The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 9 Deciphering the truth hidden behind men (2)
Stress is the most important factor in a man's bad temper.Because under stress, men will be in a fighting state, and there will be more substances called "catecholamines" in the body. The original purpose of this substance is to increase people's combat effectiveness.Excessive catecholamines will now cause an increase in toxins in the blood, thereby damaging liver cells.In fact, this is the key to the saying "anger hurts the liver" in traditional Chinese medicine.

4. Symptoms of disease
Some men have a bad temper, which may be related to suffering from a certain disease.Such as patients with liver disease, hyperactivity of deficiency fire, irritable mood, and easy to lose their temper at ordinary times.

5. Carnivorous
There are three reasons why meat makes people irritable: first, the animal protein in meat will reduce the content of "tryptophan" in the brain, which will lead to people's emotional irritable, aggressive and aggressive tendency; secondly, the meat contains A large amount of saturated fatty acids in meat will increase blood pressure, and increased blood pressure is an important cause of emotional instability; finally, meat will lead to a decrease in calcium ion content in the blood, which is a "cooling agent" for emotions. A decrease in stimuli increases our tendency to be irritable.

6. Eat junk food

Junk food has a bad enough reputation, and British scientists have recently stepped on it.They divided the male experimenters into two groups, one group was supplemented with a really balanced and nutritious diet, and the other group was only given French fries and chicken burgers. After a year, they found that the group of boys who only ate French fries and chicken burgers became Bad tempered and violent.

7. Lack of male hormones

In addition to women, men also experience hormonal changes.Androgen secretion is the most vigorous in the 30s and 20s, and then gradually decreases.A study by French scholars on men aged 60 to 40 found that during these 1 years, the amount of male hormone secretion in men decreased by 4/[-].Men, like women, also have menopause problems when androgen dwindles, and mood swings, irritability and withdrawal are the most common among their "early menopause" symptoms.

Grumpy men usually lack self-control, have a fiery personality, and are about to explode at the slightest disagreement.In the face of such a boyfriend, in order to make him march in the direction of good temper, women should give more advice, for example: "When dealing with problems, don't be so impulsive, and look at the problem rationally. Don't think about what you are. After being stubborn and irritable, you are often the one who gets hurt in the end.”

As for those boyfriends who have a bad temper due to excessive work and life pressure, as his lover, you should ensure that he has a reasonable and healthy diet, and urge him to strengthen physical exercise and communicate with colleagues and friends more.Only by adjusting internally and externally can a man truly achieve physical and mental health.Good luck women!

See through men's "sweet words"

Of course, men's sweet words are meant for women. A woman with weak immunity can be so moved by a man's confession, and immediately wants to report it for the rest of her life. This is really an extremely stupid woman.Smart women need to improve their immunity to men's rhetoric, so that they can be proud of the love scene, be the last laughing beauty, and piss off those bad men with bad intentions.

There are two stages of men's rhetoric: one is the stage of freshmen who have no experience in the world, and the other is the stage of veterans who have been on the battlefield.

Most of the sweet words of innocent teenagers are before the age of 20, a first love, "thrilling" love language confession, so it is easy to scare a stupid woman with blank feelings, and has the urge to reciprocate for a lifetime.In fact, to put it bluntly, those "good stories" that are old and rock-solid are purely a show. If two people are going to die, how can love live forever?You said that the spirit of love is immortal, and this is probably just your own belief. What is the spirit?No one has ever seen it.Love is love, to be honest, all those men who do not step on the ground to speak, his future is an unknown, how can he give you a known promise?

The most abominable thing is those men who play with emotions, they have been in love for a long time, they are sophisticated, they know women's temperament and psychological needs well, they can be said to give full play to their rhetoric, even smart women are "fooled" by him I was so excited that I stretched out my hand to him calmly, but I didn't know that when you stretched out your hand, you were already hit.The satyr hid aside and snickered "hehe", and when he got enough of the beauties, these stinky men would make "pitiful" disgusting faces and say "I love you, but we can't be together. We Let's break up." Yun Yun, really shameless and despicable.

Men are such purposeful animals.He is like a natural hunter. In order to catch the prey, he exhausted all the "tricks", and the beautiful words in the world are spoken by them. "There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. I didn't regret it until I lost it. If God gives me another chance, I will definitely say three words to that woman - 'I love you' .If you must add a time limit to this promise, I hope it will be - '1 years'." What a classic confession of love, it is really the best of men's "sweet words".

