Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 12 Sexy fashion, it is a sin for a woman not to dress up (1)
Women who are naturally beautiful, although in many cases, they are envious of the images of some fashion magazines or other avant-garde women, hoping to be as sexy and charming as them, but there are many factors that restrict them.And some women don't seem to care much about these, and live a more real life.They dare to think and do, boldly but maintain a certain bottom line to dress themselves up, and appear in front of others with a sexy and fashionable image.Because they know that if they want to live, they must live wonderfully, and they know that their beauty is sometimes an intangible capital.

Be an Ever-changing "Bone Essence"

Women who are a bit "bad" are glamorous.The image changes a lot, because they know that no matter how beautiful a woman is, if she always appears in the same image for many years, it will make others feel aesthetically tired.

In life, women will always protest that men's hearts are fickle and easy to empathize with others.But have you ever thought about it, if a man faces an unchanging woman for a long time, no matter how beautiful he is, he will become dull, just like eating abalone every day, even the best food will be unappetizing after a long time.

There is a girl, although she is not very beautiful, but she is slender, she knows how to dress well, she always catches people's eyes, and she has an attractive temperament.She fell in love with a handsome man and followed him like a shadow, because that man didn't like her very much.Therefore, she often sheds tears for this.After a long time, the man was moved by her temperament and true feelings, and soon he proposed to the girl, and the two walked into the palace of marriage.

After getting married, the girl is still the same as before, she likes to dress herself up, her hairstyle and dress are always changing, which can always give people a sense of freshness.Constant changes, men's surprises are constant.Friends often say to men: "You really have vision, you married a beautiful woman who can change 72 times." Men are also proud of marrying such a woman.

However, soon, maybe it was because of busy work, maybe it was because the ordinary life obliterated the previous passion, maybe...she began to be lazy, careless, and no longer pay attention to her own image.For several months, I always wear a ponytail, and I often don’t change my clothes until they get dirty and need to be washed.Soon after, she lost her job because she was pregnant and gave birth to a child. Her clothes were disheveled and her hair was disheveled all day long.For the convenience of breastfeeding, she doesn't even wear a bra, and she doesn't shy away from being in front of people. She lifts up her clothes and feeds her baby without any embarrassment on her face.

She never wears silk stockings and high heels because she finds it bothersome, and always wears a pair of old leather shoes that are worn white.Compared with her changes, her husband is getting more and more handsome, and he is a small leader in the company.I don't know how many beautiful girls are around me.

In such a comparison, they seem even more out of proportion.Even the eldest sisters around were sweating for this woman and wanted to remind her to pay attention to her appearance, but she didn't take it seriously, she was still sloppy, as if she could let herself dress freely after getting married and having children.

Her husband was unhappy, he no longer regarded her as a lovely wife.But it's just a son's mother, just give birth to him and raise children for him.

Since there is no beautiful and lovely wife waiting for him at home, will he be in a hurry to go home?Instead of going home and looking at all the mess in the trough, I might as well wander around outside and find something to do.After a few years like this, at the beginning, the woman didn't notice that her husband came home every night, but no matter how late a woman is, she always has a sensitive nerve, and she finally discovered the difference in her husband.

When she learned that her husband had a third party outside.She couldn't figure out why this was happening?What did I do wrong to make my husband farther and farther away from me.After hearing his explanation from her husband, she still couldn't understand, is clothing so important?

Although she begged her husband repeatedly, it was irreparable.

No matter how beautiful a woman is, if she doesn't try her best to dress herself up, she will often appear in front of others with the same image. When others are accustomed to the same hair style and the same dress, they will not be able to see beauty.Therefore, in order to have a fresh image in the eyes of the public, it is necessary to be an ever-changing "Bone Demon".And the woman who is a bit "bad" is the ever-changing "Bone Demon".

A bit "bad" women have ever-changing hairstyles. One day they have shoulder-length hair, the next day they put their hair up, and the day after tomorrow they braid two braids innocently, always exuding a charming charm inadvertently.

A bit "bad" woman will always put some thought into her dressing, so that men will always see a different version of themselves, always full of freshness.

A bit "bad" woman not only has a changeable image, never wears the same clothes repeatedly for N days, but also has a unique vision, and can always choose the most suitable clothes to set off her temperament to the fullest.

In the ever-changing modern society, many women are complaining, complaining about the fickleness of men, and their love revolves around beautiful girls; Freshness...--
An ever-changing, slightly "bad" woman has no chance to become a bitter woman. The trouble for a "bad" woman is that when there are many men vying to be the hero of her love, which one should she choose?
"Vase" is also a kind of competitiveness
For the "vase", many people appreciate it with a disdainful look. "Vase woman" has not been a good woman in people's eyes since ancient times, but an unrespectable bad woman with a beautiful appearance.

However, in modern life, women are easy to handle.It is an indisputable fact that beautiful women do things better.So there is nothing wrong with saying "vase", "vase" is very beautiful, who would hate a beautiful woman?
Aristotle once said that beauty is more recommended than a letter of introduction, and it is easier to be accepted by people.This is indeed the case, the privileges of beauties that can only be seen in movies, in fact, also exist in real life.

