Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 21 Superficially silly, women always tell lies to win men's hearts (1)
Men are very simple animals.They eat iron and don't eat hard. For gentle and delicate women, it is easy to develop a heart of protection and love. "Pretending to be weak" is a common method used by women.The essence of it is to pretend to be a temperament that makes men feel pity and love, so you must never "pretend to be big".Men think they are great, no matter whether they are men or young husbands, they don't want their women to be "Tigress".Therefore, only by pretending to be innocent and cute can men show their talents.As a result, the man gained face and the girl gained benefits. Isn't everyone very happy?
Let your husband fall into your "gentle and innocent" trap
Gentle girl.Who doesn't love it?And how many beloved girls are not soft?Therefore, the more a girl feels loved, the more gentle she will be.Likewise, the softer she is, the more endearing she is.Girls in love almost all understand this truth, and each of them shows their own talents, which makes men feel heartbroken and loves them abnormally.

Jia Baoyu once said that "women are made of water, and men are made of mud." No matter how tough the mud is, it will soften when it meets tender water.Therefore, if a woman made of water wants to influence a man made of mud, she might as well adopt the method of "moisturizing things silently" and let her husband fall into the trap of your innocence and tenderness.

Sasha's husband loves face very much, especially in front of friends, he can't lose face.Every time a friend gathers, Sasha's husband rushes to pay the bill, and often buys famous brand fashion.Although I earn a lot of money, there are not many left every month.This made Sasha, who is the "Minister of the Exchequer", very worried. If something happens in the future, it will be okay if she doesn't have any savings in her hand.

One day, Sasha discussed with her husband, "Now the housing price is very reasonable, let's buy a suite. First, we can rent it out to make money. Second, the housing price will definitely rise in the future." Sasha's husband thought for a while and said, "This is a real problem. Good idea." Sasha's husband was fooled now.Of course he didn't dare to treat guests at every turn like before.The next thing is to pay a part of the house payment every month, and the remaining money is not to buy whatever you like.

A few months later, Sasha's husband suddenly recalled it and said to her: "Why did I become a debt to live in a muddle?" Sasha laughed loudly after hearing this.

Men are naturally careless and informal.As a woman, there is no need to deliberately pursue perfection, but for the happiness of the family, a woman must put some thought into it, and must not fight fire with fire.Men are generally arrogant and conceited. Only by keeping a calm face can the husband quietly fall into the trap of innocence and tenderness of women.

There is an old saying that "a woman without talent is virtue". This "no talent" actually does not mean that a woman will win a man's heart without much knowledge, but that men prefer not to be very smart or smart, but rather A bit naive, a bit stupid woman.It is the same in ancient and modern times. Why do modern women have to be naive, why do they pretend to be naive, and why do they like cartoons? That is, almost all girls know one thing: what men like most is naive women who are not big enough.

Because of the difficulty of survival, men are generally in a more complicated environment in their daily work and life, so men generally expect a simple woman in private life.Of course, there are some men who like women who are very intelligent, such as Guo Jing, but such men generally lack this wisdom, so they hope to get a woman with wisdom as their complement.But most men still prefer simpler women.

In real life, it is a man's nature to love to play, and he has to get together with his friends every now and then, and scratches his head and scratches his head anxiously if he doesn't meet for a few days.But for this small gathering, they didn't know how to go home even at one or two o'clock in the night.This makes women intolerable, but arguing will not solve the problem, but will make things stalemate. Maybe the more noisy they are, the less they like to come back. Anyway, buddies will take them in wherever they go.At this time, instead of blaming and complaining, you might as well move him with the tenderness of a woman.When he comes back late, don’t quarrel with him, prepare toiletries for him, make some supper, and leave a note to let him eat something, wash and go to bed, so that he won’t have the energy to go to work the next day .This trick is absolutely effective.

