Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 32 I am alone in the world, a woman should live with her demeanor (3)
Many women are careless by nature and don't care about money. They think it's stingy to care about a few cents, a few dimes or even tens of dollars, so they are ashamed to talk about these small money.Compared with such women, "bad" women are much more stingy, like a female version of "Grantai".Although they are not sensitive to numbers and do not have a very good understanding of financial management, they are not confused about money.Most women are still very tight about their pockets, even those women who are addicted to shopping, only carefully approach the happiness of shopping after they have a clear understanding of their property and plan in detail It is inevitable to hesitate in front of the door, compare and inquire again and again, whether there is any discount or promotion information that I have missed.

It is this character of wanting to break a penny in half to spend that makes women have the reputation of "housekeeping expert", "housekeeper", and "financial manager". complacent about these titles.And persevere.This habit of a woman is to be encouraged in the course of housekeeping, and is a virtue if it does not affect her moral character.

Therefore, a woman who takes small money like a penny as a matter of fact is a woman who really knows how to manage money.And those women who sneer at small money are implying that they don't know how to manage money. They don't take small money seriously, and sometimes it can indeed cover up some people's psychology.Temporarily satisfying their vanity, but sooner or later, this kind of psychology will slowly lose the funds in their hands.This is why some women are always unable to become financial masters.

Some women may know the truth that a person must be down-to-earth and earnestly start from the little things, but they may not understand that earning money must start from the little things, and start earning from scattered small money in a down-to-earth manner.Many women at the pinnacle of their careers often start from small vendors, or even start from scratch, but why are they able to do big business in the end and become rich men that everyone envies?It is because they never despise small money.They believe that if you accumulate a lot of small money, it will become big money.

There is such a story: a young woman actually accumulated two snakeskin bags of coins in a few years.Here's the thing.

For several years, this woman worked tirelessly, running around all day, and her business became more and more popular.Every time I go out and finish my work, there is always a pile of coins in my pocket or purse. Out of the habit of saving, she puts these coins in the piggy bank.When the piggy bank was full, she began to look for other savings tools, and then she threw the coins into a large jar for convenience.

As time went on, her money grew more and more, and the number of coins accumulated more and more. If this continued, a large tank would not be able to hold it. At this time, she had to deposit these coins in the bank.But she heard that depositing cents depends on the face of others, let alone so many cents?

But the cylinder can no longer fit.She had no choice but to pack the coins in two snakeskin bags, specially found a good bicycle to carry them, and dragged them to the gate of the bank.

银行储蓄专柜共派7人一起清点，从上午9点数到下午1点多钟，整整4个多钟头，连午饭也没顾得吃才清点完。可见数目之多。其中：一分币218425枚，计2184．25元；2分币是189105枚，计378210元；5分币87591枚，计4379，55元。三者加起来共10345．90元。

When the woman walked out of ICBC, someone asked him: "Miss, how did you accumulate these trivial money." She laughed.no answer.But from her smile, we can know that she has accumulated bit by bit by relying on her own wisdom and hard work.

If this happened to someone else, maybe that penny and dime would have been thrown into a random corner long ago. She would never have imagined that after a few years, these inconspicuous little money could accumulate to tens of thousands. Yuan.

This is the power of small money. Can you deny that any of your large income is not made up of these small money?In today's society, not to mention ordinary people, even billionaires with over [-] million status, they will not regard a dollar as dung.Because in their eyes, this one dollar is likely to produce a value dozens or even hundreds of times greater than it.See what billionaires Bill Gates and Paul Getty do with their pocket money.

Bill Gates went to attend a particularly grand parliament. His presence aroused the interest of many guests, and many people wanted to see the demeanor of the richest man in the world at that time.Everyone came outside to welcome him.

Gates drove to the outside of the venue and saw that the parking lot was full of cars, so he couldn't find a parking space for a while.Then circle in the parking lot.

Bill Gates was walking around in the ordinary parking lot. One of his friends looked very anxious, so he ran over and asked him: "There are a lot of vacancies in the VIP parking lot over there. Why are you walking around in this ordinary parking lot?" Woolen cloth?"

"It's a dollar more expensive over there than here!" Gates replied.

