Lawyer: Start with legal retaliation against infidelity!

Wang Yu understood that he had to leave with nothing, and that this was precisely why he had sought out a lawyer.

However, he really couldn't understand what it meant for "the woman to leave with nothing"!

no way.

When it comes to divorce cases, the sheer number of cases already demonstrates that women have a significant advantage in these situations. For some morally corrupt individuals, the so-called division of property in divorce is actually a way to make money!

What's the most aggressive one to fish for?

Naturally, the man leaves with nothing.

Does the woman leave with nothing? Almost never!

"She...she can leave with nothing!?"

Wang Yu exclaimed in surprise, his face full of disbelief.

He almost lost control of his emotions; his muscles tensed, and he nearly jumped up.

Let's not talk about him anymore.

Even Lin Yue and Wang Chao, standing to the side, showed a hint of surprise upon hearing this, clearly unsure of what kind of solution it was. "Mr. Wang, it seems you need some unusual assistance."

Xu De still had a smile on his face as he spoke to comfort the other party.

Then he began to explain in detail.

"First, I want to explain the underlying logic of property division between spouses."

"The property divided by the court is the 'marital property' between the two parties. That is, the money you earned during your marriage is called 'marital property'."

"And dividing the property is this part that is being divided."

Marital property can be viewed as a piggy bank.

In other words, the amount of money saved in the piggy bank that you and your wife jointly store depends on how much is left after you spend each month.

But when it came to the court, and the property was to be divided...

"What the judge has to do is smash this piggy bank and divide all the money inside by both parties according to percentages."

For example, splitting the profits 50/50.

Xu De's lips moved, and a series of sounds rang out.

Theoretically speaking.

In a 50/50 division of property, the man doesn't actually lose out.

for example.

If you earn 5,000 a month and your wife also earns 5,000, then the shared property to be divided in this storage jar is not your personal 5,000, but "10000 yuan".

Given this base amount, if you split the profits 55/50, and you get 5,000, is that a loss?

It wasn't a loss, because I got all my property back!

Why do some people still complain even with this seemingly fair distribution based on such underlying logic?

Just because...

"Leaving aside any social conflicts, personal opinions, or subjective emotions..."

Men earn more per month than women!

Xu De sat on the sofa, his arms crossed, his gaze sweeping across Wang Yu in front of him with lightning speed.

The other person wore glasses, had long hair, no calluses on their hands, spoke Mandarin, and had relatively clear logic in their speech. If there were no surprises, they should be among the higher-income earners.

"This is social statistics."

"Men are about 20% more likely to be affected."

Xu De replied.

Taking the median, the average wage for women in society is around 5200 yuan, while for men it is around 6500 yuan.

Assuming the man earns 6000 a month and the woman earns 4000 a month, the total "savings jar" of this "family" would contain 10000 yuan. In this case, the profits would be split 50/50, with each person receiving 5,000 yuan.

From a personal perspective, is the extremely fair number "55 points" a gain or a loss?

The man deposited 6,000 but only withdrew 5,000.

The woman deposited four thousand, but withdrew five thousand.

Furthermore, women often account for the majority of household expenses, such as "entertainment," "bags," "clothes," and "cosmetics."

Assuming a woman has fixed expenses, if she spends 2000 of her 4000 monthly salary, she will only have 2000 left.

If the money is then combined with the man's 6000 and split, the remaining amount in the storage jar is 8000. If split 50/50, the man, who earns 6000, will only receive 4000!

In summary.

A conclusion can be drawn.

When genders have different incomes, and the division of property is supposed to be "fair," it can lead to absolute "injustice"!

and so.

To truly avoid losing out... you must allocate a percentage of your salary to "savings." If your wife's salary is low, then the only option is... a 60/40 split.

"Or maybe 70/30!"

"If you want to take all your property away safely and securely, and don't want the other party to take advantage of you..." Xu De pulled out the pen hanging from his chest.

He took another piece of paper and wrote two numbers on it.

Seventy-three!

"A 70/30 split aligns with the common understanding of 'leaving with nothing'!"

"If you wish to punish her, all her accumulated savings will be given to you as compensation..."

"That's a perfect score, legally meaning leaving with nothing!"

Xu De looked at Wang Yu calmly, feeling that he had explained things thoroughly enough.

This is the logic behind the division of property in divorce cases.

