I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

All right,

I don't want to talk about this shit anymore.

hurry up,
Next person.

Ding~
"Hey bro."

It's a boy.

Raymond Lam: “Yes, yes.”

Man: "Brother, I have a marriage problem that bothers me, so I want to consult you."

Lin Feng: “Tell me about it.”

Man: "It's like this, my wife and I have agreed to get divorced on the 18th, and my wife is beside me now."

Number 18?
Lin Feng laughed out of anger at the time: "His mother is getting divorced next week, and now the couple comes to me, thinking I'm the divorce mediator?"

The man smiled innocently and said, "I have a few problems and I want to ask big brother for his advice."

Lin Feng shook his head: "Go ahead and tell me."

Man: "Then let me introduce some of our personal situations to you, first of all, my parents do business in Shanghai, and I work for that boyfriend."

what?
Lin Feng was confused: "Fuck boyfriend?"

Man: "Yes, yes, that's the boyfriend wearing the hat."

Wear a hat . . .

Not bro,

What's your occupation?
The more Lin Feng listened, the more confused he became.

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Fuck my boyfriend, hahahahaha."

“It’s quite abstract (laughing and crying).”

"I don't understand, is it Master? (Scratching his head)"

"Wearing a hat... Oh my god, it's a blue friend (covering face)."

. . . . . .

Seeing someone mention Blue Friend in the comments, Raymond Lam smiled bitterly and said, "Dude, are you a firefighter?"

Man: "Yes, yes, I'm a firefighter."

Lin Feng laughed to death: "Dude, your accent is amazing, I thought it was a new profession, like one-day boyfriend."

what?
The man kept saying, "No, no, I'm not that. I'm afraid I can't talk about firefighting in the live broadcast room, so..."

Lin Feng smiled and waved his hand: "It's okay, just continue talking."

Man: "My wife is from Guangdong and she comes from a divorced family. We met five years ago.

After knowing each other for a year, we started dating.

After some discussion, she quit her job in her hometown, came to work in Shanghai, and then lived in my house.

The relationship was actually quite stable during that period. We had a good relationship and never had any arguments.

It wasn't until last year when we got pregnant unexpectedly that we started to have some conflicts when we started talking about marriage.
I'll let my wife explain this contradiction to you."

Lin Feng nodded.

Soon a female voice came from the other side.

"Hello, brother."

Lin Feng: "Hello, sister-in-law, please speak."

Woman: "We have two main problems. The first is that I didn't get pregnant before marriage, so we started talking about marriage.

I told him I wanted 20 yuan as a betrothal gift, but in fact I only asked him for 10 yuan.
His parents also gave me 5 yuan to buy hardware for me."

Lin Feng: "Did they give you 50,000 yuan to buy hardware, or were the 50,000 yuan and the hardware separate?"

Woman: "It's separate."

Raymond Lam: "That adds up to about 20."

Woman: “Ah, do you understand that?”

Lin Feng smiled: "What else? They gave you 5 first, and then 10, which is equivalent to giving you 15 in cash, and they also bought you hardware. I am not wrong, it is almost 20."

Woman: "Well, you can say that. But there is a problem here, because both his parents are in business.

Their family said they still owed 200 million yuan in loans.
Then he told me that the betrothal gift was paid with a loan from the bank by his parents.
My husband said that we have so much money now, which is not very useful, so we can give some of it to his parents.
If we need money later, we can ask his parents.

He said his parents would not take our money and could give me the interest.

He thought that instead of paying the interest to the bank, it would be better for his parents to pay me the principal and interest on a monthly basis.

If I say I don't believe him anymore, he can also write me an IOU from his parents.

His parents also felt that if I were a sensible girl, I would have thought of this.

But my attitude has always been to refuse.

Because I felt that I could not compromise on the betrothal gift, especially since I was pregnant before marriage. So we had a big fight that night, and I refused to compromise.
In the end, they transferred all the money to me at once, and that was our first conflict.”

