Men love such a woman: 12 lessons a happy woman must take

Chapter 3 The secular reality, women are only "vulgar" to look real and cute (2)
Although she knew this, she didn't directly refuse, and went anyway. However, she didn't go alone, but brought a female companion who was usually very close to her.When the man saw Fei'er and the others, he was surprised at first, but before he could say anything, Fei'er smiled and spoke.She asked him what he wanted from her.Of course, a man can't say what he wants to say in front of Mayfair's companion.However, Fei'er didn't seem to know that the man liked her at all, and continued to associate with men as before, as if she didn't know anything.

Girls like Mayfair, they know the delicate emotional relationship between men and women, and they know that breaking it directly may embarrass both parties.In a modern society where we have always said that connections are wealth and relationships are competitiveness, a smart woman will not destroy the network of relationships.They also know that men always have a fantasy about women, especially beautiful women, and this fantasy is the motivation for men to bow down to them and serve them willingly for those naughty girls.

Because of this, they will not always keep a distance from such a man like those good women that people think, and even accuse the man of impure motives and break up with him.These naughty women, they know very well that those men have ghosts in their hearts, not only pretend not to know, but will also make a show of flattery at the right time, so that the flame of fantasy in the man's heart will never go out, making it difficult for men to guess The actual thoughts in their hearts make men feel in a dilemma and want to give up, but they still feel that there is still some slim hope.

A bad woman like this is definitely a smart woman, and a woman with good luck.But what I want to say here is that although these ring women shuttle between men like butterflies, they have their own attitude and are not the kind of women who don't understand the social distance they should have.

So, how can one become such a "bad" woman?You should have a charming face, a ruthless heart, steady and accurate shots, super-class sensitivity and appreciation for men, and do the following two things:
1.Dare to love, dare to hate, make men fascinated

There are many such women in real life. Once they find the feeling of love, they will go straight to the subject regardless of everything, use their temperament and body and mind to capture men, and find the value of women from men.Such a woman is loving, strong, and stimulating. This kind of soft and bone-like woman will make men ecstasy. Even if it is just a process, men are willing to accompany them, because it is this kind of "badness" of women that men understand. what a real woman.

2.Play tricks to make men willing to fight
A slightly smarter man can probably see through or penetrate this cute "little trick" of a woman.She is said to be cute because women show off thousands of coquettish and tricks in front of him for one purpose: to see if he really loves her.Digging into that purpose, the problem becomes clear: she loves you dearly.It is precisely because of this that this kind of scheming "bad" woman will never tire of getting you to pay attention to her all the time through countless details of life, countless words, expressions, postures, etc., so as to achieve deep communication with each other. Purpose.

The use is not innocent but stupid

I often see such women, they are like a high-speed machine all day long, busy with work and family, and have almost no free time.They feel that although this is a bit hard, they are sweet in their hearts. They always say to themselves that this is the only way to be happy.They believe that the happiness of those around them is their greatest happiness.

Women like this are indeed impeccable good women, they are really too kind, they consider others far more than themselves.Could it be that women can only be happy like this?
Ye Zi and Yan Lin are good friends.They are all beautiful, although their relationship is very good, but their personalities are completely different. Ye Zi seems to be a bit duty-bound, and belongs to the more traditional kind of child; Yan Lin seems a little dishonest compared to her. Yes, even some "bad bad".

Normally speaking, Ye Zi's life is much happier than Yan Lin's. In fact, it is just the opposite. The good woman praised by others is busy every day, and she hardly has a chance to take a breath. As soon as she walks into the office in the morning , there is a lot of work waiting for her to do, and when she returns home after get off work, she seems to be exhausted.However, no matter how hard she tried, all she could get was those salaries.But Yan Lin is just the opposite. Although she also works in a company, and her work is not much less than Ye Zi, she seems very relaxed, because she can always find suitable opportunities to ask others to assist her when she is working.

When Ye Zi was still struggling as an ordinary employee, Yan Lin was already the head of a department.When the pair of sisters get together occasionally, Ye Zi always complains about being tired.Every time at this time, Yan Lin would say that Ye Zi is too honest, and persuade Ye Zi to change, not to do everything alone, and sometimes, when it is time to use people, she must use them.

Yan Lin's words did not change Ye Zi in any way, she felt that was not good.She believes that as long as she works hard, the situation will change one day.

From the above examples, we can see that if a woman wants to obtain a lifetime of happiness and not keep herself busy all her life, she should be a little bit "bad". .In fact, this is not "utilized", because there are many things that those who are "utilized" take the initiative and are very willing to do.In many cases, some women don't realize this. Even if they hope to get help from others, they don't know what kind of psychology it is, but it is difficult to speak out, especially when facing the opposite sex. It's even more embarrassing to say it.

In fact, what does it matter if you say it?In this world, who has not encountered difficulties and needs help from others.Furthermore, you are just making such a request to others, and you are not asking others to give you help.Those naughty women never know how to ask others for help when they encounter difficulties; they will not be like those good women who refuse when the opposite sex offers to help her, but will take the initiative to ask for help. The man spoke.

These nasty women, they understand men's psychology very well, and know that men will play a "savior" role in front of women, even if they are not very good men, all this is caused by men's strange self-esteem, They don't want to be looked down upon by women.What's more, most men are fond of beauty, especially for some pretty girls.

Those naughty women who are like "goblins" are well aware of this weakness of men. When they need help, they will not hesitate to ask for help. When asking for help, they will pretend to be weak and needy. The appearance of someone helping and protecting.At this time, the man would puff up his chest and shoulder all the difficulties for her.

In the eyes of many women, doing this seems to be taking advantage of men, but you have to know that you are not forcing men to do it!Everything is voluntary.Maybe, you don't know yet, men are sometimes difficult to think about, and if you don't use them, they may still feel a little uncomfortable, thinking that you have something against them!This may also bring certain obstacles to the normal communication between you.That being the case, why should you feel ashamed?You have to know that if you use them at the right time, they will be very happy, and you can also save some unnecessary labor!

Love is as important as career, love is not a reason to sacrifice career

Deep in every woman's heart, no matter those good women who are praised by people, or some "bad" women, they are all full of longing for romantic love.It's just that the former may sacrifice their careers because of love; although the latter is also full of longing for love, they seldom give up their career ideals and pursuits.Such a woman, in the eyes of people, may be a bit disregarding her family, which is different from our traditional concept of "male dominates the outside and women dominates the inside". She is a somewhat restless woman.In fact, such a woman is a woman who really understands life, can obtain happiness, and is loved by men.

Here I want to tell women: Although men say they like women who are like small birds, they like this kind of feeling, not all women who depend on men.

It is a pity that in reality, many women sacrifice their careers for love for the sake of their beloved, to support and achieve their beloved, even if they are not very willing in their hearts.Women like this will gradually have a strong sense of dependence on men unconsciously, so that no matter what they do, they must rely on others, no matter where they go or do anything, if no one else is present , I don't know what to do.Even if a person acts alone, what is in his mind is still dependent on others.

(End of this chapter)