Lily's husband is a person who likes to spend the night.Lily followed the method above, but when she woke up the next day, her husband said to her embarrassedly: "I'm really sorry, I came back too late last night, and I will try to go home as early as possible from now on." Haven't been back that late.

sweet smile
A woman's smile is the best expression of tenderness, the slender eyebrows bent into willow leaves, the smiling expression, and the charming face are absolutely silent at this time.A sweet smile is like the first blooming of a peach blossom, and the first ripples, giving people a warm and sweet feeling.The beauty of a woman's smile lies in the fact that she smiles without showing her teeth and doesn't wrinkle her forehead. The beauty lies in whether you know me or not, and the beauty lies in showing her heart sincerely...

softly sighed into his heart
Encourage him to go to a slightly emotional bar together, the two sit side by side, and then chat happily as usual in the first 30 minutes, and drink an appropriate amount of wine. After 30 minutes, you started to play with the wine glass in your hand, and fixed your eyes near his fingertips, and sighed quietly: "Oh!" He noticed it sensitively, so he looked at you with worried eyes.You immediately and quickly avoid his sight, give him a fatal blow, and let out a soft "ah".His sigh to you will definitely give birth to many guesses, worrying that you don't like being with him anymore.At this time, he will try every means to check his faults, and be eager to tell you how much he likes you, and the romantic comedy will be further staged.

Occasionally spoiled and cute

Flour-faced peach blossoms, whispering, how exciting!Acting like a baby is a woman's unique secret and an indispensable magic weapon in a woman's life.But I don’t know when cool women and strong women became popular. They only care about snatching half of the sky that belongs to them. The human-like softness and gentleness have long since disappeared.

When you spend a lot of money on a few movie tickets and are about to ask your husband to go to the theater together, you can say in a child's naughty tone on the phone: "I am a bad, bad, bad kid. I bought a few movies. Ticket, if I tell you how expensive the fare is, you will definitely lose your temper. But I promise, as long as you don’t get angry, I will kiss you.” In front of such a sweet voice, which man would not submit obediently?Almost all women can act like a baby, but the premise of acting like a baby is to be loved by someone. Acting like a baby also needs to be measured and pay attention to the occasion.Some women are very self-willed and love to lose their temper. When something goes wrong, they will quarrel and cry at every turn.It is not called acting like a baby. To be precise, it is called domineering and unreasonable, which will inevitably make men feel disgusted.Acting like a baby should be natural and not hypocritical, centered on gentleness, and most importantly, acting like a baby should also show your own style!

Tears are shining, gentle and infinite
That sentence that men often say: I am not afraid of her being fierce, but I am afraid of her crying.It can be seen that "women are sad, men are heartbroken" is a truth. Men always appreciate those real women who can cry and laugh without pretending. Therefore, crying appropriately and showing weakness to men is also showing your warmth to men.

In the following situations, you might as well shed a few tears to show your warmth.For example: You accidentally made a mistake and there is no chance to quibble, then don't wait for him to get angry, but first act like you are very wronged, and tears will turn his anger into pity.Go to watch a sad and touching movie or TV series together, and you will be so moved by the plot that you will cry like a tearful person.Let him know what a fragile and sensitive heart you have.When the two have conflicts and can't fight, instead of quarreling fiercely and having a cold war, which ends up hurting both sides, it is better to use the "tear bomb offensive" to resolve the deadlock and make the man soft-hearted.When two people quarreled and he said harsh words, or he had a second heart, or he did something wrong and didn't know how to repent, it was a "necessary" time to cry.In many cases, tears may be the best messenger to end wars and deadlocks. Don't be stingy, and don't miss the opportunity to cry.

appropriate weakness

In order to cater to the desire of men all over the world to cherish love and protect the weak, smart women should be "vulnerable" at the right time.In order to satisfy the psychological traits of men who naturally love to "protect" women.It is necessary to show "weakness" appropriately.This kind of "weakness" can be manifested in physical aspects, such as a weak appearance, or mental "weakness", such as being afraid of thunder or prone to tears.

shy charm

"Still holding the pipa and half covering the face", shyness is a unique characteristic of women, and it is a unique charm and beauty of women.It is a kind of embarrassing and embarrassing psychological activity, often accompanied by sweet panic and abnormal heartbeat. The external manifestation is unnatural attitude and blush on the face.