The woman finished.

The barrage collapsed.

"Get something for nothing (vomit)."

"Eating and taking things, this family is absolutely amazing."

"The whole family is so calculating (awesome)."

"Take it out and take it back, what the hell is this? (grin)"

"It's obvious that he's a marriage fraud, and yet you're still not running away, sister."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard: "Hey, hey, hey, stop talking nonsense, you can't live a good life if you get something for nothing, right?

Sister-in-law, listen to me, first of all you have to look at this matter separately.

First, although his parents are in debt, and they are in debt of 200 million, they did not cheat you.

He told you this before we got married and was very honest with you.

So there is no problem of marriage fraud here.

The second thing is that you are a little confused.

You have to know that marriage is not a one-man show, nor does it mean that the woman's family has the final say.

After all, marriage is a two-way thing, and I also have to consider the reality of my family, so there is a process of pre-marital discussion.

For example, if his family is indeed in debt, and the betrothal gift is indeed funded by a loan, then it may be temporary and they want to use the betrothal gift to make ends meet.

This is just someone's idea.

You can disagree.

In the end, they called you.

So this is not a contradiction or a problem. It is just a discussion before marriage and is very normal.

Do you understand what I mean?
We are just talking about a process of expression, and the final result is given to you.

But if someone has his own ideas, he will mention them, which is actually very reasonable.

Just like the previous online argument between two people, it was actually about the gift before marriage. The boy thought it should be less, and the girl felt she couldn't give in.
It sounds like a huge contradiction.
There are a bunch of people fanning the flames in the comment section.

But in fact, this is just a negotiation process, and it cannot be considered a quarrel or a conflict at all.

The final result is that he has given it to you, so that’s OK.

You can't tell others that they can't have any ideas.

That’s a bit too childish.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Big Brother, Justice Bao."

"Really, it suddenly dawned on me."

"Everything can be discussed. Everyone has their own difficulties and ideas. It's just a process of discussion."

"Just listen to Big Brother and ignore the comments section."

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "It's like you think, I want 20 just to see if the other party is willing to give it, to see the other party's attitude.

But this stuff is mutual.

People may also want to see you. We tell you that our family is already in debt, but we are still willing to meet your requirements as much as possible, but can you also give an appropriate attitude?
Do you want to use the bride price to see whether the other party's family is willing to spend money on you?
The other party may also want to see if you can share the difficulties with them if they encounter difficulties in life in the future.
Can you understand that when you are testing others, others are also observing you?

So if you only talk about your own feelings when something happens and ignore the fact that you have already obtained the final benefit, then to be honest, you are quite selfish. "

The woman was silent for a while and then said, "I think I can understand a little bit."

Raymond Lam: "Many older sisters-in-law often come to my room to complain about how difficult it was to get a dowry when they married their husbands.
To be honest, is it easy to ask anyone for money in this world?

Is it easy for you to ask your best friend for money?

My bestie didn't hesitate at all and said, "I'll give it to you just because you ask, right?"
To put it bluntly, it is not easy to ask your parents for money. The old couple will even ask you why you want money.

When you talk about doing business, your parents will ask you clearly what business you are doing, whether you are sure of it, and what to do if you lose money?
In the end, they may even belittle you for having no business acumen and being unable to accomplish anything.

Can you understand?
I often say that reality is not Tik Tok, it’s not that everyone has millions or tens of millions of dollars per person, and it’s not that everyone comes from a wealthy family.

In reality, everyone lives a hard life.

I'll discuss it with you, and you can refuse, which is normal.

What other attitude do you want?
In the end, people give you the money, and that's the attitude.

To be honest, when I was a kid, I asked my dad for 20 cents to buy popsicles, and he would scold me before giving it to me.
Then I won’t look at the result. I’ll just munch on a popsicle and whisper that my dad doesn’t love me.

That's nonsense." (End of this chapter)