Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 13 Sexy fashion, it is a sin for a woman not to dress up (2)
Some people joked about this, the so-called fashion trend is the same as the news "shorter, shorter, and shorter." But Lumei should not be shy: wearing a swimsuit in the swimming pool is justified, but if you wear a swimsuit to ostentatiously, the situation may be worse than that of a suit and ties. Strolling by the pool is even more embarrassing.In fact, it is especially necessary to pay attention to age and body type.Middle-aged and elderly ladies and those who are too fat or too thin should not follow the trend blindly.It is better to hide your clumsiness than to show beauty instead of cowardice.

The most important and most difficult thing to grasp is the degree of exposure. When exposure became a fashion, the biggest mistake many women made was not grasping the degree, which often led to excessive exposure. Experts believe that excessive exposure is not beauty, but beauty. a danger.Psychological experts in the United States have analyzed numerous rape cases. The motivation of many perpetrators is that they saw the victim's overly revealing clothes, which triggered their impulse to do wrong things.

So how much exposure is just right?This degree is not determined by others, but by your physical condition.The figure of the Chinese people is already inferior to that of Europe and the United States, so it is even more important to make use of their strengths and avoid weaknesses.For those with legs that are too short, too thick, too thin, or even bow-legged, it is best not to wear shorts or skirts.Also, if the shoulders are too wide, too thick, or the skin on the back is bad, it is best not to wear backless clothes.Low-cut clothing is a key criterion for judging how much is exposed, but if you don't have a toned chest, it's better not to show it.Women with flat chests insist on opening the neckline very low, but the result is that it cannot be lowered any lower than the top, which affects the beauty instead.

In fact, in a sense, Lu also reflects the change of people's ideas.In the summers of the past few years, if someone wore a collarless and sleeveless T-shirt, not to mention the peeping of passers-by, even he would feel a little guilty.But in recent years, the trend of exposure has become more and more fierce. Walking on the street seems to be watching a fashion show. Hip-length miniskirts, tight mini-shorts, very thin low-cut camisoles, collarless and sleeveless tight vests, with the body's Twisting, the belly button is still looming.The important thing is that there is no longer shyness in their expressions, but a calm demeanor.

I am afraid that what women are most concerned about is "how to show off" in order to reflect a woman's taste and self-cultivation. "Bad" women teach you a few "show" tricks, and use a small vest to "show" your style.

In fashion, the vest is a kind of clothing that can express rebellion, uniqueness, well-behaved and elegance.The first and most important step is to choose a vest that fits you according to your body type.

1.Flat top
Girls with flat chests generally have thinner shoulders and are full of "skinny beauty". The popular shoulder-cut vest is very suitable for you.The suspenders are located close to the neck, the neckline is very high, and there are small folds, which highlight the curve of the shoulders and give the chest a certain sense of fullness. If the skin is tanned, it will be more healthy and energetic .

2.Full bust
A dark V-neck vest or a loose-fitting vest with a pattern will suit you, because it can properly shrink your body shape and divert other people's attention.

3.Shaved shoulder
For women with slender figure and sloping shoulders, wearing a thin camisole can visually give people the illusion of widening shoulders and at the same time appear more energetic.

4. Shoulder width
Although shoulder width is a good frame for dressing, the tough lines of the inverted triangle inevitably lack femininity.You can change this visual effect if you choose a vest with a high collar, wide shoulder straps, and a vest that wraps slightly where the arms meet the shoulders.

5.thick waist
A waist that is too thick is really troublesome.You may wish to try an A-shaped vest with a wide hem or a design with a high waist and a shoulder line, which can divert the line of sight a little.

Secondly, you should pay attention to the relationship between vest and personality style:

1.For a romantic touch, create a homemade Hawaiian-inspired scarf or tank top.Choose a large square scarf with bright patterns, fold it in half into a triangle, pull the two upper corners to the back of the neck and tie a small knot, and the left and right corners to tie at the back, and it is a chic neck tie vest.

2.If you want to create a cute style, it is best to choose a small floral or dot pattern, and a small vest with pleats or ruffles on the neck and shoulders will make you more sweet and lovely.

