Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 18 Love is love, don't hide your emotions in your heart (3)
Surprisingly, Xiaoxu did not go crazy, but calmly said to Du Feng: "If the relationship is not suitable, you should say break up. What are you doing sneakily? In fact, I have already found out that something is wrong with you. But there is no definite answer." I don't want to wrong you for no reason. Since you think we are not suitable, then we should just break up, there is no need to engage in such a thing. "

Xiaoxu's every word was calm and serious, without sobs or nostalgia, so chic that Du Feng was speechless.

Seeing that Du Feng didn't speak, Xiaoxu went on to say: "Then let's break up. Tomorrow we will put away each other's things and find a convenient time to return them to their original owners."

Prior to this, Du Feng explained to his new girlfriend that the reason why they could not disclose their relationship immediately was "for fear of her collapse".But judging from the current situation, he might be the one who is going to collapse.

Xiaoxu's unrestrained style even made Du Feng a little bit regretful, and suddenly found Xiaoxu's charm other than gentleness, and felt that he had not abandoned him.Instead, the other party abandoned him.

When many men ask to break up, they say "you forget me", but they don't really hope that the other party will forget themselves, but hope that they will always think about themselves without pestering themselves. .This kind of thinking is probably out of the vanity of men. They hope that they are valued and loved, especially by the women they abandon. Showing off such things will make them feel "happiness".

Many women will fall into the trap of this kind of man, and they will miss him silently. No matter how hurtful they are, it is still good for women to never forget a man.Just like in a song, "Love you to the point of hopelessness, hate you to the point of suffering, your bad and your good are all treasures in my hands..."

When the man proposes to break up, the last thing a woman should do is to accept it, but to make the boy feel uncomfortable everywhere. This is the breakup etiquette of "bad" women.After the breakup, let me still think of you, dream, as long as the word breakup is spoken, the decision to break up has been made, and the "bad" woman will not hide in the room and miss the beauty of the past, but completely liberate herself , looking for a suitable other half.

"Bad" women are not emotionless, nor are they emotionless.In fact.She is even stronger than others when she pursues feelings. However, she is cautious because of her strength, and she knows the truth that precious things need to be cherished. Not necessary, not worth it.

Breaking up in love is for the next love to be more exciting
I don't know when it started, the telepathy between him and you gradually disappeared, and the chemical reaction between each other disappeared.Although you are unwilling to accept the fact that his love for you is no longer, he still chooses to leave you. When you are single again, maybe you can't help but sigh, why does the god of fate always play tricks on yourself?

After falling out of love, there are not many women who can face it calmly and start a new life. Most women like to express their inner world with "deep love and deep hatred".

Many women will despair to the end in the ruthless back of this man who turned and left, and have been depressed since then, wanting him to know that he can't live without him, wanting him to know that he loves him more than his own life, so as to save his life. His heart, or revenge him, punish him.

Some women thought of dying because they couldn't bear the pain of losing love. Just when her life was on the verge of danger, a man appeared, and he regretted that he should not abandon a woman. Decided to stay by the woman's side, he didn't want the woman to go to a dead end, and he would feel guilty for the rest of his life.

This kind of plot mostly only appears in TV dramas.The real world is real and cruel.Few men would succumb to the threat of a woman out of responsibility, guilt.Since he no longer loves her, since he is heartless, why would he care about a woman's life or death?Therefore, wouldn't it be silly for a woman to waste her youth and life for a man?

There is a little story like this: a lovelorn was crying in a park and met a philosopher. After hearing what happened to her, the philosopher laughed and said, "You are so stupid!" Said: "I am already so sad, you still scold me." The philosopher replied: "Fool, he is the one who should suffer. Because you just lost a person who doesn't love you, but he lost a love." His people."

That's right, in the eyes of "bad" women, it's okay to lose love. If the old one doesn't go, the new one won't come. If you don't change the old one, how can you look forward to the new era? Be good to yourself, people value self-love.

"Bad" women think that it's okay to lose love, and live better if you want to live, don't be sad, lose yourself, or even get involved in your own youth and life.Retaliation at the cost of life is the least powerful and worthless. "Bad" women think that the best way to get revenge on a man is to live better than him.

