Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 17 Love is love, don't hide your emotions in your heart (2)
In life, there are often women who lament that what they encounter is not what they think, and their fate is too short, and there are many gentle, elegant, beautiful and dignified women among them.They are radiant, but their relationship has been bumpy all the way. Some of them have never tasted the fragrance of love in their whole life!This cannot but be said to be a great pity in life.Correspondingly, there are many prostitutes who are criticized by others, or girls who are extroverted and wild.Boyfriends have changed one after another like a revolving lantern, and they are still "flowering and full moon", "singing and singing day and night".

Which pot is this? What's wrong with "good" girls, and why aren't they more popular with men than "bad" girls?The reason may lie in "disclosure".Traditional girls pursue "understanding" too much, or stick to girls' implicit virtues, and refuse to reveal their sincerity, letting men guess and waiting for men to chase.But men are careless, if you don't hint, how can he be as careful as you?Even if he is interested in you, he has many worries, but he may not say it out loud; even if he really wants to chase you, but the world is unpredictable, how can we ensure that things will not go wrong, and good things will go to waste?Fate doesn't wait for people, when it comes, you must catch what should be caught, don't wait until the tree has turned to ashes and sighed empty.If you love him, you must let him know that even if you are ruthlessly rejected, as long as you have worked hard, you will have no regrets.

Of course, how to express your love is a science. Don’t apply the "skills" of street girls to yourself. These women are at best "inferior" among "bad" women, and "boutique" men are Don't buy it.If you want to learn, you must learn from "extreme" and "bad" women, "bad" must be "bad" out of the realm, "bad" must be "bad" to show style.Let's learn from them.

1.Remember each other's information
In the relationship between men and women, it is inevitable to introduce each other. At this time, you must concentrate on it and remember his name, otherwise he will think that you are too arrogant or absent-minded, and he may respect you at a distance.In addition to the other party's name, his occupation, hometown, phone number, hobbies, food tastes, etc., must be kept in mind.When the time is right, casually let him know that you remember his little details well.He will start paying attention to you.

2.show yourself unobtrusively
Chinese people generally have hidden character traits, and men like reserved and introverted women.Although open-minded women can have friends all over the world, in the minds of most men, they are easy to approach but not easy to walk in, and they can only be friends but not wives.If you feel that you don't have enough ability to change his concept, but you can't let go of your feelings for him, you might as well do what you like, and often make his eyes light up and exclaim from the bottom of his heart: So she is so good!

3.Be cautious when interacting with other members of the opposite sex

Facts have proved that men's jealousy is a resource that can be used. A woman who is admired by several opposite sexes is much more attractive than a woman who is lonely.As long as you use it properly, the man you like will be interested in you out of jealousy of other opposite sexes, but it’s best to stop at the end. If people like it, and if you don't refuse anyone, then your image will be greatly reduced.

4.To be a changeable elf

The sun is new every day, and people are also animals that like the new and dislike the old. When the man you like is still indifferent to you, don't worry, think calmly, is there something behind you?Maybe you have given up self-renewal in the busy life, you might as well change yourself from time to time, so that he has a new feeling every time he sees you.For example, change your attire, change your hair style...Of course, the most fundamental thing is to change your mental outlook. Be careful that all changes remain the same. It is your weaknesses that need to be changed, not your strengths. It is better not to change blindly.

5.Learn to encourage the man you secretly like
Someone once did a small test like this. If you meet a opposite sex you are very satisfied with, will you take the initiative to strike up a conversation and establish a connection?The women who answered "yes" was 55%, while men were 7 percentage points lower than women.

If you don’t take the initiative to contact the opposite sex you like, 24% of women and 3% of men think that doing so violates their code of conduct, 28% of women and 5% of men do so because Worry about being coldly received, 23% of women and 21% of men are afraid of being laughed at.3% of men and 20% of women do not strike up a conversation with the opposite sex they like because of lack of courage.It can be seen that men are more timid than women when expressing love. Women should learn to encourage the man they secretly like in their hearts.If you can master the above methods and use them flexibly, I believe that the man you like will come to you obediently!

Breaking up gracefully and making him sad

The girl thought that their relationship would last forever, and she became more and more gentle, while the other party took herself less and less seriously.The girl guessed that the happiest thing for them is to grow old together.

