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Chapter 37 Never Let Others Bully You
In the living room, Chang Yuan and Pan Xihong sat opposite each other on the sofa, and the tea table was full of Chang Xiaoxiao's diagnosis certificates and various hospital receipts.For a whole afternoon, Chang Yuan had gone through the mental process of Pan Xihong and the elders of Pan's family after they first found out that Xiaoxiao was diagnosed with illness. At this time, his brain went from a blank state to thinking about the future.

"Let's treat it!" Chang Yuan said to his wife, "I will take a vacation with you for a period of time. Let's not do anything else and treat Xiaoxiao's illness. No matter how much it costs, we will treat it to the end. If it takes a lot A lot of money is beyond our current ability, so we will sell this house, in short, as long as my precious daughter can be cured, I am willing to pay any price."

Pan Xihong nodded and wiped away the tears on her face: "I think so too. The doctor said that Xiaoxiao was diagnosed earlier, and the sooner medical intervention is performed on this disease, the more hopeful it will be cured. I think it will definitely be cured. Our families on both sides , how many generations back there is no such disease, I believe it can be cured!"

Chang Yuan also has the same point of view: "I just said, didn't we do all the screenings before the baby was born? After the baby was born, the doctor said that it was very healthy, and we did all the checks that should be done. Where is it? What's wrong?"

Seeing his wife say something, Chang Yuan frowned and finally expressed his thoughts: "The child spends the most time with grandma and grandpa besides following us. Do you think there is something wrong with their way of raising the child, just like you did before?" Those who complain, never communicate with the child, always keep the child alone in the fence, the sensitive period of the child's language is not stimulated, so the development is delayed, is it unhealthy?"

Pan Xihong said: "It has nothing to do with that. I said those things and complained to you because I was in a bad mood and lost my temper with my parents before. You don't have to take it seriously!"

Chang Yuan said: "I didn't take it seriously before, but now I have to take it seriously. How do you ask me to accept that a good child has become like this?"

Pan Xihong endured it for a long time, but finally couldn't help it: "Chang Yuan, you can't think like that. Xiaoxiao can be said to be brought up by my mother and me. Xiaoxiao is different from Shangyan. When Xiaoxiao was born, I Mom is already old, and she worked so hard to take care of our children without expecting anything in return, and now she can’t eat and sleep every day because of laughter, and she can’t sleep at night. The old man was muttering and even blaming himself, we must never say these things in front of them, or even show such emotions."

Chang Yuan said: "Of course I won't say it. I'm just talking to you. Don't dislike it. If my mother had been allowed to stay and watch the child, maybe this would not have happened."

Pan Xihong couldn't bear it any longer: "Chang Yuan, what do you mean by that, what exactly do you want to express?"

Chang Yuan was also in a very bad mood, this time he did not give in to his wife, and said bluntly: "I want to express, my mother just smiles at someone from the next generation, if she stays, she will definitely put all her energy into laughing Smile, will talk to the child every day, will give him

I will read to her and tell stories, I will go downstairs to help her make friends, I will find out the child's problems earlier, and I will give us timely feedback.She is not as busy as your parents, she puts all her mind on other people's children, she does not observe children, maybe everything today will not happen. "

Pan Xihong opened her eyes wide and said, "The doctor said, Xiaoxiao's disease has nothing to do with these things, so don't make random contacts."

Chang Yuan said: "What does that have to do with it? You say our child is born stupid, is it in his genes? Is it your genes, or my genes, or is she someone else's child? How could my Chang Yuan's child be so stupid?" Is it a fool?"

"Chang Yuan, you're out of your mind! You're crazy!" Pan Xihong felt more and more uncomfortable as she heard it, her heart was broken to pieces.

"Am I crazy?" Chang Yuan's mind was in a mess, "You have a bad temper. Let me tell you, all the women in your family except your eldest sister, you, your mother, and your younger sister have bad tempers. These years, many times, I will be made into depression by you!"

"Chang Yuan, you are talking nonsense!"

"You can often drive people crazy, don't you know it?"

