just passing by you

Chapter 12 This is how older women are made (2)

Friend Sang is the most popular among men among our group of gossiping women.Not only is he very lucky online, and he can successfully colonize a man with a few words without a single soldier, but also no one can match him offline, beating the men pretending to be Liu Xiahui to the ground.Every time we get together, our greatest interest is to hear how Sang has dealt with another innocent man, or which young woman's man has been smacked by her recently.

But Sang is not an amorous woman, most of her so-called love luck is just ambiguous.There were four or five of them, and if she insisted on being serious with her, she immediately withdrew her troops and returned to the nest.In her words, she just vented her hormones that had nowhere to go, or flirted with those men who would salivate when they saw a beautiful woman and wanted to take advantage of her.So if we are going to choose the annual award in this circle, she deserves to be the heroine among women who sacrificed herself to attack men.

Most of the time, Sang's ambiguity will make men quickly hooked, and when they can't stop, they will turn around gracefully and find someone else.But sometimes, this kind of ambiguity will be left alone, and you can't find a smooth way to settle in, so you can only linger for a while and turn around depressed.

Once Sang was in a coffee bar, flipping through a best-selling book to pass the weekend when no one was meeting.Soon there was a handsome looking man sitting across from him. He just ordered a cup of coffee, as if he was waiting for someone.Sang pretended to glance at him casually, just as the handsome man looked at her too.The moment they looked at each other, the handsome man took the initiative to smile at Sang with a killing index of 80.00%, and nodded to say "Hello".

Sang could see that the handsome man at that moment had a lazy and idle time to use, and had the time standard to breed ambiguous feelings, so she smiled coquettishly and said softly: Do you often come to this cafe?The handsome man shook his head: He only comes in to have a sit when passing by occasionally.After the ambiguity, they don't disturb each other, go on their own ways, and become strangers who don't know each other again. This is another important condition for the successful cultivation of ambiguity. She said: What do you think of the love relationship that comes and goes quickly on the Internet?After hearing this, Sang laughed at him from the bottom of her heart, and she was really fascinated by her seductiveness, and she started to lead her into an ambiguous way with just a few sentences, but today I am really bored, and I want to detect this seemingly decent Men's shades.

So Sang pretended to be pure and smiled and said: I still prefer the romantic relationship between two people in reality. The things on the Internet seem to be real and unreal. Who can see the truth of the emotion.I would rather sit here and chat with you for a few days than talk about online love that ended without a problem.The handsome man actually lowered his head after saying this, and stirred the coffee in his hand a little shyly, then raised his head and smiled: Thank you for your liking.

At this moment, Sang put his hand in the place closest to the handsome man's coffee at the right time, and smiled at the handsome man: You know, I will look at the photo, your face is written in the near future, oh, maybe At some point today, there will be an extraordinary affair.

Having said that, based on Sang's experience, it can be deduced that generally a man who is lustful and interesting will come forward and accompany Sang to carry out the ambiguity to the end, until the cup of coffee is finished, and the two of them are flirting with each other, having a lively conversation A feast of fragrance.

But he didn't think about it, the handsome man withdrew his smile all of a sudden, and said coldly: "I'm sorry, I don't lack for romance, I just want to meet by chance, you and I both recognized the wrong person."After finishing speaking, the handsome man stood up, packed his things and left.Before Sang had time to blush, he glanced at her again and said: I just read the book about love on the Internet in your hand, and I always wanted to talk to someone, but I couldn’t do it. .

Only then did Sang suddenly realize that the first question that the handsome man asked was not because of ambiguity, but because of love. The afternoon of chatting.

It's a pity that San, who only wanted to conquer men's erotic desires, looked over with a pair of ambiguous and blurred eyes, but hit a cold and hard wall. When she turned around, except for a layer of dust on her nose, she didn't have the elegance and satisfaction of the past.

It is said that after Sang, she gradually became tired of ambiguity, and began to turn around, like us women who have lust but no color, put these ambiguities exclusively on a man, and look forward to this process of paying, Can have a good harvest in autumn.

Back then, the school grass has been dejected.

Tang was a well-deserved school girl in our university, and the girls who pursued him back then probably had a strengthened company.The classmates in our class also followed him to feast their eyes, seeing beautiful women walking around the door of the classroom every day.But Tang never looked straight in the eyes, always held his head high, posing in a cold posture, and passed by the beauties.

The boys in the class became jealous because of this, saying that a full man doesn’t know a hungry man is hungry, look at his smug face, be careful that one day he will get fat, lose his good skin, stand on the street, kneel down and beg, no woman will answer .Of course Tang didn't mind the jealous gossip from the boys, he went his own way as usual, with an air of aloofness and aloofness.

