Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "Teenage children are as innocent as a blank slate. They are easy to become emotional and easily mistake emotions for feelings."

"What's wrong?" Father Xue asked, "Did the child make a fuss?"

Xue Zhilan smiled solemnly: "Xiaoyi called me two days ago and said that the two children didn't want to go home for the winter vacation. She said that Ah Huan probably wouldn't be able to go home for the New Year, and I wouldn't be able to go back either. She might not be able to go home this year. I can only live with A Heng and Xiao Han."

"...Why don't you come back?" Xue's father frowned and asked: "It's okay not to come back during the summer vacation, but also during the winter vacation? You don't have to go home for the reunion dinner? During the Chinese New Year, popularity is the most important thing. It's so lively!"

For the older generation, it does not matter whether they have been busy for a year and have no rest. The most important thing is that the whole family must get together to have a lively reunion dinner to truly celebrate the New Year.

Therefore, Xue’s father could not understand his child’s behavior of not going home during the Chinese New Year.

Xue Zhilan sighed softly: "Xiao Yi said that the kid A Yue is preparing for his graduation thesis and said he has no time to go back. Niu Niu doesn't want to go back either, saying she has to go to work and study."

"What?" Father Xue couldn't help but ask: "What to study? Do you have to make up classes during the holidays? What are you studying? Do you have to make up classes after you go to college?"

Xue Zhilan shook his head: "No... I mean I went on a trip to expand my knowledge. It's called 'research'."

Xue's father hesitated for a moment and asked: "If you have time to travel, why can't you take some time to go home to celebrate the New Year? Her mother spends the New Year alone - how lonely!"

"This -" Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "I don't know what young people think. When they are older, they each have their own ideas. Xiaoyi said that the child cannot get close to the couple, has no sense of responsibility for the family, and suddenly feels like a failure , is not a good mother. I feel very sorry for her... She is also very difficult. She is busy with work, and Ah Huan is also busy, and cannot take care of her two children at all. The children have been used to being independent since they were young, and they have become more loving in character as they grow up. She lives alone. She would rather wander outside than go home to spend the New Year with her mother."

Father Xue also felt very uncomfortable and whispered: "Didn't you give me some advice? As a grandpa, you have to talk to them."

"I... don't dare to talk about them." Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "At most, they can be coaxed. Today's young people have bad tempers, are emotional, and will go online at every turn."

Father Xue curled his lips: "If you ask me, it hurts them too much! In the past, parents were busy, from morning to night. The older children took care of the younger ones, and the older brothers and sisters took care of the younger ones. As soon as I became sensible, I started to help with the work. I went to school early in the morning and started doing housework as soon as I got home. My parents said what they wanted to say and scolded them when they wanted to. It was common for them to pick up chicken felts. Children at that time did not have to be pretentious! Parents Whatever you say is what you say! Now the environment is better and we have no worries about food and clothing, but each of the children is more fragile than the last! The adults don’t even dare to say a word and have to coax them!"

Xue Zhilan couldn't laugh or cry: "Brother Wu, I'm so embarrassed! I'm still worried that I can't coax them, and I'm worried about how to coax them to go home for the New Year!"

"Don't worry!" Xue's father stopped and said, "If you love me, I'll give you back. If you don't, I'll throw you away! Your pocket money will be halved, and you won't even be given any! Look at how arrogant they are! They've all been spoiled to the point of being helpless!"

Xue Zhilan shook his head: "No matter what is possible... coaxing them may not work. If we try to show off at this time and show their faces, they might break up with Xiaoyi."

"If this is the case, it means that the young couple did not educate their children well." Xue's father looked solemn and said in a deep voice: "They are no longer little babies, they are adults, but they are so ignorant. At such a young age, It makes your parents feel cold and does not understand their difficulties, but instead secretly resents your parents - you are really ignorant!"

Hearing this, Xue Zhilan sighed quietly. Father Xue frowned and analyzed: "You and your siblings are also doctors. When you were young, you were extremely busy. The family conditions of A Heng and A Huan at that time could not be compared with theirs now. But the two brothers understood very well. I also feel sorry for you, respect and considerate you, and treat you with filial piety."

"...Yes." Xue Zhilan whispered: "It is indeed improperly taught...even his parents can't understand. They want a lot, but they are not willing to pay at all and don't know how to pay. In fact, they have some feelings for Xiaoyi and the others. This complaint surprised me.”

Father Xue raised his eyebrows and asked, "What's the surprise? The child doesn't know how to be grateful. He wants to ask for anything from his parents, but he doesn't understand them!"

If their parents hadn't worked so hard to raise them, where would they have come from?

My parents' work is very busy, both for the health of their patients and to make money to support the family.

Without their parents’ hard work and dedication, how could their happy and prosperous life come about?

"When they were sensible, their family's finances were already quite good. They lived in the most prosperous area of ​​the imperial capital, and went to the best elementary and middle schools in the imperial capital. How could food, drink, clothing, etc. be so bad? Why didn't they think about it? Where did all this come from? It couldn’t have fallen from the sky, right?”

Xue Zhilan sighed: "The boss has been doing better in recent years... He also studied medicine and is usually very busy. Seeing that the tutors around him are often too busy to go home, he can more or less understand. Niu Niu can't... She has a more arrogant temper and is more self-centered, and she can do whatever she wants. She feels that her parents are not good enough to her, so she is angry and does not get close to them."

"I would rather travel than go home to celebrate the New Year!" Father Xue scolded: "My father is too busy to go home, and she won't come back to spend time with her mother! She is not considerate of her elders!"

Xue Zhilan couldn't help but nod: "It's true...inconsiderate and ignorant."

"Communicate more with her." Xue's father suggested: "Check with her often, chat more, and take the opportunity to teach her."

Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "She doesn't like to video chat with me very much. I at most - at most send voice messages."

"Then send it!" Xue's father urged: "Send her a few more messages a day!"

Xue Zhilan was a little embarrassed and whispered: "Don't post too much, otherwise she will find me annoying."

Xue's father became embarrassed when he heard this and asked: "Then - what should we do? Why don't you send her some photos from the past! You have to let them recall the good times of the New Year before they want to go home for the New Year."

"What photo?" Xue Zhilan asked quickly.

Xue's father explained: "There are photos of her parents taking them to Xinyuan for New Year's Eve dinner! Last time I saw Lingling and Ayuan watching. Everyone had the reunion dinner together and went out after eating. Watching fireworks. By the way! Last time I saw a photo of Ah Huan holding Niu Niu. She looked about four or five years old, holding a small firework stick in her hand, and she was smiling happily. Ah Yuan said it was taken by Ran Ran. Yes, they all exist - that - anyway, they are stored in the disk on the Internet! As long as you have that account, you can go there and look. I heard it is very convenient! Just click on it and it will be like that!"

"Oh!" Xue Zhilan said excitedly: "This is a good idea! I - I will find Ranran quickly."

"Go, go!" (End of Chapter)