The reason why most men feel they are being taken advantage of is that their income is unstable after marriage. If their wives don't even work, then the seemingly fair "50/50 split" is actually cutting the other party in half!

of course.

The 2003 law granted "privileges" to certain special groups, such as children and the elderly.

But in reality, gender-based privileges aren't that severe; things like distributing money are still possible.

Divorce is a fear shared by the vast majority of men.

It's purely because of the developmental differences between men and women; the hormones manifest in the body, leading to a "labor force" gap. Physical advantages allow men to earn more.

Given the average wage, and following the underlying distribution logic, a vast number of cases will naturally emerge.

If the wife has a higher income, the other party will also face this issue.

"So, Mr. Wang, what is your stance?"

Xu De suddenly spoke up and asked a question in return.

He looked at Wang Yu in front of him with great patience and guided him slowly.

"Do you want compensation, or do you want to leave safely?"

After saying that, Wang Yu fell silent.

His mind drifted back to the past, and after a long while, a ruthless glint appeared on his face.

"I...I think the worst I can do is get 82 points!"

82 points?

Xu De paused, then raised an eyebrow.

Frankly speaking, this ratio means that as long as women participate in labor, the distribution of money will almost certainly result in a direct loss to their interests. However, to ensure his understanding was correct, he added:

"Do you want an 82% score, or is an 82% score the worst you can accept?"

Wang Yu said, "The worst I can accept is 82 points."

Why should I accept a 50/50 split after being cheated on? Why should I watch the other person "profit" from my money when I've done nothing wrong? Since the other person made a mistake.

Then he has to compensate him!

This isn't about saving face; it's about the compensation he deserves after his rights have been violated!

"Okay, I think I understand."

Xu De nodded.

He then fell into deep thought.

The minimum acceptable percentage is 82%, which means taking money from the woman.

If it's taken from a man, that's easy.

Why?

It's the same thing I said before.

Judges don't just consider wrongdoing in their rulings; they also consider "guaranteeing livelihood"!!!

If one party earns 3,000 a month and the other earns 10,000 a month, then during a divorce, the judge will try to award a higher sum to the party with the lower income to ensure that their standard of living does not decline.

This has nothing to do with men or women.

It's simply because men's wages are, on average, higher than women's.

This can lead to seemingly fair laws becoming a protective shield that favors one side in practice.

If a man wants to score 82 points...

"Mr. Wang."

"I have a few questions for you."

"First, what is your family situation, such as the income of both of you, and when did you meet your wife? Is the child your biological child?" Xu De pondered for a long time, and after organizing his thoughts, he looked up at Wang Yu.

Wang Yu hesitated for a moment, recalling the events in his mind.

After a moment, he replied:

"I."

"I work in the internet industry, I'm a... programmer."

As he spoke, he seemed to remember something and quickly added a sentence.

"It's a software development engineer; outsiders call them programmers."

"My salary is 2,700 a month, which is considered quite high. As for her..."

"I met her six years ago before graduation. She was an art student and became a dance teacher after graduation... not a school teacher, but a dance studio teacher, with a basic salary of six hundred."

"My highest monthly income was around one thousand."

"As for the affair... my job requires me to work overtime four days a week, and it's precisely because I had so much free time that she dared to cheat on me, and I didn't even really notice!"

The highest possible income is 1,000 yuan, while the average monthly income is 2,700 yuan... This is almost a 2.7-fold difference in income!

If the split is 50/50, then the other party should receive at least 1,800, which is 800 more than their own income.

Wang Yu's baseline score is 82 points, which actually only amounts to around 3,000 points.

"An art student...?"

Lin Yue's expression was somewhat strange.

She can draw, but the reason she didn't choose to pursue further studies despite her high artistic talent is because she felt her art was too chaotic.

Art is indeed a major source of emotional problems.

"Where is the child?" Xu De asked again.

"Is the child your biological child?"

This is a rather presumptuous question; an ordinary man would be quite alarmed to hear it.

But this is a law firm, and the people who come here are here to solve their needs, and this problem is the prerequisite for solving those needs!

"The child is my own."

Wang Yu nodded, not feeling any pressure about it.

"I can confirm that the child is my biological child. The child is four years old this year. I got pregnant five years ago before I got married, and we got married six months after the pregnancy started."