3.To express the natural style, the knitted vest is the first choice to give people a healthy impression, and it looks refreshing and comfortable with loose trousers.

In modern society, a woman's clothes are exposed does not mean that a woman's taste is not high or self-satisfied.If you are attending a reception or dance, wearing a conservative professional suit will definitely surprise people. This kind of occasion should not be conservative but elegant.Sometimes, it is a charming style to show a little bit properly and reveal a little bit.It is intoxicating and charming.It is provocative and sexy, and it is beautiful temptation.

Show your difference, even in the office
Women like beauty and fashion for granted.Even if you don't pursue it deliberately, fashion will affect you.It can be said that it is a kind of beauty to be popular in modern society, but this kind of beauty cannot receive satisfactory results in all occasions, and it does not mean that you can also dress yourself as you like in the office.First of all, your dress is for others to see. If it is too fashionable and unacceptable, it will obviously affect the work of your colleagues.

If a woman regards the office as her own showroom, and she dresses beautifully at work with half-exposed breasts, in addition to attracting the imagination of other male colleagues, the boss will also doubt whether such a woman has the corresponding ability to work, and will naturally Question whether there is a problem with his character, whether he can complete the task?
Linda is a fashion design graduate, beautiful and tall, she is almost born for the catwalk.Fashion is her pursuit.But luckily, after graduation, she did not enter the fashion design industry as she wished, but came to an advertising company to be in charge of copywriting planning.

The boring work did not stop her desire for fashion, Chanel's latest casual wear, Chloe's white dress... as long as it is popular, she can almost find it on her.The wealth of her parents allowed her to keep enriching her wardrobe, and the office seemed to be Linda’s catwalk. Today she wears a backless low-cut suspenders, and the day after tomorrow she wears T-shaped bottoms with low-waisted pants. The newly launched pleated skirt...every time she looks, she can arouse the envy of her female colleagues.Linda also enjoys this feeling of being envied by others. Gradually, she is not satisfied with ordinary clothes, and gradually tries to choose some more personalized clothes and accessories to dress herself up.

last season.Sequined clothes are popular in Europe, so you will see Linda sitting behind the computer with a golden body; this season, oversized earrings dominate the fashion world, and you will see Linda's ears are almost pulled into Maitreya Buddha by heavy earrings; When colorful hair became a popular trend in the fashion industry, Linda's fiery afro must be the most eye-catching in the office...

Half an hour before getting off work every day, Linda began to perform her makeup skills, applying eyelashes one by one, eyeshadow drawn as if she lacked sleep, and lips painted over and over again, without working so carefully.After get off work, I saw Linda pick up the small bag and walk away in a "clack-clack".

Finally, the unbearable boss called Linda to the office and told her seriously.It's a good thing to love beauty, but the company has a company environment, if she wears these fancy clothes to the company again, then he can only let her go.

What she said made Linda very depressed. Didn't she even have the freedom to dress?Do you have to accept the advice of your boss and go to work in those rough and unaesthetic professional attire?
Perhaps, if Linda knew that it was precisely because of her too fashionable style that "scared" several clients away, she would understand her boss' accusations.

"Bad" women are of course the leaders of fashion and trends, but the pursuit of fashion does not mean that they can choose clothes regardless of the occasion. "Bad" women are never foolish enough to use the company as a catwalk.After all, in the workplace, what you need is working ability and approachable temperament, not how keen you are on the pulse of fashion.

Therefore, "bad" women always choose clothes in the wardrobe that are relatively in line with the office temperament as their outfits when they work.Through the capable and generous dressing, you can make yourself look radiant, so as to show your vigorousness and decisiveness in doing things.

Although "bad" women don't dress too fashionably, it doesn't mean they don't understand trends, in fact, in the office, they know better how to dress to be striking, but not jaw-dropping.

1.An elegant suit.

2.Simple and smart clothing.Embodies the style of intellectual women, confident and capable.

3.Clothes with trendy elements.White shirt with black pants or black skirt is believed to be the unanimous choice of many office women, but the same uniform will inevitably make people boring, as long as the waistline of the skirt or pants is raised by one centimeter, the waist wrap design will make the waist curve More prominent but not too flirtatious, I believe it is the most suitable transformation of office women's suits, and at the same time, it is also beautiful with appropriate accessories and belt embellishments.

