A Book That Addresses Women's Health Issues

Chapter 49 Tolerance is the magic weapon for a woman to nourish her heart
For a 30-year-old woman, tolerance is not so much a noble quality and a lofty realm, but rather a radiance of benevolence, a supreme blessing, a kind of letting go of others, and more A kindness to yourself.What is tolerance?Some people say that tolerance is a state, an extraordinary tolerance.It is tolerance and acceptance of people and things, a noble quality, and a manifestation of spiritual maturity and abundance; it is letting go of others and treating oneself kindly; The calmness, self-confidence and detachment acquired in the future.What is tolerance?It is also said that tolerance is a kind of good self-cultivation, and it is the charisma of personality improved through countless times of patience.A tolerant woman is as broad-minded as the sea, and dares to face all kinds of hardships in life; a tolerant woman makes her life calm and more calm, just like a clump of wild flowers in the mountains, quietly sprouting, growing and blooming.When a woman is thirty, the years flow quietly between her fingers like water, and before she knows it, her beauty has become a thing of the past. This is a natural law that no one can resist.

However, if a woman can have a tolerant and peaceful mind, not be frustrated by the traces added by the years, not annoyed by the trivial things in the world, and only care about cultivating her own temperament, then the elegance of her gestures will be unforgettable for a long time. It becomes more and more mellow during polishing.For a 30-year-old woman, tolerance is not so much a noble quality and a lofty realm, but rather a radiance of benevolence, a supreme blessing, a kind of relief for others, and a more A kindness to yourself.Women are beautiful because of tolerance. Women must learn to be tolerant, first of all, they must remember their kindness and forget their hatred.People who always think of others as bad will never be happy.When a person is jealous, slandering, complaining, or mocking others, her state of mind is naturally dark and her expression becomes ugly.And the frequent ugliness will be fixed on the original dignified appearance.Therefore, don’t forget the help you receive, and don’t expect to repay the favor; discipline yourself with the heart of others, forgive others with the heart of forgiveness; be grateful, and enjoy helping others, and you will have countless joys and happiness.

We must be tolerant to friends, colleagues, and even strangers, and we must be more tolerant to family members.A female friend who was just divorced complained in front of me about her husband's various problems.I silently listened to her complaints, and finally I told her: "As long as you learn to be tolerant and think about the best in everything, maybe you won't be what you are now." She remained silent.A netizen who is doing psychological counseling warned 30-year-old women in this way. He said: "It is best for a woman after 30 to be a philanthropist, be more tolerant, less fussy, and think about the good in everything. It is best to think that you A good man is full of strengths, and his flaws are also his personality. This is the day when he has a bright future. For example, if he doesn’t shave, you don’t complain, you can treat him as outstanding; for example, if a girl winks at him, you don’t want to be jealous, but find him attractive. Infinity; even if he likes to pick his feet, don't stare at him, you can treat him as a childlike innocence." A woman who knows how to tolerate can be beautiful because of tolerance; Live a colorful and interesting life.Therefore, you must learn to be tolerant, learn to understand, and learn to accommodate. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself.

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