Shyness is a woman's secret weapon to attract a man and increase the mood, appearing at the right time and just right.It becomes a flattery, a kind of feminine beauty, like a girl with an innocent face suddenly flushed, there is no young man who will not be tempted.But be careful not to "overuse" this state, otherwise it will go to the opposite side.

Give men innocuous vanity
Dignity is more important to a man than anything else.He hoped that by his side was someone who was absolutely safe and could give him face, not someone with a sharp knife in his possession.Therefore, women need to disguise their intelligence skillfully, pretend to be a little stupid, and maintain the dignity of men.

There is a story about a man who once took his wife to a friend's party, and after drinking for three rounds, it became a "routine" "complaint meeting" between men and women, and the wives naturally sat aside with a smile.When this man became interested, he even talked about the first love story between himself and his wife.He seemed drunk and boasted how many beautiful and talented women he had chased after him when he was in love. It should be her honor that he chose this wife now.His wife quietly watched his performance and listened to his bragging, with a smile on his mouth, without the slightest rebuttal meaning-it really made him play enough.He drank a lot that day and fell asleep when he got home.When he woke up the next day, his wife was missing, and he saw a note on the dining table: "From today, I will go back to my mother's house, and I will give you a week to find the feeling of being with a talented woman. If you don't have enough time, you can add it indefinitely!" At this time He just remembered that he got carried away after drinking last night, and his wife gave him enough face.

I remember reading such a story:
A knight proposed to a girl, but the girl hesitated.Knight decided to wait downstairs with her for 99 days until she said yes.From then on, the knight would wait downstairs at the girl's house every day.The girl gradually fell in love, but she wanted to know whether the knight could persevere to the end, so as to confirm the knight's love.Time passed day by day, and on the afternoon of the 98th day, the girl hid behind the window and looked at the knight affectionately, with tenderness in her heart, but she suddenly saw the knight tidying up his clothes and leaving with a smile.The girl yelled for him to stay.But the knight said to the girl that love also has dignity.

This story is about dignity.It's not that the knight can't fulfill the promise, nor does it mean that he doesn't love the girl, he's just afraid that the final result will make his waiting meaningless, so he chose the right time to leave.to maintain their dignity.

Life is for a face, no matter thick or thin.Both beauty and ugliness take their own face very seriously.Everyone needs dignity, and men need dignity even more. Dignity surpasses everything about him. You can give up everything, but you can't lose dignity.For men and women in love, if a woman learns to save face for a man, it will make her love even better.

What is the dignity of a man?It is able to make him take every step with pride, it is able to make him look high-spirited from every angle, and it is able to make every word of him a promise that cannot be easily changed.

Xiaoxue and her boyfriend have been together for three years, and their relationship is very good. The important reason is that she pays attention to giving him "face", especially in front of outsiders.One of his colleagues is often ridiculed as "strict wife control" because he has to answer many questioning calls from his wife a day.She has also seen some men who are having a party with friends, but they are embarrassed because they answer a call from their wife urging them to go home after a while. She does not want her lover to live in such a shadow, and feels that men need some space of their own.Therefore, she seldom calls her boyfriend when he is having a party with his friends. If she misses him, she will send him a text message, which not only makes him feel the sweetness of feelings, but also makes him feel refreshed in front of colleagues and friends. Be a good person.And he himself felt very face-saving, and cherished Xiaoxue even more.

In life, there are many women who hold their wallets tightly while complaining that their husbands are worthless.A man who will never have more than 10 yuan in his pocket is doomed to be of no avail. A man who has to apply to his wife for even a few pocket money, what big things do you expect him to do?The first thing a man should have is dignity. Once a man loses his dignity, he is just a hollow shell and will be eliminated in the end.