4.Easy and comfortable clothing.Loose, easy-going casual wear that feels comfortable without being too alluring or weird.

But once she walked out of the office, the "bad" woman turned into a girl with thousands of faces, sometimes she was a pure and fair lady; sometimes she was full of wildness, showing her wild and unruly side; , showing her femininity to the fullest; sometimes she tried sexy and charming dresses, which attracted everyone to turn her head back frequently.

Although "bad" women are more smug than other women, they also know that the office is not a catwalk, not a place to turn heads, so there are many taboos in dressing.You will notice the following:
(1) Avoid too bright colors.Office ladies should not wear clothes with many colors and bright patterns and strange patterns, and they should not dress up beautifully.The task of working hours is to work, not to attract the attention of others.So, be sure not to wear very flamboyant clothes.

(2) Avoid excessive exposure, that is, where it is not suitable to be exposed.As a woman, strictly speaking, there are two parts that should not be over-exposed. One is that the chest should not be over-exposed.For example, don't wear very low-cut tops.The second is not to expose the shoulders too much.For example, you cannot wear sleeveless clothing.Especially for women who are not used to trimming armpit hair, don't wear sleeveless dresses, otherwise the beauty will be lost with a single gesture.

(3) Avoid excessive perspective, that is, you cannot wear too transparently.Nowadays, in order to pursue individuality, many fashions are very transparent.But office women must pay attention to not wearing very transparent in the workplace. This is not only disrespect for themselves, but also disrespect for others.

(4) Avoid being too tight, that is, you can't dress too much to highlight your figure.Tight-fitting and small clothes are popular now.Bodysuits are about showing lines.It can be worn at home.But when you go to work, you must not wear it, and you must not dress yourself up like a sex bomb.

In short, when "bad" women are in the office, they will try to avoid wearing "thin", "permeable" and "revealing" clothing, because no matter how good you are in this kind of clothing, all the colleagues in the company will see from you are "sex". ” instead of ability.

Magic trinkets show a big style
Clothing is a silent language and a symbol of a person's personality, taste and even social status.It's hard to imagine a woman who dresses herself up like a colorful bird will win people's respect.But the elegant and generous dress can give people a mature and stable image, and give people the enjoyment and enlightenment of beauty.The function of clothing is to make people focus on women as aesthetic objects, rather than to make people pay attention to the beauty of these clothes.Clothes and accessories complement each other.Harmonious and unified, this is the gist of the beauty of clothing.

For example: if women's clothes are full of hazy and implicit beauty, it will add a lot of charm to her.Clothes that seem to be concealed and reveal their shape slightly, can make people feel that there is infinite spring hidden in a woman's body when seen from the reveal, and can make people feel vague and unfinished when seen from the reveal, which triggers infinite imagination of the beauty of women's body , producing a hazy and implicit artistic conception, forming a rich sense of beauty and charming charm.

In real life, we can find many examples of hazy and implicit beauty in clothing.For example, wear a bright sweater or a small thin jacket with floral patterns such as velvet and brocade, and wear a black, blue, dark green, gray and other dark-colored duffel or cashmere coat outside.There is a bit of banana red spring color revealed between the collar and chest, which better handles the relationship between dew and non dew, giving people a beautiful enjoyment.

Most women pay attention to dressing up their faces.In fact, the most important condition of beauty is not cosmetics, but laughter.All smiles.It can indeed increase the charm of female beauty and make everyone love it.A woman with a sad face or a frosty face all day long, even if she is beautiful, is just a cold beauty, which makes people deplorable but not cute, respectable but not amiable.Laughter is a sharp weapon for women, like a spring breeze, the smile is like a flowing scenery, which attracts people's daydream.Japanese writer Okushi Shirakawa said that the so-called beauty is a woman with a beautiful smile.

In addition to knowing how to match clothes that suit them, women should learn how to use small accessories to add points to their charm. Although these accessories are already familiar to you, you can use them skillfully to add to your charm.