At this time, a reporter came to interview him: "Will a rich man like you care about this little money? Let alone a dollar, what is a few thousand or tens of thousands of dollars?"

Gates said seriously: "Don't say 1 dollar, even 1 dime, when I am penniless, it will make me happy for several days!"

Billionaire Paul Getty is known as a wild man. He is also a man who is good at calculation and makes every penny [-]% effective.

In London, Paul lived in the smallest and cheapest suite in the Ritz Hotel.When Paul was not staying at the hotel, he instructed the concierge to re-address the mail instead of sending it in a new envelope, because it would save on postage.Even after Paul became famous internationally, he often complained that people always wanted him to pay for dinners, although he rarely did so.

On one occasion, the essay columnist Max Weir handed Paul a bill to pay for the meals he had assembled for a group of international dignitaries.However, Paul was very stingy and only kept his share of the meal money and walked away, leaving Max Well stunned and furious.

Paul used to have a payphone in Sutton Park.The phone is mounted on a wall in a public place.In the various departments of the manor, there are only a few ordinary telephones and they are also locked. Only certain internal personnel have keys.

Paul explained the reason why the phone was locked in this way: "First, Sutton Manor is not my personal property, but belongs to a subsidiary of Paul Oil Company. Therefore, Sutton Manor actually belongs to the stock holders of Paul Oil Company .Secondly, shortly after Sutton Manor was bought, there were many people coming in and out, some were visiting business people, some were artisans and workers who came to remodel, and some were shop assistants who delivered goods. Thirdly, Sutton The telephone bills in Sutton Manor have suddenly increased a lot. The reason is simple. All the telephones in the house can be communicated with the outside world. Friends...the phone charges they chatted with were naturally charged to Sutton Manor's phone bill."

This is the attitude of the rich towards money. Their attitude towards money is both strict and serious.They don't hesitate to invest in the expansion of the company or in charity.But they want to get the most out of every penny.

So, if you want to be a great woman, study like those "bad" women!Let yourself be stingy and take every penny seriously, so that money will be willing to be with you and "grow" more money, otherwise it will depreciate every penny.

Because I am happy, so I have to live like this
What kind of woman is the happiest?The answer is the kind of woman who can live life on her own terms.They may not have a lot of money, but their hearts are full and rich; they may not have fame and fortune, but they can be content; they don't have a lot, but they have the desire to sing every day.

This is happiness, simple happiness, how many women can have such happiness?Most women live a stereotyped life, go to work, go to get off work; have stereotyped troubles, interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and family conflicts; also have stereotyped desires, salary rises, get 8000 yuan a month, still feel I am a poor man.

If you ask most women whether this is the way of life you like, I believe many women will shake their heads and deny it.However, if you want to ask them what kind of lifestyle they like, some of them don't know at all, but most of them don't have the courage to choose.

Life is a process of choice, but this choice is not free, every choice has a price behind it, so women need to have enough courage when making choices.

Li Wan, a girl from Guangzhou, a college student who graduated from CUHK, fell in love with Tibet suddenly after working as a white-collar worker for less than three months.Since 3, Li Wan, as the incarnation of a lonely soldier, devoted herself devoutly to this war to cross the limit of life.In the eight years since then, she has traveled almost all over Tibet.

Li Wan's mother is a very traditional person, always asking her to sit properly and stand properly, and she is not allowed to go out after dark.For this reason, Li Wan longed for freedom, so she started skipping classes in middle school, and resigned after working in a foreign company for less than three months after graduating from university.

Longing for freedom became Li Wan's fundamental reason for going to Tibet. This trip actually made her unable to leave Tibet.So, she went into Tibet again and again.And longing to be a part of Tibet.

In 1998, he began to go deep into Sichuan, Gansu and Tibet.

In the summer of 2002, I traveled alone in the uninhabited area of ​​northern Tibet with a backpack for nearly three months and arrived in Ngari. Then I moved to Ali Gang Rinpoche for a week, and reached the Zhuomala Snow Mountain Pass at an altitude of 5850 meters.

2002年初秋，跟随西藏地质队进入西藏北纬33～36度、东经79～9O度之间的生命禁区考察，历时三个月。同年完成第一部电视纪录片《跨越生命的禁区》。

In the early spring and autumn of 2003, he walked from Yunnan to Qamdo and Zayu County in Tibet twice for more than three months, and independently completed the second documentary "Solitary Hearing of the Nujiang Grand Canyon".

