The Story of Dafujin Parenting in Qing Dynasty

Chapter 34 Returning to the Door 1
Today is the ninth day of Yinti and Hezhuo's wedding,
It is also the day of returning home.

Yesterday Yinti asked for leave with the master who was in the study, and today he accompanied Fujin back home.

"Korkun and his whole family, please greet the uncle and Da Fujin."

"Greetings to the uncle, and greetings to Da Fujin."

As soon as I got off the carriage, I saw Grandma Ama kneeling to greet her,
Feeling sad in my heart, as soon as I enter the palace gate, it is as deep as the sea, and goodbye is already a distinction between monarch and minister, no, it should be said that since the imperial decree bestows marriage, one is already a royal.

Yinti seemed to feel something, and lightly shook my hand.

He hurriedly said: "Grandmother, father-in-law and mother-in-law please hurry up."

He Zhuo stepped forward quickly, trying to help his grandmother up, "

Grandma, Ama, Erniang, you are trying to break me. "

"Dafujin, etiquette cannot be discarded."

Yinti declined again,
Grandma pushed my hand away and saluted.

after the salute

Yinti personally helped his grandmother Erniang up.

He Zhuo supported Eniang: "Let's go in and talk."

Yinti was entertained by elder brother Ama and second elder brother, and I was welcomed into the inner courtyard. After some pleasantries, there were only two people in the room, grandmother and Erniang.

Er Niang held my hand with red eyes: "Is it good for elder brother? Is eldest elder brother treating you well? The servants are useless. How about the princess concubines in the backyard?"

"Don't worry, Dafujin has a ruddy complexion and a radiant look. The uncle must treat her well."

Although the grandmother spoke plainly, she looked He Zhuo up and down several times since entering the door, which still revealed her worry about her granddaughter.

"Yes, look at me." Er Niang wiped her tears with a handkerchief.

I snuggled into Er Niang's arms, patted Er Niang's hand comfortingly, and then looked at my grandmother and said, "Don't worry, Grandmother Er Niang, Xiao Wu is doing well in the palace. Eldest brother treats me well, and so does Concubine Hui." Kind and gentle. The servants have to use it, and the concubine in the backyard, Ge Ge, is also good-looking."

I felt that my mother and grandmother both breathed a sigh of relief.

"Yes, our little five has good looks and good character, so we should treat him well." Er Niang gently stroked the little daughter's face, revealing a gratifying smile.

Grandmother: "My elder brother personally accompanied me back home, and brought two big carts of gifts, which shows that Da Fujin is after his heart."

The grandmother and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law looked at each other and smiled,
"But Da Fujin can't take it lightly. Marrying into the palace is no better than outside. Our natal family can't support you at any time. You have to rely on yourself in the palace."

Grandmother: "After Xiaowu became a Dafujin, all the young and old in the family have made more progress. Your brothers all said they would support you. Your little brother looks for you every day, and you two chat. I'll call him over."

After my grandmother went out, Er Niang asked me: "This is just the beginning. Although everyone says that women are attached to men throughout their lives, it is not entirely true.

Marriage depends on day-to-day management.

Remember what Er Niang said before, keep a clear head at all times, don't fall into the love net woven by men and lose yourself.

Only by staying awake at all times can you be invincible, be considerate of your husband, and care about his preferences. Don't be foolish and only do things and don't talk. Let him know what you have done and what you have done.

Let the man feel that you love him, respect him, and have him in your heart. "

"In addition, you have to take advantage of the newlyweds, conceive a child, and give birth to a boy, so that your position as a concubine Fujin will be stable."

"Emiang, don't worry, my daughter can tell that the uncle likes me."

Mrs. Yiergenjueluo nodded her little daughter's forehead: "You, don't rely on petting, the man is considerate of you, you should be more considerate of him, you know the cold and the hot.

By the way, when it comes to the return ceremony, you choose it, or the man chooses it. "

(End of this chapter)