Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 29 There are details in the rough, the charm of a woman is usually in the details (3)
Women who know etiquette should always pay attention to their own image, and pay attention to put an end to the following bad posture and manners:
Do not tickle in public

As a woman, you must know that tickling is indecent, and because your tickling is performed in public, it will cause associations, various symptoms such as skin diseases, and make others feel uncomfortable.

Prevent various sounds in the body
Life experience tells us that the voice of another person is not very pleasant to anyone, even disgusting.As a woman, you should avoid behaviors or habits such as coughing, sneezing, yawning, belching, ringing your stomach, farting, etc. in public, because these noises will make you feel uncomfortable or sick, and others will immediately feel threatened Or produce associations, and then produce a sense of disgust.

No spitting

Spitting is a vice that can be seen everywhere in some underdeveloped, uncivilized, and harsh environments.It's a pity that in a civilized place, skyscrapers, women in fashionable clothes sometimes make this mistake, spitting everywhere when people are not prepared.This disgusting behavior should be resolutely put an end to it.Every modern civilized person should be soberly aware that whether someone sees you spitting is not the key to the problem, the key is that this behavior proves that you are still in an ignorant, backward, and dirty environment and class.

Do not chew gum in public

Some girls like to chew gum to maintain oral hygiene, so we should pay attention to our image in front of others.When chewing, close your mouth and make no sound; wrap the chewed gum in paper and throw it in the trash.

not to yawn in public
In social situations, yawning gives the other party the feeling that you are not interested in him and you are showing a lot of impatience.Therefore, if you can't help yawning, be sure to cover your mouth with your hand immediately, and then say: "I'm sorry."

Do not pick your nose or ears in public
Some people are used to picking their nostrils or ears in public with little fingers, keys, toothpicks, hairpins, etc. This is a very bad habit.Especially in restaurants or teahouses, when others are eating or drinking tea, such indecent little gestures often make bystanders feel very disgusted.This is very indecent behavior.

Several bad postures that women should avoid in communication:
1.Cross your legs and point your raised toes towards others.

2.Yawn, stretch.

3.Clip your nails and dig your ears.

4.Stomp or twiddle your knuckles.Make a "click" sound.

5.Look at your watch, look in a small mirror or put on makeup in public.

6.Hold your hands behind your head and rock your body back and forth.

7.Folding his arms across his chest, he shook his head.

8.The legs are spread apart and stretched forward, and the person is half lying on the chair.

9.Rubbing eyes, scratching hair, rubbing nose.

10.Blow smoke or smoke rings at others.

For a polite woman, an elegant posture is a must.Elegance is the most beautiful clothes for a woman, wearing it, even an ordinary woman will look radiant.Women's grooming is important, but the elegance of the body is more important.

Physical beauty belongs to external beauty, and external beauty and inner beauty are sometimes inconsistent.Some women behave well in words and deeds, but their ideology and morality are not good. A few women even appear to be dressed in suits, leather shoes, and jewels, but in essence they are whoring, gambling, and cheating, which is shameful.Therefore, only when the beauty of the body is in harmony with the inner beauty can it be affirmed and recognized by others.

Show off the charm of your smile
Smile is a special language, it can cooperate with vocal language and actions, play a "complementary" role, communicate people's hearts, build a bridge of friendship, and give people beautiful enjoyment.Work and life are inseparable from a smile, and a beautiful image needs a smile even more.

On the basis of years of research, the American psychologist Albert Mehrabian came up with the expression formula of non-verbal communication emotion:

The transmission of a message: 7% language + 38% voice + 55% expression.

This shows how important facial expressions are in information transmission!
What else can make yourself more beautiful?What else could add points to a charismatic image?
In fact, you have an innate ability to show your happiness, confidence and appeal to everyone with a charming smile.A smile is not only a kind of implicitness, but also a kind of expression; it is both a kind of simplicity and a kind of richness; it is not only out of politeness, but also from the heart.

In the workplace, meeting colleagues and saying hello, nodding and smiling, will make the two parties look harmonious and harmonious; meeting customers and giving each other a friendly smile can shorten the psychological distance between the two parties in an instant and eliminate mutual misunderstanding A sense of restraint; the superior gives the subordinate a smile, which will make the subordinate feel that the superior is approachable.