But it was precisely Tang's indifferent expression that aroused more and more girls' hot pursuit. In the end, it developed into a siege, which seriously affected Tang's daily life. Apart from finding a girlfriend as soon as possible, ending being single, and posting a famous girl as a woman tab, there is no choice.

Tang quickly found his first girlfriend and became a full-time "plumber" and personal bodyguard.In fact, everyone could see that it was the girl who protected him from the danger of being besieged by all the beauties.At this moment, Tang, standing in the crowd, still stood out like a chicken out of the crowd.Often with just one glance, the focus can be locked on him effortlessly.

And Tang obviously knew that his advantage was still eye-catching, so he never bowed his knees in front of his girlfriend.Every time we quarrel, we have to fight for three points unreasonably, insisting on making the girlfriend cry and beg him to change his mind.With such a good face, this love, which seemed to be a talent and beauty, died soon.

Tang, who lost his love, continued to walk in the crowd with his back straight, but no matter how cool he was, he always seemed to be missing something.Like a rose that has been plucked and caressed in every way, no matter how you look at it, it has faded and is no longer fresh as it used to be.

So at that time, we all often joked that men, like women, have a guarantee period, and once they are unpacked and used, they will not be far away from the time of withering.But Tang himself didn't feel that he was still standing in the crowd in a dense and prosperous way, with a kind of heroism of a fat general with his belly up and patrolling.

Tang, who has always insisted on not "discounting", is like the goods in the store, or the dollar before the financial crisis, which has been strong for a while.He also took this opportunity to talk about one romantic love after another, and enjoyed the rich time that those boys with crooked looks could not reach.

Two years after we graduated from university, Tang became a popular figure on BBS, Alumni Records or Kaixin.com. Whenever we were bored, everyone would always gossip about Tang's unforgettable romantic and heroic appearance, and talk about it with him after graduation. The bits and pieces of communication piece together a changing Tang.

At that time, I was the only classmate who was closest to Tang, so I was the best candidate for Tang's foreign spokesperson.Girls who were indifferent to Tang in the past often gossip and ask me, does the current Tang still have the magical power to instantly hit people's eyes when he looked at the past?There are also boys who are still jealous, saying that the current Tang is tortured by work, and he may not have the charm of walking in the courtyard and attracting countless beauties.

I finally got some free time. In order to live up to the expectations of many students, I plan to meet Tang, who has just become a father, and report a comprehensive story about Tang to everyone.Tang didn't know why he came, he just thought it was an old classmate, so he quickly agreed to meet, but when it came to the specific meeting place, this handsome guy who was always straightforward and neat, was chattering, talking about the subway entrance for a while, and baby products for a while. The specialty store, later said it was in front of the company.In the end, I insisted that it would be better to go to a baby products store. One would be on the way, and the other would be to buy something for his precious son.Tang hesitated for a while before agreeing.

I arrived at the store early, waiting to meet Don.The door just happened to be a bus stop, and there were a lot of pedestrians coming and going. I stared intently at the slightly handsome men who got off the bus, inspected and filtered them one by one, trying to find bits and pieces related to Tang.But time passed by, and the handsome school girl I was looking for never appeared.I finally got impatient and called Tang. When the phone rang, a few meters away from me, a man who was described as dark and sloppy dressed also took out his phone at the same time and called out my name into the microphone.

I stepped over in a few steps almost in surprise, and hesitantly called out Tang to this slightly arched man.And Tang, just looked up and saw me, complaining excitedly at the same time, I have been waiting for the beauty for half an hour.When I said that I had been waiting for half an hour but still hadn't found him, his eyes suddenly darkened, and he said, back then you were able to spot me, the number one handsome guy, in the crowd at a glance what.I shrugged and said, but why does the number one handsome guy look a bit weak now?

And what Tang did next was even more beyond my expectations. This man, who was always confident, didn't know if he became timid because he became a father, or because he didn't dare to make his own decisions because he had a wife. He just bought a child. There are thousands of options for feeding bottles, and I called my wife to ask for instructions, and spent nearly half an hour with the shopkeeper before I bought the next one.

I stood next to Tang, no matter how I looked at it, I felt that Tang had become shorter. His hair was slightly disheveled by the wind all the way, covering his eyes, and also blocking my view of the road to the school grass when it was in full bloom.

It turns out that time is really a cruel thing. Its rough wind and sand blows over, and the school grass we once loved is covered with wind and dust, and there is a sad crack in our field of vision.

(End of this chapter)