For these trinkets, let's first talk about their functions in summer.Because of the weather, I have to change shirts every day in summer, and after changing them in a cycle, I still feel chest tightness when I open the closet, and I can't find the passion for dressing.This explains a truth: well-dressed is not as good as well-matched.Life requires creativity, and so does dressing.If you don’t have too many clothes, just fit them; if you don’t have new clothes, just know how to wear them.Fashion models change into N new clothes every day on the catwalk, but in real life, it is impossible to do like on stage, even Hollywood stars will not invest so much money in clothing.

Smart "bad" women will skillfully use some small accessories to wear an ordinary dress with a new sense of fashion.This is the charm of trinkets. When you can use them, they will be given some kind of magical magic by you, which will greatly increase your charm.

1.Necklaces: Distinctive Elegance
Wearing a necklace seems to have rules, but in fact there are no rules.A lady's skirt with Tibetan accessories may also have a commendable sense of fashion. The key to attracting attention lies in whether your necklace is unique.This requires a test of your street search ability, and those who wear well must have a unique style and be different from others.

2.Bracelets: The Fashion Woman's Show

It is a summer trend to wear N strings of different styles of bracelets on one wrist. Some girls also hang all the bracelets similar to key rings on their wrists, jingling all the way, as if hanging a few small bracelets on their wrists. The rattle is very cute.White-collar workers in the workplace can choose to wear various gemstone bracelets together. Jade is very suitable for wearing in summer and has the effect of cooling and calming the nerves.Wearing several different jade bangles on one wrist and leaving the other completely free, the imbalance is stylish.

3.Headgear: Flowers sing the main melody

In this colorful world, there must be floral decorations.The best floral arrangements are fresh flowers, which are more colorful and dynamic than fake flowers.But flowers are not easy to maintain, and the wearing time is relatively short.You can choose exquisitely crafted silk flower decorations, tie them up with a ponytail diagonally, it will have a little retro feeling, very delicate.In addition, wearing some small floral decorations when wearing professional attire can let colleagues see that under the appearance of professional attire, you are also a gentle woman with flowers!

4.Earrings: subverting the style of women

Wearing earrings has long been popular all over the world and has become a fashion of beauty.Earrings of different shapes can make the face plump, coordinated and beautiful, with the flavor of the times.If earrings are used properly, they can add beauty to the appearance and make people extraordinarily charming.When wearing earrings, you must consider the shape of your face. If you haven’t seen the effect of wearing big hoop earrings on a big round face, you don’t know what is scary.Generally speaking, those with a round face must avoid overly cumbersome and swollen earrings, and choose streamlined earrings to elongate the face line.And if the face is long, you can choose a circle.Earrings with geometric patterns such as squares and squares coordinate with an overly long face.In addition, girls with shorter necks are best to choose earrings, and they should expose their necks as much as possible.

5.Breast ornaments: the beauty that blooms on the chest

Breast ornaments are decorations on the chest, the most typical ones are corsages, chest ornaments and pendants.The chest is the most representative part of many parts of the human body. It is the most inclusive, cohesive and expressive part. The chest ornaments located here can cover or release the connotation of the overall image in the form of points, lines, surfaces and colors.

There are many requirements for the use of pectorals. Corsages are flower-shaped ornaments on the chest, with different textures, such as jewelry, gold and silver, metal, silk and so on.The boutonniere is radiated with dots, giving people a strong sense of three-dimensional shape, fashion and straightness.Gloss and brilliance are the most powerful expression forms of corsages, which give corsages a sense of movement and space, and give the overall image a radiant and noble effect.

The style of the corsage should match the style of clothing.Gorgeous evening dresses should be matched with exaggerated and exquisite or small and luxurious corsages; orthodox and rigorous clothing should be matched with concise and lively, clear-cut corsages; passionate and romantic clothing should be matched with soft and chic corsages. flower.

Women love themselves and dress themselves up, just like decorating a house. This is a charm upgrade plan that makes them more pleasing to the eye, just like a real estate in a prime location. If you invest in it, you will benefit for life.

The woman who really understands fashion and has good judgment, even though the clothes she wears may be traditional clothing, but she will add color to herself through various accessories.For them, noble and elegant is just a breeze to match various accessories.

(End of this chapter)