Heart like dust, smile peacefully

Chapter 1 Preface
What is happiness?Peace of mind is happiness, calmness is happiness, it is not only held in your hands, but also hidden in your heart.Sanmao once said: "Life is like three courses of tea: the first one is bitter like life, the second one is sweet like love, and the third one is light like a breeze." This is the most poetic interpretation of tranquility.

Every woman, in the pursuit of self-realization, should let a calm mind escort the happiness of life.That is, don't shrink back when it's time to pursue, don't linger when it's time to give up, stick to doing things with concentration, and follow your status, fame and fortune.When you come, even if it is "the defeat of Waterloo", you must accept it calmly; when you leave, even if it is "an inevitable victory", you must learn to let go.Sighing, dying, and complaining will only make you suffer.

However, due to physiological reasons, most women are suspicious, sensitive, and sentimental, which makes women even less calm than men: "Arrogance and contempt for inferiority" and "Happy spending a lot of money" are the most common comedy emotional characteristics of women; "Bring your nose to tears", "cry after complaining to God", these are the most common tragic emotional characteristics of women;In short, it is: when you are in good times, you are often elated; when you encounter setbacks, you will feel miserable.

It is naturally difficult for such a woman to get rid of "vulgarity". In fact, "vulgarity" is also "vulgarity", but one must know how to let go.Without wonderful experience, it is difficult to taste indifferent.That is to say, you can pursue material and status, but you must learn to "do what you should do, not what you can't do", to meet the needs of life and see through the pursuit of desire.Only by finding the balance of your heart can happiness be with you.

Some people think that the simple life is never experienced, but in fact it is just avoidance.There is no place in the world that can hide from the sun and the moon, and the wind and rain are the nature.

Years need to flow to have a play, and there is no joy and sorrow in the world.What nature gives to women is never plain, but mixed.Faced with these gifts of life, women should know how to cherish them.Once in the sea, don't belittle other waters in the world. Only by comparing can you broaden your horizons and expand your mind.

On the contrary, those who need redemption are those who can't take it up, can't let it go, are ambitious and forgetful, and those women who are frowning and complaining.This is exactly the purpose of writing this book.

Life needs to experience excitement and setbacks. The pain and joy that life gives us is a kind of wealth.Only after experiencing it can we be indifferent, and only when it hurts can we let go.

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