"I had a paternity test done before I came here."

"It shows up above that he is my biological son."

My biological child.

From a moral standpoint, it's a stroke of luck amidst misfortune, but from a legal standpoint, it's not exactly fortunate.

Remember, this is clearly stipulated in the Civil Code.

The custody and guardianship of a child belong to the biological parents. If you are not, you need to go through the necessary procedures!

If you haven't completed the necessary procedures, then you don't have the rights to raise or supervise your child.

You don't have custody of the child, so you don't need to pay child support!

so..

"What are your thoughts on children?" Xu De asked, puzzled.

"I want a child!"

Wang Yu answered without hesitation.

He's different from the woman; he's not a beast. Besides, the child is his own flesh and blood. If he doesn't want it...

It would be impossible to detect that the child has psychological problems.

He has no psychological problems and would never associate his wife with infidelity!

If that's the case...

"That makes things easier."

Xu De took a deep breath; this lawsuit was not entirely disadvantageous to men.

Of course, there are no advantages to be seen at the moment.

but..

Regarding the most crucial matter of the child, as long as Xu De is willing to fight for it and has this thought, satisfying his demands will be beneficial!

Wang Chao, standing to the side, was also sweating bullets.

"Tsk, the kid's lucky. If he weren't related to him by blood, wouldn't Wang Yu have fought for him?"

As he spoke, a look of astonishment crossed his face.

The child has developed psychological problems.

If Wang Yu doesn't fight for the child, it means the child will belong 100% to the other party, and his psychological problems will gradually worsen.

It's no joke that a childhood can ruin a lifetime.

When Lin Yue first went to the welfare home, she explained that most of the criminals suffered from moderate childhood trauma!

Followed by.

Wang Chao's mind started working. He looked at Xu De, raised an eyebrow, and said excitedly:

"Brother...cough, Lawyer Xu, the child is yours, and the other party also has a lover."

"So, does that mean she won't fight for custody of the child...?"

He hadn't finished speaking.

Lin Yue, who was standing to one side, suddenly interrupted him.

"No, that's precisely why we'll fight even harder."

She sighed, her tone tinged with helplessness.

After saying this, Wang Chao glanced at Xu De and Wang Yu, but neither of them objected, clearly indicating that what he said was correct.

She had an affair and a lover, but the child wasn't born to her and her lover...

From this perspective...

First, after a divorce, it is difficult for the other party to build a stable family structure with their mistress while raising children.

The child is a burden.

Furthermore, Wang Yu's higher salary means the child will receive better care under his care. These two factors... might actually intensify the competition between the other party! "Because Mr. Wang's salary is higher."

Xu De looked at Wang Chao and continued to explain.

Don't apply common moral factors to the values ​​of the person who cheated, especially when the other party did nothing wrong and still chose to cheat. Try to see things from a distorted perspective!

Across the vast expanse of society, there is a distorted picture among the working class.

That is...

Low-income individuals are more likely to fight for child custody!

That's right.

In some cases where women commit adultery purely due to their moral values, the lower their income, the more likely they are to try to take custody of the children!

Why rob it?

You know, if the other party has a higher income, wouldn't it be more beneficial for the child's development to have them take care of the child?

Shouldn't this be a consideration for the birth mother?

On the contrary...

When the other party has a low income, those with distorted values ​​are less likely to fight for custody.

That's right.

These people act as if they have a grudge against the child. If the other party has a high income, they will keep the child on their own; if the other party has a low income, they will push the child onto the other party.

Why did such a disjointed scene occur?

Just because...

"This leads to another issue."

"That is, the obligations and responsibilities that come with child custody, namely 'child support'!"

Xu De pushed up his glasses on the bridge of his nose.

He has no problem with women.

He has no problem with men.

As the saying goes, women hold up half the sky; a person should not be defined by their own gender.

But we're not talking about men and women right now, but simply about the morally corrupt party in a divorce case.

This analysis is unrelated to gender antagonism and is purely objective, realistic, and incisive, dissecting the inner thoughts of morally corrupt individuals!

In summary. ....

"The custody battle, in these people's eyes, is less about fighting for the child and more about..."

"Fighting for child support!"

Xu De spoke slowly, his thinking was very clear, and what he said was even more insightful.

Custody and child support are almost always linked.

As for how to solve this problem by breaking through the corner...