Statistics show that women with good looks are more likely to succeed in society.It can be said that outstanding beauty is also a kind of competitiveness.

Lay majored in secretarial work in college. After graduation, he applied for a job as a secretary in a well-known company. After a preliminary test, an interview, and a retest.She and another girl named Xiao Lin stood in front of the boss.Compared with Lay, Kobayashi is tall and has a delicate face.Standing with Xiao Lin, Lay felt like an "ugly duckling", and finally the boss left Xiao Lin.

This made Lay feel very unbalanced, because she scored 8 points higher than Xiaolin in the written test.And the brand of the school she graduated from is tougher than her.Now it seems that what is the use of these?A pretty face instantly adds up to 20 extra points.

Lay suddenly understood that it is no wonder that many ordinary-looking girls are undergoing cosmetic surgery. The current competition is so fierce and employers have such high requirements. Natural facial disparities often lead to real inequality.

You may think that secretarial is a special position that pays more attention to appearance, interview is no different from "beauty pageant", of course, beautiful girls will be hired.Let's take a look at the personal experience of the following woman:

I was competing for a textile job, a typical labor job, which has nothing to do with beauty pageants, and I have actually experienced it. 20 years ago, I was a "national registered permanent residence". After graduating from high school, it was easy to find a job. It happened that the textile factory was recruiting workers. I applied for the job, but I didn't have any hope, because I had gallstones when I was studying. up.But it needs to be explained that I look like Liu Xiaoqing.On the day of the interview, as soon as I walked in, a person (who turned out to be the head of the labor and management department) laughed loudly: "Liu Xiaoqing!"

As soon as he said it, several other interviewees present immediately echoed, and talked about "Listen to the Government" in a nonsensical manner, and waited until they had laughed enough before thinking about the business, and just walked around-come to work next Monday .So smooth!I can't even believe it.

In the future work, my "pictographic" face will provide a lot of convenience for asking for leave and getting promoted. Even going out, I don't have to be looked at by the guards like other female workers!

Judging people by their appearance has long been considered a very shameless behavior.However, no matter in business activities or in daily life, the other party must judge from your appearance - your character, your strength, your taste, your quality, and even your company.Have you ever discounted someone because of a small detail?Have you ever met a person.Impressed by his professionalism when we first met?This is the power of image.

Li Wenjuan is a department manager of an advertising company. She always wears monotonous business attire and has long hair when commuting to and from get off work every day. When negotiating, she always feels lack of confidence.

Later, a chance.At the suggestion of a friend who is an image designer, she cut off her long hair and put on a solemn and energetic high-end suit.This makes her look elegant, capable and full of energy. When negotiating, she can also confidently maintain her position and stick to the bottom line with ease.

Li Wenjuan, who realized the importance of external image, began to "package" herself.She asked someone to tailor a set of "female elite" outfits for herself.Not only that, but even the speech and behavior have been carefully arranged.For example, how to get out of the car, how to shake hands with people, how to enter the venue, as well as the way of greeting and tone of voice in various celebrations, etc., must be strictly followed.Of course, she has also benefited a lot from it and has been recognized by people in the circle.

Later, relying on the accumulated contacts, she resigned and started her own company, becoming a veritable "strong woman".

Beautiful women are easy to do things, some people attribute it to the fact that men are lustful, but they are wrong.Children are also easy to handle, why?Everyone has the psychology of caring for beauty, yearning for beauty, and pursuing beauty.This kind of psychology will make people subconsciously add some good qualities to people with good looks, such as intelligence, kindness, honesty, wit and so on.This kind of psychology also guides everyone to actively love beauty and pretend to be aesthetically beautiful. No matter whether you are tall, short, fat or thin, as long as you pay attention, you will always dress up to show your individual beauty.

Many women complain that their parents failed to give themselves a beautiful appearance. In fact, there are not many natural beauties. More women are ordinary and even have some defects. But as long as you use external modifications, you can also Be a beauty like a "bad" woman.For example, you can try a variety of hairstyles that suit your face shape, you can also use makeup to make your facial features more refined, and you can wear high heels to make up for your short stature.

A woman's external image depends on her appearance three percent and her dress seven percent.Take a little time to learn how to dress up yourself, you can also become a beauty, and use your appearance to conquer others.

William Sowerby, who served as an etiquette consultant to three US presidents, said: "When you learn how to pack yourself, it will give you an advantage. It is a skill, and it is a skill that you can learn." Regardless of No matter your talent, no matter what your age, you should dress up like a beauty, which can make others think you are a beauty.

Of course, not all women are born beautiful, just like the saying "there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women", a vase without good grooming is not beautiful.If women are compared to flowers, "bad" women would rather be vases, because the beauty of vases is more tenacious and longer-lasting than flowers.Even after the wind and rain and years of washing, the beauty of the vase is still worth remembering.

