I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

On the barrage

"Kong Lao Er, hahahahaha."

"Brother: You scolded Confucius, but you can't scold me (sunglasses)."

"Hahahaha, brother is so funny."

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Really, many people treat outsiders better. For example, if you are her best friend or her brother, you can buy her a gift during the New Year or other festivals.
If something happened at your brother's or your best friend's house, you would go over to help.

If you borrow money, you have to pay it back all at once.

But you don’t know how to buy your lover a gift during festivals.

The same goes for birthdays. When your best friend’s birthday comes, you might book a private room for her, but you wouldn’t do that for your husband.

For this reason, being very kind to others means being better to those outside.

Even if your boss scolds you, just bear with it and listen.

Colleagues make things difficult for each other, and I am always the punching bag outside.

For example, if the customers and colleagues outside flatter you, and you start crying, you can only do this.

But when you get home, husband or wife, and even children, if you dare to step on my sore spot, I will not let you go today.

Then I'm going to argue with you about right and wrong and let you see how powerful I am.

I can't do anything to the customers, so why can't I do anything to you?

Get up now and kneel on the washboard.

That's how it is. You are obviously right outside, but your boss tells you that he is new here, so you should give some of your business to Xiao Zhang.
In fact, it is to give others the benefits that you deserve, and you can only say yes, yes, okay, okay, no problem, boss.

You only dare to do this.

But when I got home, I told you I don’t eat chili peppers. How dare you add chili peppers today?

Snapped!
The bowl is lifted.

No more!
I turned around and looked at the corner again. Ah! I told you to throw away the trash can this morning, why didn't you do it yet?

Anyway, I just don't like anything I see.

In the end, there will even be a fight.

The whole family was trembling with fear.

When I went to the company the next day, the boss was standing at the door and asked why the door was so dirty. He asked me to sweep it with a broom. I only dared to sweep it with a broom.

So many people are just bullies at home,
In fact, there is no need for that. Instead, we should be more tolerant towards people close to us.

On the contrary, I must defend the interests that I deserve in the outside world in a timely manner.

Many people do it the wrong way, and in the end they don’t do their job well and their lives are ruined.

I don’t understand what life is like.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Be a punching bag outside, and turn into a bomb when you get home, hahahahaha."

"It is commonly known as a dog's head."

"It's true. The closer they are to me, the worse my temper becomes. I take all my bad temper out on my family (crying)."

"I am just not nice to my husband, but I feel that's how I should treat him, otherwise he will take advantage of me (laughing and crying)."

"Those with vested interests won't feel they should change, they'll just make excuses for themselves (grin)."

"That's right, it's obvious that you are taking advantage of me."

"Okay, okay, I was wrong. I will change from today."

Change, change, change!
. . . . . .

Woman: "It's obviously your own problem. If you're anxious, just go to bed early, or watch a movie to relax.

Even if you ask your family for help, for example, asking your husband to hug you and comfort you, I think this can be understood.

But you go up to others and belittle them, and take pleasure in hurting others to replenish your own energy. Aren't you just that kind of demon?

The family is full of joy, the children do their homework and the dad wraps the books. It is such a happy scene. But it is not the case here.

You went up to me and said a few words to me and irritated the other person. Now you come to me again to complain about your grievances.

I am convinced too. "

Woman: "In that case, I should stay away from them."

Raymond Lam: "If you talk like this, then you are even more shameless, just like you laughed just now, I don't know why you laughed,
Of course I don't make malicious assumptions about you, but one thing is that there is nothing we can do about people like you.

In fact, everyone comes here to solve the problem. You just need to correct this bad habit and speak nicely next time.

If you don't, I'll tell you to stay away from them.

It’s just like many couples’ quarrels. In the end, they realize their own problems and that they are not right.

Then you should just apologize, no, you insist on saying let's break up.

I'm really convinced.

I just said so much, when did I tell you to stay away from them?

Like when did they tell you to stay away from them?

It is obviously you who is hurting others, but in the last step it seems like others are doing something wrong.

Oh, brother, you are right. I hurt them. So I'd better stay away from them.

Are you fucking bullying the strong?

You know the problem, why don't you change it?

You clearly know that you are disrespectful to those close to you and you are not polite to those close to you. You clearly know that you are harsh to those close to you. Why don't you change it when you know it is a problem?

It's just a small thing, you just need to change it, but you insist on saying that I should stay away from them.

how,

You can change others, but you can’t change yourself? "

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Big brother is absolutely right about bullying the weak."

"I'm the opposite. If someone outside denies me, I'll fight back. It doesn't matter. My family gives me enough emotional value. It's not a big deal. The sky won't fall. It's not a matter of life or death. So I give my best to my family."

admire!

"Ah! I am a bad person. I realize it and I want to change, but sometimes I blurt out words subconsciously and feel so painful (crying)."

“Change is not that simple. Decades of thinking patterns and muscle memory are not as easy to change as you think. New thinking requires deliberate practice, just like a road that has not been walked before. Only by walking repeatedly will the mark appear.

When you know there is such a path, you only need to take it when you remember it, and things will change slowly.”

So well said!

"In fact, once you realize this situation, you will change within three years. This situation is most likely caused by the environment around you since childhood. But if you realize this situation, it means that the environment around you has changed, and you will change too. Test it yourself!"

"Thank you. I will work harder and strive for changes that are faster than three years."

Come on!

. . . . . .

Woman: "Sorry bro, that's not what I meant."

Lin Feng: "Look, I can't talk to you nicely, you just listen after I scold you a few times, and then you say sorry to me again.

Tell me the truth, what do I have to do with you?

Your dear daughter is doing her homework obediently, but your dear husband is putting it in the book cover. He asked you to do it, but you belittled him.

The closer you are to me, no, I just don’t take you seriously and I just want to fuck you.

But because I am an outsider and my relationship with you is not very close, you are afraid of offending me. So, I scolded you a few words, but you apologized to me instead and showed me more respect.

Are you cheap?

In the final analysis, this is what Confucius meant by a bitch. "

Woman: "Yes, yes, brother, I think you are right."

Lin Feng held his forehead and sighed: "Oh my god, you see, I scolded her and she said yes, yes, yes, she listened to it.

To be honest, sometimes I really don’t want to curse at people.

There is no way. I talk to her nicely but she insists on being stubborn with me. Then I scold her and she agrees, yes, yes, yes, and the problem is gone.

Hey!
How can you be such a person, sister-in-law? "

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Yeah, yeah, hahahahaha."

"I won't listen to your advice, I just want to scold you (laughing and crying)."

"Hey, just playing (covering face)."

"Isn't that cheap? (grin)."

"Yes, yes, yes (dog head)."

puff~
Hahahaha. (End of this chapter)