In communicating with people, if there is a language barrier and cannot communicate, a smile is the "lubricant" to quickly achieve communication.A smile is a happy expression on the face, an expression of kindness, friendliness, and praise.In most international communication situations, smiling is the basis of etiquette.A friendly and warm smile can quickly narrow the psychological distance between you and people of different cultural backgrounds, and create a good atmosphere for communication and communication.

Du Juan studied at the Chinese Department of a well-known normal college, and came to Shanghai alone after graduation.A job posting in a city newspaper happened to be an advertising design company that Du Juan was interested in, so Du Juan, with the attitude of giving it a try, sent a job-seeking e-mail to the employer according to the contact information on the recruitment advertisement, and then found it online. The website of the employer to learn more about the information of the employer.A few days later, Du Juan unexpectedly received a call from the manager of the human resources department of the advertising design company, asking her to go to the advertising company for a group interview the next afternoon.

After waking up from a nap at 01:30 the next day, Du Juan sorted out his job application resume and various related materials, put them in the backpack according to the order he imagined, and then went to shower and put on neat and clean clothes. And carefully checked his appearance in the vanity mirror, feeling pretty good about himself.then.Left an hour early.

Arriving at the office building where the employer is located, Du Juan politely asked the security guards about the floor where the "Personnel Department" was located, then opened the backpack, looked at the job application materials he brought, and took a deep breath to settle down Feeling nervous, I knocked on the door of the employer on time with a straight waist and confidence... Later, Du Juan became a regular employee of this advertising company.

By chance after work, Du Juan asked the general manager, why did the general manager hire her among so many applicants?The general manager's answer was somewhat unexpected to Du Juan, "Your smile infected me. Through your smile, I can see that you have a kind of confidence that other job applicants do not have."

When going to work, Du Juan also has a smile on his face.Whether it is a boss or an ordinary employee, she will give them a kind smile, and soon she will become "hot" with her colleagues.

Smile is a "lubricant", which can dissolve hostility, enhance harmony, convey people's sincerity and kindness, and show people's detachment and broad-mindedness; a smile is a silent answer, a compliment for good words and deeds, and tolerance for inappropriate words and deeds; A smile is music, which can play the joyful chapters of life; a smile is a spring breeze, which can blow away the sorrowful clouds in the soul.

The world's supermodel Cindy Crawford once said: "If a woman forgets to make up when she goes out, the best remedy is to show your smile." A smile is a woman's best cosmetics, a smiling woman It is sunny, confident, mature, and even more joyful and happy...

Therefore, a woman who knows etiquette should learn to smile.

Show a genuine smile.Some women like to cover their mouths with their hands when they laugh, which will give people a shy and petty impression, which is hard to like.A sincere smile is the most beautiful. When you have thoughtfulness and love in your heart, the smile you show will give people a sincere feeling.When you are surrounded by joy and happiness, your smile is natural and beautiful.

Laughter should be retracted freely.Women who love to laugh tend to leave a good impression on people, but some women can't control their smiles, which makes people baffled, doubtful, and even misunderstood.Such as thinking that she is laughing at the other party's image is wrong, there is something wrong with the words, or that she is mentally abnormal.Such a smile is not only not beautiful, but also greatly reduces one's own image.

You can do this by standing in front of a mirror and practicing hard.Before leaving the bedroom to meet other people every morning, what's the best way to look at your own face in the mirror?Is it mellow, energetic, or just half awake?If you wake up in the morning, you will look listless.It's best to cheer up before going out. It's a good idea to smile in front of the mirror for 3 minutes.

In addition to facial expressions, eyes are also very important to give a person's impression. "Looking back and smiling at Bai Meisheng, Liugong Fendai has no color."If a woman's eyes are dull and indifferent, she has lost her charm.Therefore, a woman should learn to control her eyes, so that she is like the lake, the sun, and the blue sky.Although it is silent, it is hard to forget...

Many women dare not look up at each other when they are talking, they look shy and think they are beautiful.In fact, this is very impolite behavior.Look into the other person's eyes when talking to them.But don't keep blinking and don't move your eyes.

Although modern women are very capable at work, if she is a "cold-faced beauty" with "eyes that can kill people", it will be difficult for her superiors, subordinates and colleagues to accept her.

Laughter is as precious as millions of fortunes.It is not only a kind of emotion, but also a kind of character, or a kind of skill, which can be turned into huge energy and materials.Smile etiquette has become an effective means of social competition popular all over the world. This not only reflects the progress of social civilization, but also reflects the reality that human beings need to decorate their lives with smiles in today's society with intensified competition and tense life rhythms.