Unexpectedly, one day, the man suddenly put on a straight face and said to the girl: Let's break up!The girl never dreamed that the person she loved would suddenly propose to break up, so she helplessly shook the man's body and asked the man: "Why? Is it because I am not doing well enough? Tell me. I have everything Change, don't leave me!"

The man said impatiently: "There is no reason, I just don't love it anymore." Then, the man swung his arm, pushed the girl away fiercely, and walked away without any ceremony, without looking back.And the girl burst into tears.Looking at the back of the man drifting away, he stayed where the man left and covered his face while watching.

Afterwards, the girl began to drink away her sorrows, babbling like a Xianglin's wife: Why did he leave me, he once said that he would love me for the rest of his life...

The "bad" woman looked at the sad girl and couldn't help feeling sorry for her: the love is gone, even if you cry until the sky is dark, the man still can't go back to the past, there are so many men in the world, why do you have to hang on a tree alive?
"Scholar's procrastination can still be said, but women's procrastination can't be said." The pre-Qin women have already expressed the man's fickleness and ungratefulness in "Wei Feng·Mang".Once the man decides to leave, he walks cleanly without looking back, and the woman is gently wiped away like the light dust on the man.But the woman is always reluctant to part with her heartbroken for a heartbroken man. She sheds tears for a piece of the past, torturing herself into unbearable pain.

After the "bad" woman received the man's "breakup" notice, she just smiled lightly, raised her winking eyes and said calmly: "Your credit limit has been reached so soon, take away the checks you can't cash. "After that, the "bad" woman got up and left, and the man looked at the woman's graceful figure, a little dazed and a little lonely.

Xiaoxu is a well-behaved girl. When Du Feng saw her for the first time, he was moved by this kind of weak temperament, and decided to chase her.As a master in the field of love, chasing girls is not difficult for Du Feng, let alone he is a top master.

Sure enough, Du Feng soon chased Xiao Xu into his hands.The relationship between the two went smoothly. Du Feng's romance and thoughtfulness made Xiao Xu feel the happiness that can only be experienced in the movie plot, and Xiao Xu's well-behaved and sensible also made Du Feng feel very comfortable.The two of them became the envy of their friends.

But the good times didn't last long. Du Feng often didn't answer Xiaoxu's calls; he often made excuses not to see Xiaoxu, saying that he "had to work overtime", "I don't have time, I want to drink with friends"... Xiaoxu felt that Du Feng had changed, and There is a kind of uneasiness in my heart.

Although Xiaoxu didn't want to think about it, his friend's eyes saw the truth - Du Feng was drinking with another woman in a bar.

Xiaoxu couldn't believe it, so he found Du Feng and asked him what was going on. Du Feng said that Xiaoxu was making trouble for no reason, and they were just ordinary friends.I haven't seen you for a long time, so I went to the bar to drink and chat.

Are they really ordinary friends?The truth of the matter is that Du Feng has moved on, but he dare not tell Xiaoxu the truth.He knew that Xiaoxu's character was weak, and he thought that once he told her the truth so suddenly, she would not be able to bear it, and he didn't know what stupid things would happen, so out of "good intentions", Du Feng could only slowly cool him and Xiaoxu Xu's feelings.Wait until Xiaoxu loves him less, and then tell her the news of the breakup.

Xiao Xu didn't believe Du Feng's "ordinary friend" excuse.So he often followed Du Feng secretly, hoping to get "first-hand" information.But every time they saw Du Feng with that woman, they always kept a distance. If they just jumped out to catch the "third party", they could argue that they were friends and they would be detained On the "paparazzi" charge.

Finally one time.Xiao Xu followed Du Feng to the ballroom, saw the two danced very intimately, and then held hands and did not let go.Finally found a good time, Xiaoxu appeared in front of them.

"Are you still talking about friendship now?" Xiao Xu asked calmly.

"How can you follow me?" Du Feng was a little dissatisfied.

"Then how can you deceive me?" The girl was also full of bitterness.

The three fell into an embarrassing situation, and Du Feng had to clean up the mess, "Let's break up. We are not suitable!" After speaking, Du Feng was a little nervous. He didn't know what kind of collapse Xiaoxu would fall into, and what he should do tidy.

(End of this chapter)