In 2004, I traveled alone for more than a month in Indian-administered Kashmir.

From March to June 2004, collected folk songs in Zayu and Medog on the Sino-Indian border, and independently completed the shooting of the first three episodes of the documentary series "Remote Village".

In the autumn of 2004, he entered Tibet from the desert, and entered the salt well in the junction zone of Yunnan and Tibet, looking for the culture that was about to be lost in the only Naxi ethnic township in Tibet.

In 2005, Chunqiu led the Malaysian mountaineering team twice to cross the Biluo Snow Mountains on the Yunnan-Tibet border.

In 2008, I hiked from Gongshan, Yunnan to Zayu County, Tibet, and crossed the Yunnan-Tibet Tea-Horse Road.

After going through so many difficulties, she never gave up.Documentaries, texts, and photos are all ways Li Wan approached Tibet.Ultimately, she hopes to become a part of Tibet.In Li Wan's heart, Tibet is her home. After graduating from university in 1997, she began to travel around.She's already past the age when she should marry, but now she doesn't even have a boyfriend, and her friends and family are worried about her.And she also had love in the city, but because of the persistence in her heart, she gave up all of them.She said that her future lover is destined to be a Tibetan, simple, truthful and wise.And she has already made plans to buy a piece of land in Nyingchi, Tibet, and build a hotel to serve people who love Tibet.

Ruling, she set up Li Wan's studio, with assistants, special promotion and planning.To package her work—documentary, text, photographs.

She said: "For many people, Tibet is a symbol, but for me, it is rich and happy. I can hide from her forever and ever."

What kind of life do you want?Can a job with a monthly salary of 6000 yuan make you happy? Does a house of more than 100 square meters make you feel safe?How would you rate your life now? 6 points? 8 points?Or more, or even less.

When you are not satisfied with your lifestyle, have you thought about changing it?When everyone is trying their best to rush to the big cities, sacrificing their health for a high salary, have you ever wondered if this is the life you want?

After living in Beijing for nearly 10 years, 35-year-old Ren Na suddenly quit her job with a monthly salary of 8000 yuan. A friend asked her what she did for a living.The text message she replied was like a joke: go to shine shoes under the overpass.

certainly.She didn't really go to shine the shoes, but rented out the two redundant houses she bought for simple decoration. She said calmly: This rent is enough for daily life.Instead of going to the supermarket for vegetables and meat, she went to the vegetable market; she cut her hair in front of the mirror and learned how to bleach and dye her hair; she went to the library to read books, watch movies and rent DVDs; Herbs to accompany herbal tea; make your own brocade cushions to decorate your room, and make your own beautiful hand-molded biscuits to entertain friends.When she is happy, she will do a little design, photography or writing for others.

Ren Na sighed: "I used to think that I needed so much, and a monthly salary of 8000 yuan felt like a poor person. Now I find that what I need is so little, I don't earn much, and I have the desire to sing every day."

Now, her time and money are mainly used for travel, she said: "Not everyone can live to 60 years old in a healthy way, even if you still have the energy to travel around the world after 60 years old, your state of mind, the world and people you see. It's not the same as when you were 35."

A simple life is not bad, as long as you like it, but how many women have the courage to choose?
When a woman has experienced the transition from a girl to a woman, she will understand that happiness is actually a state of mind. It has nothing to do with how much money you have, what kind of house you live in, and what kind of car you drive.Every woman should take the initiative to choose the lifestyle she likes, including what kind of city do you like to live in?I like to work 7 days a day, 10 hours a day, but I would rather earn less money, but my life is relatively leisurely.If you can't live without a few side dishes from your hometown, you really shouldn't go abroad and eat hamburgers with a sad face at every meal.

In many cases, women do not live for themselves, they live in the eyes and comments of others, they are happy when they are praised by others, and they are happy when they are envied by others.However, all these feelings are only temporary, and more often, we have to face our own hearts alone.Therefore, women should choose the lifestyle they like, so as to obtain long-term happiness and live out their own style.

(End of this chapter)