Professional women should pay attention to proportion in office makeup
The office make-up of professional women should be intentionally given moderate artistic exaggeration in shape and color, so as to express a beautiful, elegant, capable and stable image.In short, office makeup is restricted by the office environment, and women should pay attention to proportion when applying makeup.

Makeup in daily life has great randomness and selectivity, and can be self-shaped according to personal wishes and aesthetic tastes.However, office makeup is restricted by the office environment, and it must give people a sense of responsibility and knowledge.

Choose the right background color
The purpose of choosing the base color is to fully express the natural beauty of the skin color. Therefore, the choice of foundation is based on your own skin color. The color with a slightly brighter base color will appear more beautiful under the natural light, but It would look unhealthy under fluorescent lighting in an office.Apply the setting powder evenly to ensure that the face is not greasy and does not lose transparency, making the face clean and refreshed.

The dark foundation will make the smeared part have a deep and narrow effect, the lighter foundation color is used on the cheeks, and the other parts use light foundation to increase the three-dimensional effect of the face.For a narrow or long face, apply a darker foundation to the forehead and chin to shape the face, and a lighter foundation to the center of the bridge of the nose.Rub the dark color on both sides of the nose to make the nose look taller.

eye makeup measure

Eye makeup is to use the color of eye shadow, eyeliner and mascara to create ever-changing shapes, so that the whole face is shining and radiant.First of all, you should choose a brown or brown eye shadow that is close to your skin color, and apply it lightly on the eyelashes at the end of the eye, which can make the eyes feel obviously enlarged.However, it must be noted that a small amount of eye shadow powder should be applied each time, rather than applying too much at one time.

The eyeliner is drawn at the root of the eyelashes. You must use an eyeliner that is one shade darker than the eyeshadow to make the eyes look black and energetic.Once the eyeliner is done, use a cotton swab to gently blend it into a blur, so the eye area looks more natural and flattering.

Under the eyebrows, apply a bright eye shadow with a sense of transparency to increase the height of the eyebrows and the brightness of the eyes.Apply a cool-toned eyeshadow on the lower lid, following the steps you just used.Note that the eye shadow should be brushed from the corner of the eye to the end of the eye to increase the outline of the eye.

Apply mascara to the upper lashes to increase the volume and density of the lashes and make the eyes look more three-dimensional.Don't forget to paint your lower lashes, as thick, black lower lashes will enlarge and define your eyes.

Pay attention to the shape of the eyebrows

When drawing eyebrows, try to avoid being too feminine. Thick eyebrows will make you look very capable, and sharp eyebrows will appear shrewd and decisive.You must draw eyebrows before eye makeup, because eyebrows can define the scope of the eyes and can emphasize the eyes. Eyebrows don’t need to be too neat and old-fashioned, they can be trimmed slightly, and don’t change the original shape of the eyebrows, just keep the original natural For the line, the key point is to remove the messy hairs on the eyelids under the eyebrows. Never remove the eyebrows above the eyebrows.

Lip styling and color selection
The lip corners are rounded and the lips are small. It is an exquisite lip makeup, in which natural color is the key.Too dark, too bright, and exaggerated lip shapes are not suitable for the office environment.Pink, orange, no matter which office will like it.Lip makeup, like eyeliner, can reflect a three-dimensional effect. The corners of the upper and lower lips should be rounded with lip liner, and lipstick should be applied in the middle. Never apply glossy lipstick on the entire lip. It will make people feel that you lack common sense and your ability to work will be doubted .For lip makeup, you should first trace the ideal lip contour with a lip pencil, and then apply lipstick. The color of lipstick and nail polish should be in harmony with clothing, eye shadow and blush. The same color is appropriate. The lip shape is natural and clear For a pleasant feeling, use a brown or maroon lipstick, which is very suitable for daytime work and can best show bright and healthy beauty.

don't forget blush
Apply blush on the top of the cheekbones to emphasize the contours of the cheekbones. There is a surefire way to do this, called "smiling apples", just rub it on the apple shape that appears on the cheeks when you smile.For a round face, elongating the blush will help balance the shape of the face; for a pear-shaped face with a small forehead, you can elongate the blush to modify it; Too long so as not to make the face look too narrow.

The office is not a family. At home, you are very free. You can do whatever you want, but the office is different, because you represent the company, and your image is always concerned by others.Therefore, as a professional woman, you must be careful in makeup.

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