In today's fierce competition, who can deny that "vase" is a kind of competitiveness?
fashion is a state of mind

In modern cities, paying attention to fashion means paying attention to one's own life. If a woman doesn't care about this, then maybe her clothes will become the laughing stock of others.There is another advantage of paying attention to fashion: fashion is a state of mind, a fashionable girl will always have a young heart, and her face will always glow with youthful brilliance.

Everyone is chasing fashion, but what exactly is fashion?In fact, there is no absolute fashion, the real fashion should be to show your own personality.Fashion is the most changeable. Not everyone can catch up with it. Even if they follow closely, they often only catch a period of "fashion" tail.Establish and maintain a unique style, and properly integrate fashion elements into your own style, maybe you can stand on the forefront of fashion.

Sisi is a very eye-catching scenery in the school, she is always the focus of everyone's attention wherever she goes.The reason why everyone pays attention to her is not how beautiful she is, but because her clothes are always so reasonable and changeable.

In terms of dressing, most women like to follow fashion and trends, and what styles are popular on the street.Just wear whatever style you want, regardless of your body shape and skin color, and the result is often a mere imitation.Sisi is different. Her clothes are neither the most popular nor expensive, but they are always so pleasing to the eye and refreshing.

Winter has just arrived.Many girls put on all kinds of overcoats and thick down jackets as if they were in fashion, and some even wore elegant and luxurious colored mink, but judging from the fact that some of them still only wore silk stockings on their legs, the weather was actually not very good. cold.Sisi didn't dress so exaggeratedly, she only wore a light blue wind watch and a pair of boots that reached below the knee, which was in line with the weather and color tone of this season.Due to the exquisite workmanship and careful selection of materials, the blue windbreaker has no wrinkles at all, and there is no decoration except for a long coiled belt, which looks simple and elegant.The light blue tone of the hem does not feel cold, but adds a bit of warmth.The black boots exposed from the hem of the wind watch are not dazzling patent leather, but ordinary sheepskin boots. Even the style looks very ordinary, without any ostentatious taste.A gust of wind blew, and the windbreaker was blown, quietly revealing the tassels on the upper part of the boots, adding a bit of agility and elegance.

When she first appeared on campus.The blue wind watch and black boots made her stand out from the long or short coats and skirts around her, striking everyone's eyes very strikingly.Sisi is recognized by the university as a girl who knows how to dress. Just like many girls with style and taste, Sisi always carefully chooses the best quality and most suitable clothes.Of course, these clothes don't have to be expensive.But it must be the most suitable for each.

Faced with a dazzling array of beautiful clothes, girls often find it difficult to control their impulsive emotions, and the result is that there are a lot of clothes in the closet that are often unsuitable.

Fashion is difficult to grasp. A girl can be said to be handsome and beautiful, and she can wear famous brands, but if the style is very inconsistent, she may think she is very fashionable, but the actual feeling is just the opposite.

The most taboo thing for women is that they cannot perfectly unify themselves with fashion, so what women have to do is to be sensitive to fashion and have a clear understanding of themselves.Only when the proportion is proper, will it be the most eye-catching touch of red among the green bushes.

Today is an era of materialization.Fashion has penetrated into all areas of people's food, clothing, housing and transportation.Commodities, big and small, do their best in packaging and publicity, making themselves exquisite and cute, and arousing people's desire to buy and follow, which may not be strong in the first place. "Bad" women can not follow the trend, but they will never turn a blind eye.

Some women once said: "I never cared about fashion, it was all props for boring rich ladies to pass the time."

It is true that women with money and leisure are the most qualified to follow fashion and play with trends.But fashion is actually social.Public, ageless, not necessarily money-oriented.Money can equip a stylish shell, but it can't buy a sense of fashion.No money can not show elegance, but personalized dress comes from taste, you can also be full of spirit and full of modern atmosphere.

A famous fashion show host once said: "Although the fashion of a certain season may not be suitable for each of us, it must be the most beautiful." Earlier is best.But you don't know where "slightly ahead" is, so you have to pay attention to fashion.For "bad" women, fashion is not difficult, and often lies in some details.For example, they will add a bone waist chain to the dress, or a more creative bead, key and doll waist chain.Or use a long hard cloth belt to tie a beautiful knot around the waist, allowing it to slide down to the hips, and the original simple clothes immediately add a little inexplicable taste.

Fashion also needs a little thought, sometimes cute little sentiment.A bit "bad" women don't succumb to the pressure of famous brands, they only have to be true to their own feelings, understand trends for reference only, and have a free and easy attitude towards fashion.

Not revealing, not revealing, not charming
Nowadays, the clothes that women cover are decreasing year by year like the vegetation on the earth. Convex and concave, with infinite scenery, it is easy to capture people's attention.So much so that people ignore other things on the road, such as Mercedes-Benz cars, erected poles, and some people whose eyes are not listening.TV commercials, for example, often have shots of men staring at slightly naked women bumping into utility poles one by one.

Nowadays, many women have removed the piece of fabric that wraps their waists, and it is their waists that have been liberated.At the same time, camisoles and miniskirts are as popular as crop tops.In short, women's clothes are getting shorter and smaller under the attack of the summer heat wave.

(End of this chapter)