivial thing for you, don't forget to say "thank you".A simple thank you will make others feel comforted and feel that their efforts are worthwhile.It's not enough to just think in your heart, you have to express it so that others can feel it.

In life, some people like to be eloquent, and they are the protagonists of the conversation no matter what the occasion. In fact, this often does not lead to good interpersonal relationships; on the contrary, a person who is good at listening to others will gain more friendship.When others are speaking, you must be patient enough to listen to others, and guide them to continue speaking appropriately, so that others will feel that you are interested in him.When others are talking, don't interrupt others. On the one hand, doing so will disrespect others, and on the other hand, it will greatly discourage others from communicating with you.

To establish a good relationship with others, you must be humane. When someone else makes a mistake, it is best to be ruthless to the matter and affectionate to the person.Being ruthless to things reflects a person's meticulous work attitude, while being affectionate to others reflects a person's good at handling interpersonal relationships and having a broad mind.

In short, whether it is work or life, we should learn to actively and enthusiastically communicate with others, learn to be considerate of others, discover their strengths and affirm them.Only when a woman in her twenties has good popularity can she ask her friends to help her make money.

(End of this chapter)