The Money Management Bible for Twenty-Twenty Women

Chapter 20 part
Part 7 The four essential savings for women on the road to wealth
Chapter 3 Love Savings: Eternity Through the Time Tunnel

Section [-] Happiness does not lie in mixing dried radish or stewing steak

The discussion about happiness seems to have never stopped. Some people said: "Happiness is when I want to wear beautiful clothes." , Sleep well at home.” Some people said: “Happiness is that the person I like can also like me...” People have different definitions of happiness, so, for women in their twenties, What is happiness?

The artist Rodin’s definition of beauty can actually be quoted and expanded: “It’s not the lack of happiness in life, but the lack of eyes to discover happiness.” Life is always full of elements of happiness, but we haven’t discovered them carefully.

A woman who is desperate for marriage is tired of the existing trivial life, and she has always been curious about the happy and harmonious life of her grandmother.One day she finally couldn't bear to open her grandmother's diary, and it turned out that it recorded how many times her grandfather washed her clothes, how many times she kissed her, and how many times she helped her wash her feet...

In fact, life is made up of trivial things.Tasting every little bit of detail, you will feel that life is more colorful.Don't be annoyed because others eat steak and you eat dried radish, because whether a person is happy or not depends not on what you eat, what you wear, or what you use, but what you feel.Therefore, in love, women in their twenties should not blindly compare themselves with others. This will not only waste a lot of money, but also increase troubles. Women must learn to define their own happiness.

For women in their twenties, happiness lies in slowly appreciating life, and also in giving life and lover, what you give to life and what you give to your lover, they will give you in the same way.People can't always think about getting happiness, and if they don't give happiness to others, then they will never get happiness.

Therefore, when you are in your twenties, when you feel the sweetness of love, you must learn to respect the other person's personality and habits, recognize his efforts, and let him feel his value and weight.Respecting him is equal to respecting love.Be tolerant of each other, don't be unreasonable, love is not an enemy, be more tolerant.Don't demand to know all the other's secrets, give others and your own soul a space, so that love can be more mysterious and attractive.Care about your lover, when he is sad, stay with him without even saying a word, let him know that you are always by his side.When you are happy, be happy with him.When you are in your twenties, when you get along with your lover, try to make him feel how important you are to him, so that he will spend a lot of energy loving you.Listen to the other person with a positive attitude. When you listen carefully to what he has to say, he will feel that you care about him.Also, encourage your lover appropriately. If you only rely on your own feelings to blame your lover, it will greatly dampen his enthusiasm.For example, if he buys you a bouquet of roses, but you say "always buy a bargain", then it is conceivable that he may not buy it next time.Therefore, encourage your lover appropriately, which can improve his enthusiasm, and he will work hard to do better in the future.Everyone wants to be the best in the other person's heart. Your sincere praise and affirmation will meet his self-expectation and make his inner self-image better.

In short, feel with your heart and give to each other with your heart, and you will be able to get happiness.

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