After time travel, I became a vicious farm mother-in-law

Wang Zhaodi looked very happy, maybe she could go to someone to talk to because Xiaochizi and Wang Dagua robbed Da Ya of candied haws, and the other party's parents might beat and scold them because of what their child did. But Wang Zhaodi is unwilling to do this, because if Wang Zhaodi does this, it will inevitably make the relationship between the two children and Da Ya very stiff, and Da Ya will have no playmates.

It's just two candied haws, Wang Zhaodi is still willing to spend this small amount of money. If it's just two candied haws in exchange for a friendship from Da Ya, wouldn't it be a very good deal.

Wang Zhaodi thought so, and she walked back.

As soon as he reached the entrance of the alley, he saw several women talking together.

"I said big sister, why did you sell candied haws for the other two children besides your little granddaughter? I saw them all. I know you are kind, but let me tell you, children can't get used to it. This kid is used to eating his mouth, so what should he do in the future? The families in our alley are rich and powerful, and now the kid wants to eat candied haws. It's really outrageous to satisfy her."

"No, children can't be too used to it. If they are used to it, they won't look like a child. When they grow up, they will go crazy. Who knows what embarrassing things they will do. If it's a boy, it's okay to say, but if it's a girl If so, that would be great."

"That's it."

Wang Zhaodi listened to a few people's words, sat on the stone pier beside them, and said to them: "What you said is that children should not be too used to it. If they are too used to it, they will grow up lawless and don't know what to do." What's coming."

After Wang Zhaodi finished speaking, she continued: "You can't be too pampered, you can give what you want, if one day you can't give it, is it possible to steal it, rob it or sell it?"

Everyone didn't expect Wang Zhaodi to be so talkative now. After all, they didn't talk about Wang Zhaodi's question a few days ago, but Wang Zhaodi didn't take it to heart at all. Now when everyone heard Wang Zhaodi say this, they didn't react for a while and didn't know what to say .

Wang Zhaodi didn't care about others, but thought for Da Ya. Maybe it was because she had nothing to eat or drink when she was a child, so when she came to Da Ya's place, Wang Zhaodi wanted to give Da Ya all the good food and clothes. Ah, but after this day, Wang Zhaodi knows that her method may not be quite correct. Among other things, at least her method makes people say that if the relationship between people is not harmonious, if there is trouble because of this idea of ​​eating and drinking The relationship between people is not harmonious, Wang Zhaodi would rather give Da Ya less delicious food.

After all, a little delicious food and good clothes can't really make Da Ya feel happy. Only the acceptance and friendship of people around him can make Da Ya grow up happily.

Wang Zhaodi said to the women in front of her again:

"This is also my fault. Although I raised a few children, you also know that I didn't have anything at that time, so when I came to Da Ya, I thought I would give Da Ya all the good things, but Da Ya If you say something like this, you may not be happy, eating less delicious food and wearing less comfortable clothes may not have much impact on Da Ya, only when she truly feels happy from the bottom of her heart can she be truly happy."

These women may not understand what Wang Zhaodi said, but it is enough for these women to know that Wang Zhaodi will not buy things for Da Ya again.

"Big sisters should be like this, everyone should be the same, otherwise my little grandson will want things with me, and I don't know what to do."

"Yes, yes, now that the eldest sister has corrected herself, then we don't blame the eldest sister."

"Big sister, remember to come out and walk around more on weekdays. We have nothing else to do every day. It's good to get together and talk more."

"Yes, yes, it's fun for everyone to get together and gossip."

Wang Zhaodi did not refuse, she said to everyone: "I know, if I have time, I will definitely come out more." Although Wang Zhaodi doesn't like these people gossiping about other people's family, it is important to be accepted by others. A very happy thing.

Wang Zhaodi went on to say: "My daughter-in-law is pregnant now, and I need to take care of her more."

"What's the matter? You ask your daughter-in-law to come out and sit more. This woman should walk more when she is pregnant."

"Yep."

Wang Zhaodi nodded in response and said, "Yes, that's how it should be." After Wang Zhaodi finished speaking, she said, "I know this too. You need to rest more in the first few months of pregnancy. I asked my daughter-in-law to rest for three months. , Now that the pregnancy is stable, I will let her do things early, so as not to be too tired, these things, anyway, it is better to move around, so that it will be easy to give birth when it is time to give birth."

After Wang Zhaodi finished speaking, she said: "I have given birth to several times. I have experienced all these things about pregnancy. I am a person who has experienced it. And Xiaowan is indeed pregnant for the first time. She is pregnant with a descendant of my Feng family. I It must be a little distracted."

"What you're saying is that those of us mothers-in-law don't just want to make detours for the juniors. We have suffered, and they are lucky. With our care, It will definitely be less bitter."

Then another person said: "Big sister, it's not me who told you that although your experience is good, you should also pay attention to your daughter-in-law's food. If you eat well, your child will develop well, and there is still time when you give birth. It is important to pay attention to which midwife the child goes to find."

"That's right, this woman is ten months pregnant, so she has a lot to pay attention to. After she is born, there will be a lot of problems. This woman is in confinement, and the child's feeding problems will be encountered immediately."

"Old girl, it's good for you to gain some experience, but your child will be born 20 or [-] years ago. After such a long time, some things will develop better than you did at that time. You can't use it. "

"Anything good?"

Wang Zhaodi asked with some puzzlement.

"Look, you still ask this. Look at the clothes the child is wearing, the quilt, and the food he eats. If there is another one that is so cold that it is bitten by mosquitoes, what should we do at this time? After more than 20 years Based on the previous experience, we can only feed it carefully, and if the child really has something good or bad, we can only watch it, there is nothing we can do about it."

"Yes, it's different now. The child is born with a midwife and a woman who takes care of it. They are all very experienced. They will definitely not let the child have anything to do."