"You are such a responsible person, you are so nice, why don't you see that you care more about Xiaoxiao? Why don't you see that the child is abnormal, is it the diagnosis certificate I brought with the child?"

Chang Yuan said loudly: "Because you are a mother!"

Pan Xihong was so angry that she really wanted to rush over to tear this man with her hands, but she thought about it and her daughter was asleep in the crib. She forced back the tears in her eyes, suppressed her temper, and said in a low voice: "Chang Yuan, you are not in a good mood today." Okay, I understand that you don't care about you, but as a university professor, you should think about it, is what you say makes sense? Is it in line with your identity? This kind of ungrateful, irrational, and immature argument is really true. Will it help the child recover? Or is it that if you hold the responsibility now, the child's illness can be cured immediately? Also, if grandma and grandpa get sick because of your words, will your life be better?"

Chang Yuan covered his face with his hands in pain, and after a while, his broken voice came out from between his fingers: "I'm sorry, daughter-in-law, I'm sorry! I'm so uncomfortable, I really didn't think of Xiaoxiao at all, it was too sudden Well, this afternoon, I am not myself anymore. I take back what I just said. The most important thing now is to see a doctor for the child. As long as the child recovers, I can do whatever I want, and that is my life. It’s all right. My poor daughter is still so young, her future life is still so long, she can’t live like that, she should live a hundred times better than us, her future life can’t be like that!”

Pan Xishi heard her husband's grief-stricken cries, and tears rolled down her cheeks.She stood up slowly, walked slowly to Chang Yuan's side, sat down next to him, gently put her arms around his shoulders, and pressed her face against his generous back: "Hubby, everything will be fine, Our daughter will definitely be fine."

Chang Yuan put his arms around his wife: "Honey, don't be afraid! With me here, our family will be fine, and Xiaoxiao will definitely get better. Let's go and treat the child at all costs. I believe that God has Eyes, don't treat us like this, treat a poor child like that."

Shang Yunxuan and Pan Xishi explained their relationship with Pan Xinyi. In fact, she didn't care at all. The only thing she was upset about was that Pan Xinyi would "harass" herself with phone calls and WeChat in the future.Compared with these strangers who are related by blood, she really likes 985 and 211 at home. To be honest, even Shang Yunxuan is much better than them.

Shang Yunxuan roughly understood the relationship between the two sisters from her few words: "You are very strange to your eldest sister, and you also avoid your cousin. In fact, I think there is no need to be like this. Blood Thicker than water, this kind of thing can't be changed."

Pan Xishi asked Shang Yunxuan with a stern face: "Teacher Shang is not only the only child, I am afraid that the relationship between the big family and the parents is very simple, right?"

Shang Yunxuan thought for a while and said: "Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. In the generation of parents, there were several brothers and sisters. After growing up, they each started their own families. The gap between rich and poor is getting different. And the current view of marriage and love is also the same. There are all kinds of things, as well as the development of the next generation of children, and finally the elderly are gone, and the distribution of property is a big thing, how can it be simple."

Pan Xishi said: "Then Teacher Shang has been taking so much trouble for this?"

"That's it!" Shang Yunxuan felt that he had been tricked, this topic was really unfriendly, and he was about to be laughed at by the other party, "My parents will take care of these things, there is no chance for me of."

Pan Xishi said: "So, Mr. Shang's living environment was very simple from childhood to adulthood, and his native family was very happy and harmonious. Perhaps for you from childhood to adulthood, the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, and postgraduate entrance examination are the biggest challenges in life. Even work In addition to being excellent as a stepping stone, the recommendation of acquaintances is also indispensable."

Shang Yunxuan wanted to refute, but found that Pan Xishi was right.

"So society is a river and lake, and families are also rivers and lakes. It's just that in the rivers and lakes of society, many parents can lead the way for their children, and in the rivers and lakes of the original family, parents can even block everything for their children. Therefore, the living environment of my monk teacher is natural. It's so different, I won't believe it if I tell you, in the environment I'm in, my relatives will harm me."