Why do men's rhetoric always work frequently?One reason is that men speak beautifully, and women love to listen to beautiful words is another reason. This is like Zhou Yu and Huang Gai, one is willing to fight, and the other is happy.Many women not only don't understand this nature of men, but even take men's rhetoric as the standard of truth, how stupid it is!Being infatuated before falling in love and sober after falling in love, or being proud before marriage and feeling inferior after marriage, these are common mistakes made by women who do not know the truth.

A woman must be smart to break through men's rhetoric in order to save herself from harm.How cruel the reality is, living with wounds will be very tiring all your life.If a smart woman wants to live an easy and happy life, she must see through the lies of men and make friends with a really good man, only then can she have a good life.

When do men set the trap of "sweet words"?There are probably three stages when he sets the trap: the pursuit stage, the hunting stage, and the post-hunting stage.The following analysis one by one, women in love must look carefully.

1. In the pursuit stage, there are many sweet words

"I only like you, you are the only one in my life" "Without you, what is the meaning of life?" enough"……

These words are probably familiar to women. When a man says such words, it is either an unintentional expression or an intentional show.Men who have no experience with women may be sincere, but you need to be careful with those men who are experienced.Hearing similar words, the sincerity of a man is unknown. Don’t look for evidence from these words, but look for an explanation from the "person". If a person is good, he is good, but if he is bad, this kind of "smart talk" is just a means to deceive you That's all.

2. Men's rhetoric in the hunting stage
"Do you know what love is? Love is responsibility. I am a man, and I will be responsible for you." "To put it bluntly, you are beautiful, but that's not why I love you. What I love more is yours." Heart"……

When a man encounters resistance in pursuing a woman, he usually adopts two methods, one is to confess directly, or play hard to get. Generally, men will adopt the way of direct confession, while outstanding men will adopt the clever strategy of playing hard to get.

Whether a man’s frankness is sincere or not is difficult to tell the truth. You have to rely on your rational feelings. Moreover, the man who said this must first have a good understanding of you before he can be serious about you. If you have only known each other for three days, he Just spit out love to you, then this "love" probably contains moisture.

A man who knows how to play hard to get is generally very confident. He can be neither humble nor overbearing, and impress women from the upbringing that women care about. This is also a common trick used by those "bad men" who fascinate women.

3. A man's rhetoric after the goal is achieved
"Calling every day does not mean love, and not calling does not mean that there is no love. Love is a mutual feeling, and I know this in my heart." "Love is of course very important, but it is not the most important. If I really hang out with you every day Shou, but hungry every day, would you like to?"...

Of course, in life, not all men who say such things are out of means to women, but there is one thing, only when he continues to show love with actions, can he prove his deeper love for you.

When a man opens and closes his mouth "what is a woman"...

Girls who have just graduated from school and found a job often sigh: "It is only when I enter the society that I realize that men are so disappointing, just like my colleague in the office, who talks about football games or something, and is never careful about work issues." Research. I have no knowledge, no brains, and I have graduated from college, I am an idiot." This kind of view is a bit wronged by men.

Just imagine, in the office, who can say "I am full of energy", "I will struggle", or "Don't underestimate people, I have read dozens of books" and so on?It doesn't do any good to be too naive in order to be tactful in the delicate world of relationships.What you talk about must be selected from those irrelevant, social and public topics.For example, talk about football games or something, talk about Maradona, Van Basten, talk about the battle between dragons and tigers on the court, inseparable and so on.Such small talk, how can we not speculate?It can not only adjust the spirit, but also broaden the horizons, which is better than those secret reviews of Zhang's parents and Li's family!
Why do men "duplicate" women? "Women just can't do it! Long hair, short-sighted." "Women are really useless, just a few things, and you can't hold them." Such words are often heard from some men.In the Japanese press, critics of both sexes fought a fierce pen battle over a popular song, and there was a lot of noise for a while.It was a song emphasizing male chauvinism, once it was sung, it immediately resonated with many male listeners.It also caused general resentment among women from all walks of life.Thus, a controversy finally broke out.When expressing her opinion, a female commentator emphasized: "It's a man's bluff to be brave." In fact, the fantasy of a man who wants to be the overlord in the family is almost impossible to realize in modern society, so just put your heart on it. In this kind of song to express the state of mind.This kind of insight can be described as hitting the nail on the head.

(End of this chapter)