Women should never trample on a man's dignity.dignity.For a man it is as important as life.Don't easily touch the "nerve" of a man's dignity.Not to mention that just because a man loves you, you can intentionally or unintentionally hurt a man and trample on his dignity.You know, if this nerve is deranged, then the woman will pay a heavy price.

A self-respecting man will constantly improve his various abilities.If a woman wants her man to be an outstanding person, please take good care of his self-esteem first.If a woman doesn't want her man to leave, please love the man's dignity.To love the dignity of a man is to love yourself!
In life, there are always some women who never understand a man's mind, thinking that a man is their own private property, and they can do nothing about him.There are even some women who treat their husbands like their sons, speak freely, don't talk about tactics, and say whatever they want, always thinking that they won't destroy the love and family relationship like iron walls and copper walls. In fact, this is a big mistake. .

Some women give little thought to men's dignity.Men go out and about in society every day, and they attach great importance to the "public image" established in society and the "prestige" established among friends.As a result, men contribute positive, upward, revolutionary, moral, and emotional things to society, and leave their relaxing, desire, and immoral things to the family.If women often regard the impression of men at home as a universal standard, it is a big mistake.When men fight in society, men must maintain their social image and defend their "value" and "dignity".Any remarks that damage the image of a man will deeply irritate him. Women must be cautious in this regard and give their husbands more harmless vanity.

Never criticize his mother to her face, it will hurt his feelings.A wife who always says "what's wrong with your mother..." and "I'm much better than your mother" makes her husband intimidated. Remember, never try to be more virtuous than your mother.

Don't tease him about his "romantic views," it will hurt his ego.

Don't talk about his eating habits or bad habits openly.What he confides to you is not to ask you to advertise to neighbors and friends. Men are the most taboo partner who often mentions his "secrets" in front of friends, especially his bad habits.However, you may wish to praise his strengths in front of others, such as excellent work.The clothes are of high taste and the cooking skills are very exquisite.

Don't compliment another man against his flaws.He will feel looked down upon and ridiculed.Men usually feel insecure about the same sex. If you compare him with the advantages of other men, it may make him uneasy.Therefore, try to compare other men with your husband as little as possible, and let him feel that he is better than other men.

When he sees a beautiful woman, he will look twice more. If you sneer at her, he will be very unhappy.Every man likes beautiful women, whether he admits it or not.A smart woman will spur her boyfriend like this, pointing to a beautiful woman and asking her boyfriend: Is she pretty? (Don't ask if she is prettier than me?)

Don't endlessly urge him to get a promotion, a raise, or talk about "job hopping."Obviously, women who have this kind of thinking tend to have a strong sense of vanity, the so-called "husband is honorable and his wife is expensive".In addition, they often have a strong attachment psychology, the so-called "only vines are entangled with trees, but no tree is entangled with vines".In order to satisfy their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands.Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to work hard, but if you do not create pressure based on the actual situation, it may backfire.

Don't talk about what "role" a man plays in the family, because he still subconsciously believes that doing housework is detrimental to the dignity of a male "man".

Don't talk about his "baldness" because it creates a fear in him of being unattractive to women.

Don't talk about his waistline, his height.

Don't ask him about the use of his "private money".Men not only need private money to consume tobacco and alcohol, but also need enough activity funds to meet daily entertainment.Private money is not only a herald of equality between men and women, but also a material support in a spiritual crisis.

Keep a distance and leave him with beauty
As the saying goes, distance produces beauty.Distance is not only a physical phenomenon, but also a kind of interpersonal knowledge. In a woman's interpersonal relationship, keeping a certain distance from others, especially the opposite sex, will also affect her own success or failure.Appropriate distance can produce aesthetic feeling.In order to satisfy the pursuit and appreciation of beauty, women should communicate with the opposite sex appropriately. At the same time, in the communication, how far you choose to keep with the opposite sex will affect your beauty in the other party's heart.

(End of this chapter)