Shang Yunxuan's expression also became serious: "Pan Xishi, I think we can be considered friends now, at least we will be closer than ordinary colleagues. After all, we have funded and sponsored the students in the class together, and raised them together. Two cats. You can't deny that."

Pan Xishi suddenly found it funny: "Okay, I won't deny it!"

"From the first time I saw you in life, I discovered that you actually have some interpersonal communication disorders, and I have said more than once that you are too sensitive, which is actually not good for your health. You should think about things in a positive way, or you should face problems with a positive attitude. Take your cousin as an example, although sometimes you are too familiar, but the essence is not bad, and after all, you are young Human beings are more purposeful and understandable."

"Holy Father, how are you?"

"Holy Father?" Shang Yunxuan didn't understand at first, but then he suddenly smiled, "Are you the Holy Mother?"

"Of course I'm not!" Pan Xishi shook his head, and then told him solemnly, "I'm Snow White's stepmother!"

Shang Yunxuan was stunned for a moment, and immediately burst out laughing!

After Pan Xinyi finished washing in the morning, she saw her uncle and aunt sitting on the sofa together, and called herself to stop one after another.She thumped in her heart, probably because Xiaoxiao's matter had come to an end, could they be blaming her for not discovering and speaking out earlier, or blaming herself for being indifferent to the second cousin's daughter?She walked over anxiously and sat beside Song Jiahui.

Song Jiahui didn't make trouble like Pan Xinyi imagined, but regarded her as a member of the family, and bluntly stated the diagnosis result of Xiaoxiao, and expressed her worries, and started to cry while talking .

"Xinyi, in my heart, you are my little daughter, and Xiaoxiao is your niece. About her affairs, can you look at this child with a professional eye? Actually, you should have asked You, there are ready-made experts at home, you are a graduate student who studies this, I thought about it yesterday, and my heart seems to be a little bit lower."

The guilt in Pan Xinyi's heart became heavier. She really felt that she had failed her uncle and aunt's love, and even more so, their trust.What she said at this moment felt wrong, but the atmosphere was even more embarrassing if she didn't speak.Unexpectedly, the uncle spoke at this time.

"Seeing how busy you are every day, you know how much those children like Xiaoxiao need help."

Song Jiahui also said with tears in her eyes: "Yes, I see you go to work early every day, and come back with stars and moonlight every day. You are busy every day, and you don't have a chance to meet and smile."

Pan Guanlin said empathetically: "It's not easy to think about that when we meet. If someone really said that at the time, none of us would believe it, and we would get angry."

Pan Xinyi felt that her uncle might have guessed her thoughts, but he chose to be infinitely tolerant.She lowered her head and said: "I will do my best to help the children about Xiaoxiao. Don't worry, uncle and aunt. Our school has many experienced experts who have cured many children with autism. And let The second sister and the child live here, and I can continue to help Xiaoxiao do exercises at night."

Song Jiahui took Pan Xinyi's hand and said, "Xinyi, with your words, we feel warm in our hearts, and feel that we have not loved you in vain since we were young. We have been studying this disease for several days recently, and it is also I took the child to several hospitals, we can understand from the doctor, do your best and obey the destiny, you don’t have to put too much pressure on you, in short, you are more professional than us, and you are not afraid of spending money, as long as you can cure the child, you can do anything .If it can’t be cured, it has nothing to do with you.”

Pan Xinyi said: "Auntie, are you treating me as an outsider by saying that? Xiaoxiao is my niece. I will do everything possible to make the child better."

Song Jiahui said: "Good boy, all the hopes of uncle and aunt rest on you! The hopes of your second sister's family also rest on you!"

Pan Guanlin said: "Xinyi, uncle and aunt will definitely not treat you badly, you are our own daughter, we will protect you well, even if your parents are not around, no one will bully you, when you get married, give it to us well You prepare a dowry."

Pan Xinyi said: "Uncle and auntie, don't say such things. You have taken care of me too much for so long. In my heart, you are closer than my parents."

(End of this chapter)