A girl and a boy are in love. In the eyes of others, they are a pair of talent and beauty, a match made in heaven.Yes, girls are beautiful.The character is gentle and kind; the boy is handsome and talented.The two get along very well, which is the envy of many people.

However, the good times didn't last long, and the boy suddenly broke up one day because he fell in love with someone else.This is the result that the girl never dreamed of.But she knew that love was a thing of the past, so she didn't cry and left the boy stubbornly, without shedding a single tear in front of him.

It has been half a year since the girl and the boy broke up, although occasionally they still think of the sweet time they had together.But girls prefer the full life they have now.After breaking up with the boy, she couldn't say there was no hatred.Although he had no hope for his original vow of eternal love, the result of empathy and other love was something the girl never expected.

Hatred, hate, the girl didn't abuse herself like other lovelorn women.Now that she has suffered a lot of grievances, she can no longer be angry with herself. The girl decided to live a more serious life than before.Be worthy of yourself.

So the girl dressed up more beautifully, and also participated in many classes-yoga, Latin dance...not only did she exercise her body, but her figure became more curvaceous.The girl did not forget to participate in social activities, which not only made her the focus of attention, but also made many friends, including many suitors.

Frustrated in love, proud in the workplace, the girl works harder at work, which leads to successive promotions and higher salaries.Life became more comfortable and comfortable. The girl used the perfume she was reluctant to use, and put on her favorite brand clothes.Recently, the idea of ​​buying a car has sprouted...

I don't know how many times this kind of life is better than when I was with a boy, and because the charm of the girl only increases, the suitors continue to follow.But this time, the girl has to choose carefully.

The ex-boyfriend originally wanted to know the girl's "unsatisfactory" and "unhappy" situation through his friends, and he also pretended to show concern to satisfy his vanity.I didn't expect the girl to live so proudly.This made the boy feel a little uncomfortable.

When a man sees his ex-girlfriend suffering from a broken relationship, he will indeed feel uncomfortable, but it is undeniable that he will also have a little joy in his heart, feeling that his image is still tall and his role is so important.But when he sees his old lover who has lost his love but has a new look, it is the most painful torture for him.

Therefore, when a man chooses to turn around and leave, please learn to turn around and leave the sadness behind.Allow time to slowly submerge and slowly break down until you can start a new life.

In 2006, Xie Na and Liu Ye broke up.But in just one year, Xie Na quickly became popular.Publishing books, filming dramas, being a host, releasing a new album, filming commercials... Her career is in full bloom.When someone compares her to Nick Kidman, she laughs: "Thank you for the compliments! I didn't have as much success as her. I just put my heart and soul into my work now."

And many women feel that the sky is falling after falling out of love. Is there any man in this world who can be trusted?They begged bitterly, yelled at each other, and went to bars to get drunk if they didn't know how to drink... Losing a relationship really made many people feel disheartened and even lost confidence in life.However, no matter how desperately in love you once were, no matter how many tears you shed when you were broken up, how many men and women in the river of love are truly unforgettable in the end?
In fact, which woman has not experienced the unforgettable memory of losing love? "Bad" women are no exception, but she thinks that pain is buried in her heart, not for others to see. Is it worth it to suffer for a man, even to seek death?Did his departure take away your future?That can only be blamed for why you tied the future to him!You must understand that there is nothing wrong with falling out of love, the most important thing is to live a better life, and this is also the most wonderful revenge.

After falling out of love, a bit "bad" woman will dress herself up more beautifully than before, put on bright clothes and bright jewelry, still strut her head high to show her uniqueness in the crowd, and still show her uniqueness without hesitation. own charm.When a man sees that you are still attractive after losing love, it can't be regarded as a blow to him.

After falling out of love, a bit "bad" woman will not suppress herself, wrong herself, but satisfy herself.Go to your favorite restaurant and enjoy the food while enjoying the music; even if you buy a few sets of expensive clothes, you don’t need to look at other people’s faces; enjoy the feeling of chatting with others.Instead of worrying about the jealous and murderous eyes of your boyfriend.

After falling out of love, a bit "bad" woman will never give up on herself.It's about improving yourself, finding your own shortcomings, getting rid of some bad habits, improving yourself, and making yourself more perfect. This is not only helpful for your next relationship, but can even improve your character.You who have become more perfect may make your ex-boyfriend regret what he didn't do at the beginning.

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